ScottLMT

Really, you’ve never had a maple syrup massage? The HE is a sticky mess.

Even if it's going to be a purely therapeutic session. Please be mindful that your ass crack can get ripe and funky. Please be respectful of your masseur and don't present yourself with a foul aromatherapy experience. After all your ass is squarely pointed UP for half the time

Arrive on time freshly showered.
 
If need to cancel notify well in advance.
 
Be brief and corteus when communicating with the masseur via text or phone.
 
This is a business transaction, treat it as such. The masseur is not your friend. At least not after the first few sessions. His job is to be friendly a make you feel welcomed. Do not text him if is not for scheduling or asking about his services.
 
Respect the masseurs privacy.

Get a manicure - it’s awful when scraped by poorly manicured hands
Same for sharp calluses

I think most States do - but private practice allows nonewhere there is trust - I have joked about “I bet they didn’t teach that at massage school” when they are deep throating me:)
 
It comes down to trust and is why I a regular masseur and hate it when I habe to find a new one - as I have said before, a referral from another client makes a big difference and usually means things get off to a good start the first session:)

I have a feeling if he's not really draping you well and your cock is popping out, he likes what he sees. Especially if he is stretching your legs and drape moves around and doesn't really cover you back up again.
Part of me feels like it could be awkward if you bluntly asked for release.
When I've worked on glutes and inner thighs, sometimes the guy has to adjust themselves to make themselves more comfortable. They would push their boner down and I would "accidentally" rub their cock while massaging their inner thigh.
And there are times where I do have to move cock and balls out of the way to get to a muscle. Maybe ask for work on these areas so it gives him an excuse to get more handsy. Guys notoriously have tight adductors. The highest one is the pectineus and you usually have to push the ball sack up to get to it's origin. Depending on how your boner is. Some guys point up so it's on the stomach. If that's the case, request abdominal massage which is therapeutically great (such a neglected part, usually never gets massaged) but I usually have to move a cock around to get to the lower abs.

Not strict anything;). Life is not black and white. Even if the strict crowd thinks and/or pretends it is. I will always remember my “ethics” teacher in massage school without noticing the rank irony talking about the time her future husband and her met when he walked into her massage studio.

Two words : less laundry

I think for some massage guys the flow of the massage strokes (not that kind -haha) is better without a sheet- they can get longer strokes and movements in without the complication of stopping to move and refold the sheet. Remember they see naked people multiple times a day, so they aren't thinking about it as a show on your part.

I always assumed that feeling a cold drop fall on you would be disturbing and ruin the relaxation. Depending on the client, if I'm doing deep work, I tend to perspire. I have a towel handy to wipe my brow. If it's really bad, I'll wear a headband

I always assumed that feeling a cold drop fall on you would be disturbing and ruin the relaxation. Depending on the client, if I'm doing deep work, I tend to perspire. I have a towel handy to wipe my brow. If it's really bad, I'll wear a headband

If you come to San Diego I could take a rain check for that free massage

BTW - I don't charge. I do this as a hobbyist. One of my past masseurs said that I had received so many massages that he encouraged me to give some as well. He said that I would get more out of my massages, if I knew what it was like giving one. He also said that touch is reciprocal. That it can be as enjoyable to touch as it is being touched. I have found this to be true.
 
The sessions tend to be about an hour. Some have been massage trades so they have gone a lot longer. I don't offer a HE...as my agenda is focused on the massage. The session tends to be on the sensual side as I don't shy aware from the naughty bits (but don't grab them either) and I tend to give lots of body contact. I have had a couple of guys finish themselves. Additionally...because of mutual attraction...some have progressed to [much] more after the massage session is over.
 
I don't ask stats. That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats. What I try to do is see if they are truly interested in massage or if they are just looking for a hookup or a flake. Therefore, I ask questions like: What is your experience with massage? What do you hope to get out of the session? When was your last massage session and what did you like about it? The guys that are looking for sex tend to quickly reveal their agenda...and the flakes tend not to want to spend the time answering the questions. They are just trying to get your pictures or address.
 
I wear a t-shirt and shorts (commando). I instruct the "clients" to undress to their level of comfort. I do add that most go fully nude and that I do the same when on the table. I have had two that have kept their underwear on...but they eventually took them off. One of those did ask for towel draping when he flipped over, but then took it off. He was a bit modest and shy. A funny aside for him is that he spontaneously orgasmed as I was massaging his legs.
 
If you care to read about my experiences of giving massages, I have detailed some of them on another website:
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7113475/
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7153618/
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7196342/
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7198414/

I do it frequently. I have it listed on my Grindr and Jackd profiles that "I like m@ssage. Both giving and receiving. I have a table" (notice the "@" sign so that it doesn't get flagged). Since adding that to my profile, I have connected with hotter guys that I was before. I get hit up so frequently that I have to turn them away or I would be giving or receiving a couple of them every day.
 
I have a screening process to see to make sure that they are truly looking for massage activities. Sometimes it goes beyond massage if there is a mutual attraction...but that is saved for after the massage session is over.

