Jamie21

True, but it’s my Ford Focus so I decide what value it has for me. If it has the same value for you, then we have a deal.

Let me add….before anyone points it out…I don’t consider myself a Ferrari!

I want a Ferrari but I want to pay Toyota price. It’s not fair that the Ferrari dealer expects these prices. No wonder they don’t sell many Ferraris. Their loss I guess. 😉

Honestly you never know these days…some of the requests I get!

Yes that’s the post penetration mouthwash 🙂

And just as invasive

I always confirm with the client the day before. Just in case…

No that’s not right, maybe I wasn’t clear. I’m very happy to discuss requirements. What I’m not happy to do (because it invariably goes nowhere) is to engage in sex chat. There’s a difference. One is establishing what the client wants and agreeing whether or not I’m ok to do it, and the other is just a fantasy that the client has no intention of seeing through, he’s just getting off on the chat. From experience I can quickly tell when a discussion about requirements etc becomes sex chat. I close down the discussion at that point.

100% correct. Ask directly for what you want. Don’t chat about it. If clients want to chat about the session they never book. Waste of time.

Blowing the masseur is all part of the experience in my massage. I don’t upsell it. Not all clients want it but if they do, then they’re most welcome to have a good suck and if it leads to a mouthful that’s fine too. I’ve one regular client who likes to start the massage that way. I think some masseurs will consider cuming in the clients mouth an extra and charge more for it. I don’t because I like to make the massage flow nicely, and many clients fantasise about a great massage that turns more sexual. So it’s a proper massage and with sexual acts included. That’s the difficulty of having a menu type price list with massage. The massage gets very erotic because the intention is to seduce the person on the table, slowly but inexorably building the sexual tension up to a climax. As the massage goes on the touch becomes increasingly intimate and to have to stop and discuss a rate change part way through kills the spell. So I discuss what they’re comfortable with beforehand and the only thing that would change the price during the massage is if my client asks for more time, or if they want to top me.

Most I’d do is 3 a day. Use viagra if I’ve got a few clients in a day but it’s quite unusual to see 3 in a day. I wouldn’t normally schedule that. It’s also not necessary to be horny, although I think the more sex you have the more horny you get. But often I’m not horny before seeing a client, it’s still possible to perform, and in doing that I become horny, if that makes sense?

I’m more concerned about the poor people in Ukraine. There’s war again in Europe and people will be killed, made refugees and their country ruined and it’s all happening close to home. I hope the people of Russia rise up and rid themselves of Putin who has reduced the country to a pariah to feed his ego.

Seems fine to me. How would I know if the client has asked other providers unless he tells me, and why should he tell me? If he’s got a specific time he wants and I’m not available or I don’t respond in time that’s no problem to me. I get plenty of enquiries that I can’t do for one reason or another, usually because the client asks last minute. I don’t expect a client to come to me exclusively before checking other guys availability. This is a competitive business; here’s my rate, my availability, my service…if you like it great! If not good luck to you in finding someone else. Just be polite and respectful.

I’ve been hired to be watched with another guy. It’s great if my client likes to watch before becoming involved himself. It works best though if I’m performing with another sex worker that I know. We can put on a good show because we know what each other likes, it’s more realistic. But if the client engages us separately that’s fine too as long as I know what the arrangements are beforehand. I wouldn’t want such a thing to be a surprise. Other times I’m hired by a couple to massage and have sex with one of the couple while the other watches. The voyeur / exhibitionist (and indeed the cuckold) aspect for many couples is a big turn on. I enjoy those sessions because the group dynamic adds extra interest.

I get hired because of my size, some clients just like taking big cocks.

And don’t hire off Scruff. A proper provider wouldn’t advertise for business on there.

I advertised on masseurfinder…well I tried to advertise but they declined me because my advert was too explicit. I think they don’t want sensual/ erotic masseurs advertising on there. Rentmasseur is a better platform and I’m able to describe my service properly on there.

