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12 minutes ago, ICTJOCK said:

I am a morning person by nature,  jacking off first thing,  

I didn’t know jacking off in the morning was such a common thing. I jack off before I go to bed since it makes me sleepy. 

It’s funny because it seems many gay men have great relationships with their mothers and not as great relationships with their fathers. Me growing up my experience was the opposite. My mother rarely showed affection to me, and we argued a lot. I always thought she was mean and cold at times. My dad wasn’t affectionate in a touchy way, but we talked a lot and he was always willing to listen to my problems, while my mom was more dismissive. Sometimes I even question if my poor relationship with mother is why I have same sex attractions. I know we are “born this way”, but I still think about the what ifs.

I was thinking that it could be rentmen wants to protect themselves against law enforcement monitoring the nude photographs. If you think about it, having to pay for a premium membership is an extra hurdle and would make it harder for law enforcement to prosecute escorts and rentmen itself if there is no nudity. Plus rentmen sometimes verifies it’s premium memberships I think. So that’s my theory, I believe rentmen wants to cover themselves, not necessarily for more money.

These were heterosexual men.

https://hyannisnews.com/reverse-prostitution-sting-ten-arrested-after-cops-posed-as-escorts-online/

1 minute ago, tassojunior said:

Hun, you didn't watch enough To Catch a Predator. They arrest you when you show up at the agreed location. There is no provider or fake provider. 

I had a former tenant entrapped not long ago by the feds. He was an attractive young man who had a very high position in a federal agency here in DC. From his porn etc left it seems he was into S&M with muscle guys mostly. But somehow the feds used a website they had confiscated in Miami to entrap gay men by sending out photos of underage guys and chatting. His case was someone asked him if he had ever had sex with someone under 16 and he replied not since he was under 16 himself. They asked if he would and he said it could be interesting. That one statement and his receiving and downloading the pic of an underage guy (knowingly or not- it's strict liability) was his crime. For that one incident 20 agents with submachine guns raided the house and destroyed everything. He plead and got 5 years federal time and served 4 at that North Carolina sex offender prison. Soliciting for prostitution has reached that level of being considered sex trafficking now after SESTA while providers are more considered "victims". It's no game. . 

If you go Fed, you're not coming back for a long time is the saying. That's why I don't like seeing the feds in these cases. 

I meant it would be difficult to setup a fake sting ad on rentmen, not other sites. Of course if an adult knowingly chats with an underage person looking for sex, paid or unpaid will be prosecuted. I never mentioned minors in my post.

15 minutes ago, maninsoma said:

I don't understand why anyone would think it would be too costly or difficult for a sting to happen via Rentmen.  We all know Rentmen doesn't really verify ads; just look at the number of posts made here where people point out that the guy pictured in the ad is not the person providing the service or, even worse, just easily obtainable photos of a good looking guy used to take money from men with no intention of providing any service at all.  I certainly believe that Homeland Security could run fake Rentmen ads to ensnare gay male clients if they decided to do so.

I think it would be really hard to run fake rentmen ads to entrap clients. I’m pretty good at telling if escort ads are fake or not on rentmen. Plus I only hire established escorts with multiple reviews and/or have been positively discussed on this site. How would the police get the pictures to use for fake ads? Will the officers take nudes of themselves and post them on rentmen? They can’t steal pictures of other people and use them to lure clients. It would be easier for them to pursue the escorts than the clients in male for male escort services.

I met him. Pics are accurate. However we didn’t have chemistry.  I had trouble getting in the mood sexually, and I think he sensed that so he blocked me on rentmen.

I always use self checkout if they have one at any grocery store or walmart. I honestly can’t remember the last time I didn’t. But I don’t generally buy in bulk. I don’t even use shopping carts when I grocery shop, I just use the baskets. But I tend to go to the grocery store more frequently because of this.

On a side note, Rentcafe isn’t always accurate though. For my city it’s says the average rent  is 1650 for a one bedroom. That can get you a luxury 2 bedroom condo where I’m at.

8 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Some PCP's are NP's, and, occasionally PA-C's. I worked with some NP's who were PCP's, and some were better than some physicians, but never as good as the best physicians. I've never seen a PA-C do anything more than urgent care, but I've heard that some do. PA-C's have more basic education, and I wouldn't ever want one as PCP. 

Outside of primary care and urgent care, I know of many physician assistants working in orthopedic clinics( though not as surgeons), dermatology clinics, psychiatric clinics, emergency room, and more specialties. Seems like they do more of the minimally invasive medical specialties that don’t involve actual surgery. Pretty much limited to diagnosing and prescribing and minimally invasive in office procedures under the direction of a physician. They are really taking over the medical profession as I am noticing more of them from a patient’s perspective.

