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“Massage from men you can trust.”
That’s a big claim.

How was BD's last night?   I was planning on going but then got distracted and forgot.  Is it recommended to get there ~9pm when the dancers start or later in the night?

“Cautious Debauchery” - I’m far too vanilla for this discussion but that’s a fascinating concept for me. 

Personally, I don’t think you are being too hygienic.  I’m amazed at the number of guys who pull me out and then start sucking.   I definitely don’t want a kiss after that.  There was a recent post here about the spread of shigella that taught me something 
 

Even if I'm the bottom in a threesome, I keep wet wipes at hand so dicks can easily be wiped off between asses or going from ass to mouth. It's not remotely a mood killer. I've been to a few sex parties, and it's very common to see guys just kneel in front of someone and start sucking their dick. After I watched many of them top other guys, there was no chance I was going to just blow them.  I did notice some guys going and washing themselves between partners but it didn't seem consistent. I work in infectious disease and have no desire to end up deathly ill from a GI STI. 

This is one of my nightmares as well whenever a masseur climbs on the table with me. I’m glad to hear that you’re okay.

I echo opening up with a massage. In my experience, it’s a great way to relax and ease into the session while still working toward the main event.
I also like to massage the provider a bit before diving into things. Doing so allows me to surreptitiously inspect the provider’s body for any suspicious bumps or odors in the groin area that might raise concern (especially during my first time with a provider). It can also help me to build rapport with him, particularly if I work out some of his knots. 🙂 
A glass or two of wine — or sometimes a shot of liquor — can fill up time while adding to the ambiance. Just be sure to check that the bottle is unopened and the glasses are clean (again, especially during the first time with a provider).
 

Conspiracies aside this is a very sweet short film, featuring Dorothy. 😉
https://youtu.be/CMqUMXn7y5g
 

Back from 4 nights in Montreal -- good, bad and ugly (in the eyes of the beholder).  I went to to both Campus and Stock on Thursday night.  Campus has a decent line up of athletic guys, some of whom can also hold your attention with their pole gymnastics, but none were as stunning the dancers from the past.   The line-up was the consistent the four nights I was there with little variation.  Almost half of the dancers were Latino or non-French Canadian.  More surprsingly was that the dancers didn't all come out naked for their 2nd song on stage, which was customary before.  And more distressingly, the number of female patrons was at least 30% on Friday and Saturday nights, and as has been noted, the dancers gravitate toward the shreiking girls in the audience.  The vibe at Campus has changed along with the gay village itself...there were many more younger patrons on the weekend nights, but they seemed less interested in the dancers on stage than the older patrons were.  Unfortunately, the younger crowd doesn't seem to be there for the spectacle of swinging dicks and hot bodies on stage.  Sunday was very slow, and one of the dancers I spoke with said he dances at Campus on Thurs - Sun, and does Only Fans the other nights of the week - so the trend isn't looking good for live 7 days a week nude entertainment.  
As for Stock, I ventured in on Thursday to see the "Boys Boys Boys" they advertise on their neon sign above the lobby, only to be met with two performers on stage who were definitely not boys...but rather boys who identify as women dressed in S&M leather gear.  It wasn't my cup of tea so I left and returned to Campus almost immediately.  I decided to give a second chance to Stock on Saturday night and they had male dancers who were mostly average looking.  There was one who did a Cirque du Soleil inspired pole dance, and was quite good, but I'm not going to a strip bar for circus acts.  There were also bachelorette parties in the club which made the whole vibe less than appealing.  Stock is nothing like it was in its heyday or even worth a trip to Montreal in my opinion anymore.  Sadly, the new owners have completely strayed so far, that is is unrecognizable as the pantheon it once was for perusing the male physique.  

I echo opening up with a massage. In my experience, it’s a great way to relax and ease into the session while still working toward the main event.
I also like to massage the provider a bit before diving into things. Doing so allows me to surreptitiously inspect the provider’s body for any suspicious bumps or odors in the groin area that might raise concern (especially during my first time with a provider). It can also help me to build rapport with him, particularly if I work out some of his knots. 🙂 
A glass or two of wine — or sometimes a shot of liquor — can fill up time while adding to the ambiance. Just be sure to check that the bottle is unopened and the glasses are clean (again, especially during the first time with a provider).
 

If the man's rates are reasonable and offers massage, my desired session length is 2 hours to include massage then play.
For strictly sex sessions, I typically just hire for 1 hour but recently hired a man for 90 minutes and it started with talking/drinking/making out, then fucking, then a cuddle/kiss/talk, then a "now time for Round 2" of fucking.

I have to agree that 90 minutes is ideal for some chat, some foreplay, the "main event" and then some pillow talk. 

I had the same issue for the longest time. One hour usually too short but two hours can sometimes be way too long. Someone on here suggested inquiring about a 90 min session and pretty much every provider since that has been ok with it. I usually will first ask a provider's one and two hour rate and then offer whatever the middle is of the two rates.

Just in case this hasn’t already been posted: Jan Kosto and Malik Delgaty
 

I find the knowing “tease” entertaining 

This is one of my nightmares as well whenever a masseur climbs on the table with me. I’m glad to hear that you’re okay.

I find the knowing “tease” entertaining 

I find the knowing “tease” entertaining 

mmmm you can see he's starting to get hard. Pity it's Youtube...

Just in case this hasn’t already been posted: Jan Kosto and Malik Delgaty
 

Dude, you're fighting with a bot that joined 4 hours ago

heads-up on the spread of a drug-resistant strand of shigella among queer men
https://www.advocate.com/health/sexual-health/what-is-shigella#rebelltitem2
 

If you are taking it from more than one top and he is hitting bottoms around the room, you can definitely be infected if he is not cleaning off between bangs.  So the wise thing is to make sure he is cleaned off properly, use a condom, or not participate in these activities.  As the last two are unlikely, you need to ensure that he has cleaned up and the best way to do that is to clean him yourself with an antibacterial soap and a thorough wash and dry.  

heads-up on the spread of a drug-resistant strand of shigella among queer men
https://www.advocate.com/health/sexual-health/what-is-shigella#rebelltitem2