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3 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Well, that begs the question of how one gets an overwhelming bacterial infection. In my over 3 decades as a physician, I've never seen someone just get that out of the blue. 

Maybe it was from plastic surgery? She has been going under the knife recently.

I haven’t experienced any decline in escort quality. My city has very limited good quality local escorts though, but great visitors ever so often. I think a lot of clients have high expectations of seeking romantic or intimate connections, which some escorts cannot provide. For me I hire escorts for a one hour hookup, or erotic encounter nothing more. Otherwise it’s probably best to find a boyfriend if looking for intimacy/romance.

I just hate it when people use religion as an excuse to hate on the lgbtq community. They make it seem like being gay is the worst sin of mankind. It’s one of the reasons I’m pretty much no longer religious, and now lean more towards agnosticism. I was almost outed by a relative in my youth, said I was going to hell, even though I wasn’t out. Basically like a witch hunt for potential gays. I hope my post doesn’t get flagged as political or religious, because I think it’s an important discussion point.

It is silly and inappropriate to call a group of people who ones never met, who disagree with ones point of view stupid or unintellectual. I for one hold a graduate degree. Not saying that makes me smarter than anyone. But I will not stand for education shaming, and will not be education shamed.

He’s not my type, but I can see his appeal.

59 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

JFC, this reads like a Tucker Carlson monologue. MINORS do not get gender confirmation surgeries. This is just bullshit. Perhaps some 16 or 17 year old with parental consent are getting top surgery or orchiectomies but that's it. And those are very likely kids who have been through extensive therapy and are very clear on their gender identity. 

I knew I was gay when I was 4 or 5; many trans people report the same. 

I don’t think I knew what the word gay was when I was 4 or 5. I do remember playing with female action figure toys and dolls in secret though. Heck I even remember wanting the girls toys from the McDonalds Happy meals over the boys toys. But eventually I outgrew that stage and just ended up gay, instead of trans.😛  I think a lot of gay men played with girlie toys/dolls when they were little. Not that there is anything wrong with being trans.  But kids can change as they reach puberty and beyond.

I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find him very sexy, and not just his body, but his face as well.

2 hours ago, lanyc said:

A few RM reviews say his pictures are outdated/maybe not him. And I don't see "kissing" listed. Thoughts?

The face/body pictures are real. Some reviews said his dick pictures are fake. I met him once years ago, and can’t really remember what his dick looked like in person. 

4 minutes ago, José Soplanucas said:

Well, your lack of empathy would be explained by transphobia.

I’m not empathetic because I don’t share in their feelings. I don’t understand what it’s like to be transgender. I can only sympathize with them. Transphobia is a strong dislike or hatred of transgender people. I have never expressed that in any of my posts.

3 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

What a great attitude. It's the same nuts who fight both trans and gay, but if it doesn't affect you personally, you're not interested.

No it doesn’t affect me. I have no interest in being a woman. As I said before, I’m sympathetic to their community. 

52 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

Jesus F. Christ. Melodramatic and playing on false fears, perhaps?

Yes, I agree that in professional sports, trans women do have an unfair advantage. I don't think the science is there to tell us at what age people should be eligible for gender-affirming treatments. From a medical standpoint, if one can be sure the decision is permanent, earlier would obviously be optimal. But I haven't seen the research as to what percentage of those who make a decision at 12 might have other thoughts when they get older. Ultimately, those decisions should be guided by scientific study, however, not by one's "feelings" or "intuition." 

Either way it’s not my battle. I don’t have any reason to fight for trans rights, because I’m not trans. Does that make me transphobic? I’m sympathetic to their community. But this lumping of gays and trans together, and narrative that gays and trans share in the same struggle is beyond me. 

6 minutes ago, José Soplanucas said:

How many cases of attacks by a transgender person in women's bathrooms have been reported? Ridiculous.

I agree that the likelihood a straight man would dress up like a woman to prey on women is ridiculous. Though I’m sure others would disagree. 

I’m all about transgender rights, and being able to express yourself how you want. I think where people get a little concerned is with the gender affirming care for minors, like the medicines to block puberty, I’m not a healthcare professional so I don’t know the exact medical terms. And the top or bottom surgery, the later I’m not sure if it is even possible. All of this can be argued as causing harm to oneself or self mutilation. The other issue is transgender women on women’s sport teams. One could argue it is not fair for cisgender women. Add to that, the bathroom dilemma. Should transgenders be able to use any bathroom they want based on how they identify? Is that really safe for cisgender women? I don’t even know what the laws are for my state regarding that. Transgenders are definitely fighting a different battle than the gays are. Not to say we can’t support one another. But maybe it’s time for the LGB to distance themselves from the T.

I’ve never met him. But I find him very attractive. I would hire him if he was in my area.

I’ve had providers that I had met, reach out to me letting me know they are in town or planning on visiting my city. It kind of rubs me the wrong way as well. I don’t mind it, but I check the rentmen website everyday, so I already know who is available in my local city. And just because they are in town doesn’t mean I would want to hire them again, or even have the money to meet up at the time they are here.

16 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I just showed you by definition "wokeism" is a sociological term.

"Right-wing" is a political term.

We can discuss the subject from a sociological viewpoint but politics needs to stay neutral

No comments bashing the "left" or the "right" and we will keep things moving along without name calling.

 

The original definition of woke was used by african americans in the jim crow era to mean be awake or alert of racist situations, like when traveling in the south. There were places blacks should not go and things they should not do. But nowadays it’s used pejoratively by anything the right deems as being politically correct by the left.

I think white American people don’t like being asked what ethnicity they are because it makes them seem like they aren’t from here or like they aren’t American. But trust me, black people love to be asked what they are mixed with. I’ve been asked that multiple times by blacks and whites a like. I find it as a compliment. White people don’t like to feel exotic, but many black people do.

7 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

 

As I stated, the only "touchy" group I've ever encountered in all my years are the descendants of early Africans who arrived as cargo, not immigrants.

 

I disagree here. I think a lot of black folks don’t mind being asked about their heritage. In fact I would go as far and say many black people consider that a compliment to be asked what their ethnicity is. Because it makes them seem more exotic. Many blacks mixed with native americans, latino people, whites, the list goes on. Black people love to feel exotic. Look at Beyonce, she loves to say she is half creole. So yes I think black people love to be asked what they are mixed with, especially if they are light complexion black people.

On 5/16/2023 at 10:34 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Saw her recently in person. That photo doesn't look like her. Although she has done some good plastic surgery so yeah she looks late 60s not 80s.

In a recent interview, she claims she has never had plastic surgery, just cosmetic fillers “every now and then.”

I’m not sure what to believe at this point!

I’ve been getting more spam than ever, I try to unsubscribe and mark as spam, but they just keep coming.

Yes it was Nestorl. You can search the forum with that username.

He had a different rentmen name earlier. I've hired him once. Would most definitely repeat if he was in my town again. 

Looks like they took down the hidden written reviews. I can’t access them through the proxy website.