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    CheckCar got a reaction from ketut in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    The latest from the blokes at Melbourne Muscular Therapies 🍑
    https://youtu.be/aiMddZznyn4
     
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    CheckCar got a reaction from TruthBTold in Men Often Make Passes at Guys Who Wear Glasses   
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    CheckCar got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Blow job lips   
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    CheckCar reacted to rhh33 in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Great video!  I wish the video was more like the title...  I like to watch where there is some reluctance and the lower brain takes over.
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    CheckCar reacted to + WstVlgChris in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    The client is certainly moaning and spasming during his orgasm!  Very hot; thanks for posting.
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    CheckCar got a reaction from musclestuduws in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    https://www.xvideos.com/video70436163/straight_ginger_wrestler_can_t_hide_an_erection_on_a_massage_table_worldstudz
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    CheckCar reacted to + purplekow in Loss of libido   
    Just to be clear. Libido is sexual desire and Viagra and those typer of drugs have little if any effect on libido.  Erectile dysfunction rather than libido is the loss of the ability to obtain an erection and those same medications are sometimes helpful if you have blood flow issues which are remediable. 
    Loss of libido has many causes.  Depression is certainly a prime mover in this regard.  Sadly, antidepressants and other medications are a frequent cause of not only loss of libido but also a decrease in function.  Antihypertensives also have the ability to decreased function and desire.  Beta blockers such as propranolol, metoprolol, and cardiac beta blockers which are used for heart failure and coronary artery disease or for atrial fibrillation, such as carvedilol are frequent culprits.  If you should develop either loss of libido or ED after starting a new medication or even after a prolonged time on a medication known to cause it, contact you doctor and see if another medication can be used.  Sometimes a medication in the same class will cause less of a problem.  
    Carrying excess weight has the ability to increase levels of male estrogen and decrease the level of testosterone, so losing weight is a great way to slightly increase testosterone and of course the improvement in your appearance can also get the juices flowing a bit more gingerly.  
    So.   Diet and weight loss   Exercise.    Review of medications.  Appropriate medications to help with diseases which may be underlying the decrease in sexual desire and function.  Are good places to start.   And while stimulation such as porn can help in the short run, sometimes that may actually dull your response and lead to your needing more or more intense kinds of stimulation.  So be judicious in your porn use as an alternative.  
    Best advice I have for this, talk to a doctor.  Find one who is willing to speak frankly about such issues rather than throw medication such as Viagra at you when that is not the issue.  Do not hesitate to be frank with your doctor.  Lots of men have told me after finally broaching the subject, that they had been in for several visits, or had seen several doctors, before bringing up the subject of bringing it up.  
    Aging will definitely play a role, but I recall very well a patient of my who at 86 years of age, Brought up the subject and with some minor adjustments and in his medications, he was able to resume satisfying sexual function several times a week..  This did have a down side for me as his physician however, as he was so pleased with his new found ability and prowess that he would often start a visit with something along the lines of  "Doc, I want to thank you again.  I was able to have sex four times this week and I came all over my wife's tits like I did when I was 25".  I was happy for him but could not get that image out of my head for the rest of the day.   
    Shortly thereafter during his wife's visit, I was requested to try and dial back the effectiveness of my treatment for him.  I proposed that instead we work on trying to have her have a better experience.  But that is a different topic and led to an equally unnerving mind's eye picture.  
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    CheckCar got a reaction from + augustus in Thick Dick   
    I could do without the tatts, but everything else looks pretty good. 

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    CheckCar got a reaction from MenLoveAvenue in NYC gay bar hangout(s) for seniors?   
    I’m not a moderator, but I’m still going to suggest that we get back to the OP’s question. 
    I suspect some of the gay seniors in places like The Monster’s upstairs space were among those who fought, organized, and sacrificed for our community. They deserve social spaces that are gay-senior-friendly, and I’m eager to know where those spaces are.
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    CheckCar reacted to + sniper in Anyone else doing Adonis NYC tonight?   
    I suspect the problem with posting a lineup is that some of the email listers have more money than god, see someone on the menu, contact them directly, and make them a better offer.  If you're a dancer, going to a show there's always a random chance you make very little money that night depending on who shows up, so it someone offers you a sure couple thousand, you're going to take it and bail on the show.
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    CheckCar got a reaction from tennisjock in 411 on Mancare in SD   
    I did the 4-hand option with Mancare and his partner, https://rentmasseur.com/Breen
    PM me for details if interested.
    Also, Mancare was discussed in the Deli:
     
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    CheckCar reacted to + JEC in THANK YOU Radio Rob   
    Guys, it's been several months now since @RadioRob took the reins as webmaster for this site.  By all accounts the site is better, more contemporary, has more features and forums, and has a even-handed webmaster (and group of moderators) than previously (with no disrespect to those who carried the torch before).    @RadioRob does an amazing amount of work quietly, consistently, without fanfare and without seeking or expecting praise.   The site, and this community are thriving and we are a better community for his efforts.   Please take a moment to acknowledge his work, and to donate to this site here:  https://www.companyofmen.org/store/category/1-one-time-donations/  
    Thanks Rob........!

