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I'm pretty sure he used another profile name before. I see the PNP so I am not interested though I agree he is handsome.

A lot of Denver guys would have no problem travelling to Vail. It's only a bit more than 1 1/2 hours away and during the week there's little traffic. It looks like a sunny week so truly it would not be a problem. This guy is currently in Breckenridge, another (in my opinion much better) ski town only about 40 minutes or so away from Vail. Once your on that side of the tunnel, truly these aren't siginificant distances and likely he wouldn't have much problem travelling to Vail for a client. 

If you look at BoyCharm's travel schedule, he heads to Palm Springs tomorrow so he's probably a no-go. But really a lot of Denver guys would have no problem making that trip.

Of course. You still pay for a meal at a restaurant or a play at the theater even if you didn't like it. Doesn't mean you have to ever see that provider again but yes you should always pay what is agreed upon even if the experience was not great. That's really just common sense.

RIP. TimTales had such a distinct style and aesthetic. It's hard to do something unique in porn but Tim did that. Truly a pioneer.

He also has had his profile since 2017 which if he is currently 25 means he started the profile at age 17-18. I don't think so. He definitely looks more in his 30s than his 20s.

He changes his name a lot. If you look up "Otto" you'll see some of his previous names and discussion. He lived in Denver for a long time but I also think lived in Chicago for a while. Not sure if he's just visiting DC or he lives there now. I met with him twice, one experience was fine but the other was one of my worst experiences hiring and I would not recommend him. If you see his profile, he lists PNP and that's all you need to know.

One of my regulars decided to eliminate any face pictures from his RM profile as an abundance of caution. 

A little bit lower for me. Was in relationships for much of 2024 and didn't hire. I'd say still about 4-5K though. But 1K of that was just a threesome in San Francisco with two guys. 

I definitely would be hire you based on these pics. Don't think you need any face pics and I think people need to do a better job of respecting escorts' privacy in that regard.

The one pic I might recommend is a nice pic of your thighs/legs. It looks like you have very nice strong legs and that is a big personal turn on for me, so that is what I would recommend. No need for ass pics since you are a top (and that actually might give the wrong idea. But I nice pic of like waist-down with your dick in it. 🤩

Sniffies works well for orgies and group activities. It's true some of them involve drugs or are just cum dumps but I've gotten word on a couple of fun groups. Many of them are regular and the main way they advertise them is through Sniffies. 

2 minutes ago, Lookin___ said:

If you don’t mind me asking, I am Look8ng for a specific experience in NYC when I go next month. How do I find someone on here that is verified?

You start the search on RM then copy that name into the search bar. If you find the name and lots of positive experiences with members than he's probably good. 

4 minutes ago, Lookin___ said:

No I did not. It was only $100.  He wanted $500 more.  I am still learning as I have only done it a couple of times. It sounds like I was being to open, trustworthy and honest. 

Honestly your situation sounds more like a scam than a police thing. A $100 deposit is kind of a lot. I have occasionally done a like $25-50 deposit for a few select escorts that I know are real. This sounds all very sus. Move on to someone more verified on here if you are new.

I have seen this guy IRL and he definitely looks like his pictures. I believe he occasionally does go-go dancing at a local bar here in Denver. Not really my type honestly so no experience beyond just seeing him dance. He looks good though...skinny twink type. His age of early 30s is probably accurate as well.

In general definitely don't do a deposit.  Also in general it's best to be kind of general. haha. Instead of saying, "I'd like you to fuck me doggy," for example. You say, "When I am with guys I love to be fucked doggy." Technically the first is a specific sex act that if you exchange money for, could be technically cosnidered prostitution. In the second you are just saying what you are into sexually with another person. I also always ask, "What do you request for an hour of your time?" Instead of "How much for sex?"

This is why a lot of escorts ask the question, "What are you into?" Instead of "What do you want me to do?"

It's semantics but legally there is a difference there.

But no, I don't think police are on RM and I think you are probably being paranoid. 

As a client, I really look for CMT or licenced or that kind of language when looking for a massage because yes a lot of "masseurs" don't really do that great of  massage and you are basically paying them $200 to jack you off.

But definitely a masseur who is on both sites is a sign that it could go farther. I had a good regular who basically did the massage first and then the sex and shockingly only charged me $200. I would have paid more but he insisted that was his rate. Still tipped him everytime and we met probably at least once a month before he moved to California.

A masseur who is actually a good masseur and a good escort is rare IMO. 

2 minutes ago, Venite said:

Oh lord. Was he the proposed bottom of the meeting? 