Agree it’s too risky / complicated to schedule when other escorts or masseurs are included. I only work with guys I’m familiar with. If a client asks me to join a session with an unknown escort or masseur then I say no.

I went to one of Brandon Anthony’s yoga sessions a few years ago when he visited London. A friend wanted to go so I agreed to go with him (against my better judgment). It wasn’t good. The location changed a day or so before the session. The new location wasn’t large enough for all the participants so we were squeezed in. There was a bit of yoga but then it was basically a toss off your neighbours session. It was funny watching the scrum to get close to the hot guys in the room…a strict ‘pecking order’ arose so that all the non hot guys were at the edges and the hot ones around the middle. It was curiously neither a proper yoga session nor a sex party, leaving you dissatisfied if you wanted to find an orgy and dissatisfied if you wanted to find a naked yoga workout. I like both but not something that is neither.

I think this thread could go on and on about the arguments around legality!

It could be the mindset behind viewing the enquiries as RFP’s or seeking “bids”. Usually if I get a request that looks like a fishing expedition…as in the client is asking around for the best “deal” then I know he’s not especially vested in meeting me. So I’m not going to be especially vested in the enquiry. All my info is on my website or profile. If the client likes it then they’ll maybe ask me a few questions which is fine, but I’m not entering into an RFP process. “Johnny is £20 cheaper so will you match his price?” will result in a response of “if you like Johnny book him”. Or Danny can see me tonight what about you?” will get “book Danny then”. You’ll find the best providers will never contact you for bookings and will never enter into a ‘bidding war’. If they quote you a high price then you can’t afford them, move on to someone who’s in your price range. As with everything the price doesn’t necessarily equate to the quality.

I guess you’re a lawyer. In that respect we both charge by the hour and in both instances the client gets screwed. 🙂 Please don’t sue me. I have no money (it’s all off shore…you won’t find any of it).

Yes there’s still a race element to how people are treated. Aside from peoples sexual preferences for a certain type of body which includes skin colour, complexion, hairy or smooth etc there’s the layer of prejudice that comes into play against some races unfortunately. It’s evident outside of the sex industry so there’s no reason to assume it doesn’t come into play inside it too. It’s a shame because even if one isn’t making choices on prejudice, but you just like say… Asian guys for sexual partners it’s actually enlightening to go beyond the initial physical attraction and choose guys you’d not necessarily be immediately physically attracted to. So try out non Asian guys. What you find is that great sex (and more) can happen with someone who isn’t your normally preferred type. Go beyond the physical and get to know the person under the skin colour, and the attraction can be found. Attraction beyond the superficiality of physical attributes can be stronger and more interesting. I always think the brain is the biggest sex organ. It’s a pity that prejudice on racial grounds prevents many people from getting to know people who they’d really have a great time with if only they’d open their mind (and of course ‘pity’ is an understatement in my very English way 🙂).

What’s the ‘All American’ look? Is it another way of saying ‘young fit white guy’? If so I’d say the look probably would get a lot of inquiries. Most of the adverts on places like Rentmen and similar sites are by that type of guy if you go by the pictures so I assume that’s what the market wants. There’s also markets for other looks but maybe they’re not so big. Example you don’t see many adverts with ginger haired pale guys who are extremely overweight? Some people love that look but the adverts aren’t full of those guys looking for clients so I guess it’s niche. It’s pointless bemoaning the fact that the market likes something you’re not, and can never be. I’ll never be 23 again so I’m not going to complain the 23 year olds are doing great business. I’ve got my market and I make the best of it. The classic song from Gloria Gaynor comes to mind: I am what I amI don't want praise I don't want pityI bang my own drumSome think it's noise I think it's prettyAnd so what if I love each sparkle and each bangleWhy not try to see things from a different angleYour life is a shame til you can shout out I am what I am I think that says it all…

I’m probably too laid back sometimes ha ha. I like to please, it can get me into trouble.