Monarchy79

I see nothing wrong with not kissing…. Honestly, a lot of guys have poor oral hygiene and terrible breath. 
 
As for oral….. if two men are getting naked for any action…. Escort, hookup, whatever… some things need to be sucked/licked… 
I never understood having the main course without the appetizer… but to each his own… 

Another point to consider….
Asking someone if they live alone can come off creepy, as if you’re the “Craigslist Killer”. 😂….
This is one of the reasons why I feel that the host should disclose if they have a roommate. 
 

For a top..there's nothing more exciting than watching a wrestling match with all those meaty bubble butts in tight singlets while the boys roll around on top of each other.

You are using so much blood during match there isn't enough left to pop a boner.(thankfully).
The locker room was always my bigger concern. We had open showers in both high school and college. Definitely had to train myself not to look at those hot muscular asses.

Another point to consider….
Asking someone if they live alone can come off creepy, as if you’re the “Craigslist Killer”. 😂….
This is one of the reasons why I feel that the host should disclose if they have a roommate. 
 

I see nothing wrong with not kissing…. Honestly, a lot of guys have poor oral hygiene and terrible breath. 
 
As for oral….. if two men are getting naked for any action…. Escort, hookup, whatever… some things need to be sucked/licked… 
I never understood having the main course without the appetizer… but to each his own… 

I would not mention anything sexual in the first text massage, in case you have the wrong number.  You can mention that you are Okay with telephone calls.
Example:
You (1st message):  "Hello.  I'm John.  I saw your ad in XXX City.   Are you available for a 1 hour session this Friday evening?  I can travel or host in XXX neighborhood.  If available, what is the rate you charge?   I am willing to discuss more by phone call if you prefer"
Him:  "Yes, I am available on Friday.  I charge XXX for outcalls. Etc..."
You (2nd message):  "Great!  That rate works for me.  How's 8pm?  I see you are into kissing and water sports, which is what I'm looking for.  Your ad says "Ask Me" about safe sex; so are you okay if I use a condom when I top?  Feel free to call if you prefer to discuss in person"
 
In summary, keep it short and sweet.  Don't specifically mention paying for a sex act when hiring in the United States.  Mention dates and city in the first message (in case he's traveling), but be careful about any more information in case you have the wrong number.  Try to ask your important questions in the 2nd text messages, and keep them simple so he can respond with "Yes, I'm fine with those activities" .  Don't waste his time with open ended questions such as "What do you enjoy to do in bed?" that require too much of his time to answer and may not answer what you really wanted to know.
Happy hiring!

If you have a roommate, either:
1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or
2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. 
 
Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client. 
 

I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post. 
 

I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post. 
 

I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post. 
 

I’m glad you shared your personal desire/preferences , and I also think that some of the most intense discussions are the ones where people actually learn from the most. What makes these forums valuable is the authenticity in what forum members post. 
 

HPV, Monkeypox, Pneumonia and Meningitis vaccines….. get them all. 
 
 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

Consider this a nominal fee you paid to learn two valuable lessons:
1.) Don’t give deposits
2.) When people have long stories, explanations or exchanges, filled with “complex” matters and circumstances… it’s usually bullshit. 
 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

it blows my mind that people think that if they have someone coming over- paid or not - that you should have to consider whether you have to tell them they are walking into a space where someone else may be there or not: OF COURSE YOU SHOULD TELL THEM. 
 Jesus Christ!
if you walked into a providers house and there was someone else sitting there, unknown and unexpected to be there, you too would freak out or be unnerved,  regardless of how sex positive they profess to be AFTER THE FACT.  
have some basic decorum and manners. PLEASE. 
 

There are enough sexual predators out here who provide such a service for free….. 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

I'm mulling over trying out two new masseurs. While one of them has good reviews (and the others none at all), I've read comments that are telling me to think with my big head, not my little one. 
I can easily lie to myself and ignore the signs to stay away from them, or try them out and live and learn, or try them out and be happily surprised. 
Has anyone ever tried someone they "shouldn't" have and been happily surprised? 

Further, specific to massage…. It would be smart for an independent masseur to offer a discount. 
1.) unlike masseurs and CMTs who work in spas and parlors , you take your entire earnings home, and 
2.) you can literally control the pricing to offer what appears who be a “discount” and still get your desired earnings. 
 
it’s critical to think strategically with making such business decisions. 

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.