6 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Wow. I looked up places in WM on Zillow and I was surprised that it seems to be just as affordable as Austin, and, you're right, it's quite gay. I suspect the summers are even more brutal than Austin's, though. I think you'd want to be pretty sure whatever place you bought was built under modern codes, able to withstand hurricanes. Just as here in LA, you want to make sure your property was built after 1976 building codes which required better earthquake protection. 

I wouldn’t call Wilton Manors or Fort Lauderdale affordable at least not for renting. Plus it’s in Florida, which has a lot of anti lgbt legislations being made by the current governor. Same with Austin being in Texas and their current governor, very anti-trans.
My question is can a city in a non lgbt friendly state be lgbt friendly? Atlanta is very gay friendly, not terribly expensive but rents are rising. However I don’t know how Georgia is as a whole state regarding lgbt advancement.

53 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

I'm guessing that it's not so easy for those who aren't well-off. I hear about the horrors black people had to live through in the Jim Crow South, and I've often wondered why black people would even step foot in the Old South, much less live there. I similarly wonder (to a lesser extent), why people live in places with horrific weather such as Buffalo or Fargo, North Dakota. I suspect it's difficult for those without means to just pull up roots. Of course, some may feel stronger motivations than others. As other members have pointed out, gay-friendly places tend to also be quite expensive, and dullard Bible Belt communities cheap. So perhaps there are people who don't want to live where they're not welcome, but feel they have to. Of course, the very goals of those who hate the LGBT community is to push out members of that community, which further polarizes our society and country. 

I’m in the upper south, though not in a small town, and don’t particularly enjoy it for being part of the lgbt community and for being a person of color. Sometimes I do feel stuck, because my roots and family are here. I’m not that established yet in my career so I don’t have the upward mobility to move to nyc, los angeles, San Francisco, etc. I feel bad for the ethnic minority and lgbt people in the deep southern states like Mississippi or Alabama, which are much more backwards in terms of inclusiveness and equality. 

I remember with one particular escort, after he requested I pay up front, which I did, he then says he only receives oral with a condom on, and proceeded to put it on. It pissed me off because I don’t like to give oral with the guy wearing a condom. So no, it’s not as uncommon as it seems.

I know of providers that prefer to hire over age 40 clients, or older clients over younger clients. I think it’s because they think younger clients play games or are immature or won’t have the money. Age preferences work the other way around too.

I just hate how the lgbtq friendly cities tend to be extremely expensive. 

They are also common in the southeast. I’m in a mid sized southern city, they are not within the city limits but there are a few locations in the small more blue collar rural towns outside the city limits. I’ve never shopped at one and don’t think I ever will. 😂 

This is an unfortunate situation all around. Like I mentioned I’ve been a Britney fan since she first broke out in 1999. But I don’t think she is a very sharp woman. She got played by another gold digger.

Yes it is their right to not share a face pic. But in a place like wilton manors or ft Lauderdale there are plenty of other providers that do show their faces and with more established reviews. So that is why I questioned who would want to hire a newbie with no face pic. If it was in a city that doesn’t get much escort traffic I could understand, but Ft Lauderdale? So many other hot escort profiles and choices.

Y’all haven’t even seen his face how do you know he isn’t a butterface? 😂 

I agree with Unicorn. I see my dentist twice a year for preventative cleaning, xrays, and examination. But my primary care only when I have symptoms. Doctors are always so busy, I would just feel like I’m wasting my time and the doctor’s time if I came to see him with no ailments. To each their own though. 

39 minutes ago, KrisParr said:

Oh, please - is anyone surprised?

I was. It kind of caught me off guard to be honest. But good for him.

I wasn’t a fan of her when she was country, but as soon as she turned pop with the “1989” album, I became one. I always thought she came across as sheltered in her country days. Her pop albums are very catchy. I think she is very talented musically, particularly when it comes to writing songs. Some critics have called her voice mediocre or average. But I think she makes up for her lack of range or vocal power by her great songwriting.

18 minutes ago, Enronnja said:

He really has a nice body and is handsome. But I always passed on any chance to meet, just too much compromises. Someone did mention he liked rimming.

I mentioned he liked getting rimmed. He has a nice butt.

Does anyone know if liposuction can cause a loss or reduction of appetite? I had lipo done a few months ago and have less of an appetite for food now. I wasn’t sure if removing fat cells could make one feel less hungry. I have lost a lot of weight since my procedure. But I hate that I feel full even after eating barely anything throughout the day. I miss having an appetite for food. I hope this is temporary. I will be following up with the clinic/doctor that did my procedure. Thanks.

I actually had a good experience with him years ago. I asked him to be more dominant and he delivered. His body was perfection. Don’t know if anything changed.