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  1. 31 minutes ago, ShortCutie7 said:

    I see what you mean, but for me it is because I have never felt romantic love.

    Me neither. I’ve never felt what it’s like to truly be in love with someone intimately. I’ve had many sexual encounters, but never any romantic relationships. For a while I thought I was aromantic, (not to be confused with asexual). Just because I’m strictly into the physical act of having sex, and not the hand holding, cuddling, even kissing, and other acts of intimacy. I see a therapist to help work out these things. She doesn’t think I’m aromantic, but she thinks I have a sex addiction.

  2. 29 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

    I am not straight or bisexual.  Whenever I get my balls and penis waxed, whether by a man or woman, I always get an erection.  I also get an erection when disrobed at the doctor's office alone in the room and waiting for the nurse or doctor to come in to examine me, not knowing if the nurse or doctor will be man or woman.  I don't want to have sex with these people, yet I get an erection.

    I'll get an erection when the wind blows and I'm naked, alone, by the pool.  Same when I'm close to a water jet in a hot tub.  The wind or water jet is neither male nor female, yet it gets me hard!

    The statement above is akin to saying a gay escort can't get an erection with a client that they are not attracted to.  Bologna.  Besides, straight men get erections all the time when having sex with their own man hand during masturbation.

    That’s interesting. I don’t think I’ve ever got an erection from a woman doctor examining me down there. Though I’ve only had one female doctor examine my genitals. My dick stays soft even at the idea of a woman touching it. Whereas with male doctors I have to try very hard to not get hard when I am touched down there, regardless of the age, or attractiveness of the male doctor. Even when a male doctor touches or examines my stomach I get at least a semi hard on. 

    I do think some escorts lie about their sexual orientation on rentmen, but it’s ok. Many gay escorts advertise as bisexual. My regular I see identifies as straight and is married to a woman with kids. But he has no trouble getting hard or cumming for me, so I guess he’s more gay for pay, as he has told me he is not interested in men romantically, but only if being paid money is involved. It’s weird because he told me he doesn’t even check out other guys, just women. I guess to him a hole is a hole.

  3. I don’t like the whole idea that there are reasons people are gay or become gay. It goes against the born this way philosophy in my opinion. If people think there are reasons for being or becoming gay, people might think there are ways to not become gay or ways to become straight. Which makes it seem like being gay is a lifestyle choice, which we all know it isn’t.

  4. I like to rim providers with nice butts. I’ve had to ask providers to shower before rimming them. Or sometimes they would tell me they need to shower first before getting rimmed. So I guess it goes both ways.

  5. Preferably before the meeting. I’m pretty vanilla, but I do enjoy dirty talk and verbal domination, which most providers I meet are able to accommodate me for that. However some providers are turned off by being dominant verbally in the bedroom. So just let them know in advance what your likes are. Though some providers can be prudish at discussing sexual details before a session.

  6. 19 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

    Did you have to pay for sex in your 20s too ? 

    This topic has been discussed over and over again. I personally have been hiring since I was 20 years old. I do it for the convenience. Not because I can’t get any sex on my own. There are no bathhouses where I live or gay villages, and just one gay bar. Grindr is just not reliable for me. Trading pictures, ghosting, etc. Yes I believe attractive, young, in shape people hire too. Hiring is not just for people who can’t get any sex on their own.

  7. 3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

    This is very simple.

    If you're PAYING someone for sex, they're not actually into you.

    *boom*

     

    I don’t think it’s that simple actually. I’m not bragging, but many of the guys that I’ve hired love getting sucked or rimmed by me. I can tell they like it because they have no problem getting hard or cumming. I don’t bottom as I am a side, but escorts are always asking me if I would like to bottom for them. Some people just like sex. 

  8. 2 hours ago, samhexum said:

     

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    I'm late to the party on Ari.  Is he gay?  Wikipedia says he's divorced from Drew Grant.  I suppose Drew could be a woman's name...

    Yes Drew Grant was a woman he divorced. He is supposedly not in a relationship now. Little is known about his private dating life. I find him very attractive. 

  9. Just listened to the whole Eternal Sunshine album. It was quite a vibe. Very dark and moody. You can really hear the vulnerability in her voice. It will be a battle of the pop divas this year with Taylor’s new album coming out next month and Beyonce’s first country album out later this month as well. 

  10. 36 minutes ago, Jostar said:

    I seen him many times when he use to come to my city a couple years ago. He great guy and he hot under the sheets. love his humor, doesn't take himself self serious, good vibes. The problem I have with him sometimes he can be flaky and never reply back.  It can be very hard making a appointment with him 

    I never met him. But yes I remember he ghosted me when texting him. He would respond to a few texts then vanish.

  11. 1 hour ago, jgkarma said:

    Thanks, Caramel! I am in my sixties, do you think he will have an issue with an older client?

    Hi. I can’t speak for him, but he has a ton of positive reviews. So I’m assuming he has been with clients of various ages. Many providers even prefer meeting with older clients. Being young and hot doesn’t always matter to many providers who are in the business of getting paid to get laid.

  12. I don’t know. A fake escort attempted to sextort me a couple of years ago. But he had done the same to many others clients. There was a post on the deli forum warning against him. I forgot his username, but he is no longer active on rentmen. I just ended up blocking him. He used two different phone numbers. I blocked both of them. He found my real name, family info, address, and threatened to share our text conversation of me trying to hire him to family, if I didn’t pay him. This stuff happens all the time. A common sextortion scam.

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