I have a feeling if he's not really draping you well and your cock is popping out, he likes what he sees. Especially if he is stretching your legs and drape moves around and doesn't really cover you back up again.
Part of me feels like it could be awkward if you bluntly asked for release.
When I've worked on glutes and inner thighs, sometimes the guy has to adjust themselves to make themselves more comfortable. They would push their boner down and I would "accidentally" rub their cock while massaging their inner thigh.
And there are times where I do have to move cock and balls out of the way to get to a muscle. Maybe ask for work on these areas so it gives him an excuse to get more handsy. Guys notoriously have tight adductors. The highest one is the pectineus and you usually have to push the ball sack up to get to it's origin. Depending on how your boner is. Some guys point up so it's on the stomach. If that's the case, request abdominal massage which is therapeutically great (such a neglected part, usually never gets massaged) but I usually have to move a cock around to get to the lower abs.

I have a feeling if he's not really draping you well and your cock is popping out, he likes what he sees. Especially if he is stretching your legs and drape moves around and doesn't really cover you back up again.
Part of me feels like it could be awkward if you bluntly asked for release.
When I've worked on glutes and inner thighs, sometimes the guy has to adjust themselves to make themselves more comfortable. They would push their boner down and I would "accidentally" rub their cock while massaging their inner thigh.
And there are times where I do have to move cock and balls out of the way to get to a muscle. Maybe ask for work on these areas so it gives him an excuse to get more handsy. Guys notoriously have tight adductors. The highest one is the pectineus and you usually have to push the ball sack up to get to it's origin. Depending on how your boner is. Some guys point up so it's on the stomach. If that's the case, request abdominal massage which is therapeutically great (such a neglected part, usually never gets massaged) but I usually have to move a cock around to get to the lower abs.

I have a feeling if he's not really draping you well and your cock is popping out, he likes what he sees. Especially if he is stretching your legs and drape moves around and doesn't really cover you back up again.
Part of me feels like it could be awkward if you bluntly asked for release.
When I've worked on glutes and inner thighs, sometimes the guy has to adjust themselves to make themselves more comfortable. They would push their boner down and I would "accidentally" rub their cock while massaging their inner thigh.
And there are times where I do have to move cock and balls out of the way to get to a muscle. Maybe ask for work on these areas so it gives him an excuse to get more handsy. Guys notoriously have tight adductors. The highest one is the pectineus and you usually have to push the ball sack up to get to it's origin. Depending on how your boner is. Some guys point up so it's on the stomach. If that's the case, request abdominal massage which is therapeutically great (such a neglected part, usually never gets massaged) but I usually have to move a cock around to get to the lower abs.

Just returned from Canada Day weekend in Montreal, with long summer days and very high temperatures day and night.
 
I'll admit to having had some reservations about this trip. I knew that long time favorites like Yannick would not be at Stock and Spencer performs very rarely.
 
Thursday at Stock was extremely quiet. Saturday was typically very busy. Friday and Sunday were both moderately busy.
 
There were lots of new dancers. Morgan was very good at working the crowd on stage. Franco's physique is phenomenal. Had private dances with Jaycob and Rico. Sadly, I didn't see Chris all weekend, who I missed having a dance with last year.
 
Joe has stopped dancing, but is now working for the club as staff and seems very happy with his new job.
 
I didn't have time to visit Campus, but recognized a lot of former Stock dancers hanging around outside.
 
The real takeaway from the trip was it looks like The Village has really turned a corner.
 
A few years ago The Village really looked like it was in a state of permanent decline. Last year's new openings Bar Renard and District Video lounge are going strong. There were a lot of new shops and restaurants that I didn't recognize from last year. A new diner La Dînette à Mado has opened next to Cabaret Mado. There's still a lot of vacant real estate but it isn't as noticeable.
 
The old Bourbon complex has now been demolished and the condo building that will replace it is marketing for pre-sales:
 
https://www.lebourbon.co/registration
 
Look forward to returning for Labor Day weekend.

They are all friendly at campus. I think it's because they are canadian.

Being the investigator that I am... I contacted the owners accountant, found the owners name. Emailed them and contacted them on Facebook.
 
They deleted their Facebook's and finally responded with " Refunded your money" . I am more disappointed then mad. I invested 8 years of advertising dollars and to be treated like this is pathetic.
 
I have reached out to a few more massage therapist that advertise and random massage therapist have contacted me asking what is going on. Some of these guys don't even know that the site is gone.

My suggestion for a dumb jock
 

 

the "dumb jock" fantasy is as old as the hills.....I don't think anybody here should feign shock at this thread (if anybody is)
 

You know most guys don't work seven days a week. Just come in on your regular's day off(and that's easy to find out, just ask your guy what days they normally work). Then if word somehow gets back to them and they ask, just say it was a spur-of-the-moment thing or you were extra sore and couldn't wait another day.

I try to do this with private dances with guys at the club, and I've gotten the evil eye for that too.

I just came back from my first Bear Party. It was quite an experience. I have never done anything like this before so I didn't know how I would feel about it. It was an assorted mix of men that one would expect with "Bear Party"..There were beefy guys, muscular guys, older guys plus an assorted mix of race as well. Pretty sure I was the newbie here. There were cliques of course but I managed to find guys that were fun and were into it. Liked working with 3 somes. Met one guy where he was more than eager to have me top him which I gladly obliged plus guys were coming by and were into it as well and it was very arousing to actually top someone in front of 20 to 30 guys..I hope some of you on this board try it so I'm not alone anymore...LoL Any further questions DM me. xoxo