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    CheckCar got a reaction from BriansBodywork in 411 on MANLYBUDY   
    Super-odd experience. I texted him a few days ago to check his availability and heard no response. When I tried again today — and followed up with a message via his Rent men account, just in case he didn’t receive either of my two messages (sent days apart)  — not only did he not respond, but it appears he also blocked me on Rent men.
    First time this has happened to me. My message was tame and straightforward, so I’m not sure what scared him off. Oh well, hopefully others have better luck than I did. 🤞
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    CheckCar reacted to + Coolwave35 in Anyone else doing Adonis NYC tonight?   
    We were In a private room, I’m a lady. 
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    CheckCar got a reaction from kyleham in 411 on Ken_NYC   
    Add me to the growing legion of Ken fans. I had a wonderful session with him, and I look forward to more in the future. PM if interested in details. 
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    CheckCar got a reaction from Marc in Calif in NYC gay bar hangout(s) for seniors?   
    I’m not a moderator, but I’m still going to suggest that we get back to the OP’s question. 
    I suspect some of the gay seniors in places like The Monster’s upstairs space were among those who fought, organized, and sacrificed for our community. They deserve social spaces that are gay-senior-friendly, and I’m eager to know where those spaces are.
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    CheckCar got a reaction from sbguy in turkishmuscle currently in NYC   
    Here’s a pic from the private photos. This is what I was referring to when I said that I’ve seen him before online but probably under a different screenname. Sorry for not being clear.
    Anyone recognize him?
     

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    CheckCar got a reaction from bichiguy in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Check out Mark Alvee’s videos on YouTube before they get taken down.
     
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    CheckCar reacted to shadeheffashade in Sebastian & Camilo in DC   
    I can corroborate what was posted in the other thread: 
    I only saw Camilo but he doesn't let you kiss him on the mouth, demands the money upfront, doesn't provide actual rates beforehand (or changes them), and rushes you (the total encounter was 45 mins including the 10 mins it took me to Zelle him the money and a small chat we had after the session was done.)
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    CheckCar got a reaction from GeoMitch in Mathianis   
    To be fair, some (maybe even many?) of the guys who are immigrants may have legitimate expenses they are trying cover. I’ve been involved with a few guys in the past from the Caribbean and Latin America who had to survive in an American city with high costs of living while sending money back to their families in their home country. And if they were undocumented, their work options were extremely limited.
    Ultimately, I passed on Mathianis since I wasn’t ready to pay his high fee. But I want to caution myself against assuming that he’s just greedy and unscrupulous. 
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    CheckCar got a reaction from GeoMitch in Mathianis   
    I reached out to him recently for an outcall. First he quoted $600/hour. When I told him that $600 was above my budget, he went down to $500. I quickly realized that he was out of my price range, so I politely told him I’d have to pass. By the time he went down to $350/hour for an in-call, I had already confirmed an outcall with another provider who was in my price range.
    I’ve never negotiated over a provider’s rate, and I wasn’t trying to do so in this instance (honestly, I was caught off-guard when he started lowering his rate). For those of you who’ve had good experiences with Mathianis, would you say that the experience is worth the higher rate? I might give him a try if I knew that he offered something special that the $300/hour providers don’t. 
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    CheckCar reacted to curt gregory in 411 on FEDE_ME   
    Gentlemen - let’s all take a deep breath.  All are welcome…..
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    CheckCar got a reaction from guru68 in Time to shower   
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    CheckCar got a reaction from JUWS in Jordanlatin in NYC   
    https://rentmasseur.com/Jordanlatin
     
    Anyone with firsthand experience that you’re willing to share?
     
    There are 2 thread about him in The Deli (he has a rent men account), but neither includes insights from anyone who has met him. 
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    CheckCar got a reaction from kyleham in NYC gay bar hangout(s) for seniors?   
    I’m not a moderator, but I’m still going to suggest that we get back to the OP’s question. 
    I suspect some of the gay seniors in places like The Monster’s upstairs space were among those who fought, organized, and sacrificed for our community. They deserve social spaces that are gay-senior-friendly, and I’m eager to know where those spaces are.
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