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So basically you're saying you're a gay man 🤣

I actually think that no-shows probably have a lot to do with fear and nerves. As providers, you guys see lots of different clients...we are just another guy. But, as clients, some of us only see providers every couple of month. I have several different providers that I see and I do get butterflies in my stomach before EVERY appointment. Most of us are married guys that are stepping outside of our comfort zone.. I have never been a no-show, and I will never be one. It's just plain douchey to do to someone!! Keep in mind that it can be intimidating meeting with you guys that are most likely was more experienced and confident!

I actually think that no-shows probably have a lot to do with fear and nerves. As providers, you guys see lots of different clients...we are just another guy. But, as clients, some of us only see providers every couple of month. I have several different providers that I see and I do get butterflies in my stomach before EVERY appointment. Most of us are married guys that are stepping outside of our comfort zone.. I have never been a no-show, and I will never be one. It's just plain douchey to do to someone!! Keep in mind that it can be intimidating meeting with you guys that are most likely was more experienced and confident!

There’s a similar feature on Rentmasseur, it tells me when people have viewed my profile and suggests “a premium Rentmasseur client has viewed your profile…he may be interested in you so consider contacting him etc”. I never do initiate contact because I think it’s up to them. 
Some of these premium Rentmasseur clients view my profile dozens of times. Maybe they’re rubbing one out to the pics, and that’s fine (if that’s you …I have a justforfans 😉) but I think it’s more likely they’re just thinking about it.
I reckon it takes a lot of intention to hire a sex worker because of the nature of the work and all the issues that surround it. If my clients have put a lot of thought into hiring me then that’s great. I want that. Clients who hire on a whim tend to be more flaky, treat you like you’re a commodity and don’t value the service. I don’t need that. Give me someone who’s thought long and hard about it, is invested in the decision and who has seen what I’m about and said “yes I’d like to meet him”. 

Those guys also do your windows

It's been debated since Christ was a child. 
Keep in mind that the ads are as masseurs, not full-on "escorts". 

I guess I don't have a choice. I need to fly to London. 

Cheerleader's practice, coach?

I actually think that no-shows probably have a lot to do with fear and nerves. As providers, you guys see lots of different clients...we are just another guy. But, as clients, some of us only see providers every couple of month. I have several different providers that I see and I do get butterflies in my stomach before EVERY appointment. Most of us are married guys that are stepping outside of our comfort zone.. I have never been a no-show, and I will never be one. It's just plain douchey to do to someone!! Keep in mind that it can be intimidating meeting with you guys that are most likely was more experienced and confident!

I actually think that no-shows probably have a lot to do with fear and nerves. As providers, you guys see lots of different clients...we are just another guy. But, as clients, some of us only see providers every couple of month. I have several different providers that I see and I do get butterflies in my stomach before EVERY appointment. Most of us are married guys that are stepping outside of our comfort zone.. I have never been a no-show, and I will never be one. It's just plain douchey to do to someone!! Keep in mind that it can be intimidating meeting with you guys that are most likely was more experienced and confident!

I actually think that no-shows probably have a lot to do with fear and nerves. As providers, you guys see lots of different clients...we are just another guy. But, as clients, some of us only see providers every couple of month. I have several different providers that I see and I do get butterflies in my stomach before EVERY appointment. Most of us are married guys that are stepping outside of our comfort zone.. I have never been a no-show, and I will never be one. It's just plain douchey to do to someone!! Keep in mind that it can be intimidating meeting with you guys that are most likely was more experienced and confident!

I actually think that no-shows probably have a lot to do with fear and nerves. As providers, you guys see lots of different clients...we are just another guy. But, as clients, some of us only see providers every couple of month. I have several different providers that I see and I do get butterflies in my stomach before EVERY appointment. Most of us are married guys that are stepping outside of our comfort zone.. I have never been a no-show, and I will never be one. It's just plain douchey to do to someone!! Keep in mind that it can be intimidating meeting with you guys that are most likely was more experienced and confident!

Yup...
Nike Pro and SKINS are my faves.
 

This might work for a subset of escorts who want to work shorter, hourly frames of time, but if you want to earn career money, I don't know if this is an ideal way to go.
You never put your client on the spot with a focus group:  It ruins what should have been a fun time spent by bringing it back to business.  You can more easily email these kinds of questions later, if necessary.
Guys- at least the men I see- aren't hiring me to be reminded that they're paying for my service.  They want to relax, vacation, enjoy, cut loose and simply have a friend with them who makes it all flow and feel easy.

Hello,
 
 First I request there be no negative feedback. My dilemma is that I am an old 'baby boomer' who has never lived as a gay man. I married years ago and raised a family. I am not willing to give up my family. What I want is to find friend(s) in similar situations. When I say friends, I mean that. Not sex, but just conversation about our shared situation. I live in Delco, PA. I have tried to find groups and 'chat' rooms for this, but no luck. Is there anyone out there reading this who is living in the area (outside Philadelphia)? Some of the younger men do not seem to understand that us older guys have a completely different life and grew up in a very different time. I am actually expecting some negative feedback, but I will ignore that. Thanks in advance.

Jesse Ares and Damien Crosse are a fav of mine. Reposting because the original link is dead.
https://manporn.xxx/videos/3336844/the-masseur/
 

CDs? May as well break out the 8-tracks. 

Having a guy jack me off for the last 2 minutes of a mediocre massage (usually) is definitely not the same as sex and I expect the rate to reflect that.   

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 
 
I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 
 
Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 
 
In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 
 
I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 
 
Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 
 
That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 
 
Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 
 
It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 
 
I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 
 
I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 
 
I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 
 
I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 
 
To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 
 
To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 
 
I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

I recently had a massage with Rony. His breathing sound didn't bother me in the least. It was a very relaxing and sensual massage. He uses his hands and body. I had free range to touch him, and did so. By the time the massage was nearly over his uncut dick had thickened nicely. 

Ehh... you've seen one member, you've seen them all.

Maybe his name is Richard and he lives in Death Valley

Not sure if I should be posting these here or not. I am a big fan of underwear/gear and since you were looking for some pics I thought I’d share a few. I made sure there are some tighty whities in there for you guys. Hope it’s okay.