Allegedly vers. I was actually fine just bottoming. But yeah he just didn't feel well. He said the altitude and alcohol got to him. Unfortunately he was only in Denver one day and didn't want to meet in the morning either. We even had planned a longer session but yeah I guess those margaritas and tacos got to him. haha

Is this a strange case where the escort is actually more muscular a fit than the pictures? I wanted a chubby cub not a body builder! haha

Mostly regulars so mostly good experiences. But some guys are really flaky. I had my eye on a guy from LA with great reviews on here. He finally made a visit to Denver apparently to visit Casa Bonita. We made specific plans to meet after his visit but apparently he got drunk and bloated and cancelled on me last minute. Casa Bonita was the red flag. No one leaves there feeling well.  Haha

38 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

Clients and providers, including @ICTJOCK please stop judging other people’s kinks and fetishes you don’t understand. There are safer, more responsible ways to indulge clients into this particular kink. It’s not for everyone, and that’s ok. Not every provider will be good at, or interested in providing this service. That is also ok.

Live and let live.

But I do think many of us are bringing up the reality than when FinDom is usually mentioned on an Escort's profile or brought up in a message, they are not doing it responsibly. It's not "smoke and mirrors." In many cases, it's one person really taking advantage of another person who can lose quite a lot in the process.

I agree that it can be done responsibly and I applaud you and Benjamin for clearly understanding what it is and being responsible with it. Both Dom and Sub really need to have a clear communication and consent of what is happening.

When I get a message from an escort, "Are you into FinDom?" It's not that...90% of the time. 

3 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Findom, if you're doing it correctly and it's profitable, is a LOT of work.  Don't fool yourself into thinking it's just magic money that grows on trees.

You have to be super present, super responsible and incredibly creative.

I don't doubt there's some guys that do it well and do it responsibly. But I think the majority of guys who are messaging clients asking if they are into FinDom are not that.  My one experience with it was very bad.

9 minutes ago, Vin Marco said:

And on the flip side, people in London ( clients ) seem to be really good at keeping their commitments or at least that's been my experience. Not much of a cancel culture as it applies to the skin trade 💪🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

Yeah the London guy was one of the few times I did a deposit. I wanted a longer session and he agreed but because I was a new client and an American he wanted 50 pounds to reserve the spot. I actually ended up having flight problems  and couldn't make the initial time but fortunately he was a nice chap and agreed to use the deposit to reserve another time two days later and it worked out really well. 

What ApexNomad said is completely valid. Some people are into this form of BDSM. However if an escort asks me if I am into FinDom, I consider that a huge red flag. To me that means the escort is trying to make a lot of money without doing much work.

That said, if this is something you're into and there are escorts that list FinDom as a fetish. Certainly you can definitely contact them and arrange something. But usually it's a bad sign when the escort is asking that of a client. The one time I kind of got into a situation like that I really didn't enjoy it. He literally wanted access to my Venmo so I could send him like money for every 15 minutes with him. 

Some guys might have that money to burn, but I'm not one of them at all and I think if you don't know about FinDom, you're probably not into it. 

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

I've had similar experiences.

Hired one fellow for a massage. Ended up fucking him way past the scheduled hour. Invited him to dinner. Returned to my room for another hour of fun. Hung out till midnight chatting and met him the following day at the Tate Modern to see an exhibit we both had an interest in seeing. Then back to my hotel for more sex and then a nice lunch.

A very bright intelligent and handsome young man. Who was a university student doing escort/massage to make extra cash. He's working now and no longer escorting but I still see him when I'm alone in London for dinner and a hot fuck.

In general, European escorts are much more generous with their time.  Similar thing happened with an escort in Paris. I think part of it is that the cost of living is lower. The Parisian lived in a subsidized apartment that was only 900 euros a month, which was easily covered by his "day job" as a fashion photography assistant. So the escorting was just a way to make a bit of extra money for travel and meet new people. He actually took me to a gallery where he had a few of his photographs in exhibition. I still follow his Intagram. He does some really cool art. 

15 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

True. London is expensive. But only central London. You can literally walk to counsel housing flats from every point in the city.  I've always found the prices for providers in London to be very reasonable. And the company is usually very respectful too. I usually end up buying dinner and chatting with them after sex.  I've met some very bright young men in London who escort on the side.

Definitely agree! My one experience with an escort in London was so wondeful and positive. We ended up spending a whole afternoon and evening together for just the one-hour session price. I of course paid for dinner but we even went and got gelato and he insisted he paid for it. Very friendly guy...we had some great conversations.

I think quite a few escorts have partners. I don't think that is unusual at all and in fact I would in fact assume most do. Gay men often have "open" relationships even in very long-term and supportive relationships. I think you should assume that most of the escorts/masseurs you're seeing have someone at home. And many clients do too!