Looking for a massage on Grindr...

[+ 7829V]

Recently I’ve seen profiles on GRINDR where the poster is looking for a massage or rubdown. I assume a free sensual/erotic massage.

 

Has anyone given or received a massage from someone you met on Grindr?

[niceandthick]

Recently I’ve seen profiles on GRINDR where the poster is looking for a massage or rubdown. I assume a free sensual/erotic massage.

 

Has anyone given or received a massage from someone you met on Grindr?

 

I do it frequently. I have it listed on my Grindr and Jackd profiles that "I like m@ssage. Both giving and receiving. I have a table" (notice the "@" sign so that it doesn't get flagged). Since adding that to my profile, I have connected with hotter guys that I was before. I get hit up so frequently that I have to turn them away or I would be giving or receiving a couple of them every day.

 

I have a screening process to see to make sure that they are truly looking for massage activities. Sometimes it goes beyond massage if there is a mutual attraction...but that is saved for after the massage session is over.

[+ 7829V]

I do it frequently. I have it listed on my Grindr and Jackd profiles that "I like m@ssage. Both giving and receiving. I have a table" (notice the "@" sign so that it doesn't get flagged). Since adding that to my profile, I have connected with hotter guys that I was before. I get hit up so frequently that I have to turn them away or I would be giving or receiving a couple of them every day.

 

I have a screening process to see to make sure that they are truly looking for massage activities. Sometimes it goes beyond massage if there is a mutual attraction...but that is saved for after the massage session is over.

Thank you for sharing. Sound like a good idea! Could you share a little bit more on your screening process? Do you filter based on age/body type? Do you stick with 1 hr to start? Do you always do nude/he?

[niceandthick]

Thank you for sharing. Sound like a good idea! Could you share a little bit more on your screening process? Do you filter based on age/body type? Do you stick with 1 hr to start? Do you always do nude/he?

 

BTW - I don't charge. I do this as a hobbyist. One of my past masseurs said that I had received so many massages that he encouraged me to give some as well. He said that I would get more out of my massages, if I knew what it was like giving one. He also said that touch is reciprocal. That it can be as enjoyable to touch as it is being touched. I have found this to be true.

 

The sessions tend to be about an hour. Some have been massage trades so they have gone a lot longer. I don't offer a HE...as my agenda is focused on the massage. The session tends to be on the sensual side as I don't shy aware from the naughty bits (but don't grab them either) and I tend to give lots of body contact. I have had a couple of guys finish themselves. Additionally...because of mutual attraction...some have progressed to [much] more after the massage session is over.

 

I don't ask stats. That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats. What I try to do is see if they are truly interested in massage or if they are just looking for a hookup or a flake. Therefore, I ask questions like: What is your experience with massage? What do you hope to get out of the session? When was your last massage session and what did you like about it? The guys that are looking for sex tend to quickly reveal their agenda...and the flakes tend not to want to spend the time answering the questions. They are just trying to get your pictures or address.

 

I wear a t-shirt and shorts (commando). I instruct the "clients" to undress to their level of comfort. I do add that most go fully nude and that I do the same when on the table. I have had two that have kept their underwear on...but they eventually took them off. One of those did ask for towel draping when he flipped over, but then took it off. He was a bit modest and shy. A funny aside for him is that he spontaneously orgasmed as I was massaging his legs.

 

If you care to read about my experiences of giving massages, I have detailed some of them on another website:

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7113475/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7153618/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7196342/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7198414/

[+ 7829V]

BTW - I don't charge. I do this as a hobbyist. One of my past masseurs said that I had received so many massages that he encouraged me to give some as well. He said that I would get more out of my massages, if I knew what it was like giving one. He also said that touch is reciprocal. That it can be as enjoyable to touch as it is being touched. I have found this to be true.

 

The sessions tend to be about an hour. Some have been massage trades so they have gone a lot longer. I don't offer a HE...as my agenda is focused on the massage. The session tends to be on the sensual side as I don't shy aware from the naughty bits (but don't grab them either) and I tend to give lots of body contact. I have had a couple of guys finish themselves. Additionally...because of mutual attraction...some have progressed to [much] more after the massage session is over.

 

I don't ask stats. That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats. What I try to do is see if they are truly interested in massage or if they are just looking for a hookup or a flake. Therefore, I ask questions like: What is your experience with massage? What do you hope to get out of the session? When was your last massage session and what did you like about it? The guys that are looking for sex tend to quickly reveal their agenda...and the flakes tend not to want to spend the time answering the questions. They are just trying to get your pictures or address.

 

I wear a t-shirt and shorts (commando). I instruct the "clients" to undress to their level of comfort. I do add that most go fully nude and that I do the same when on the table. I have had two that have kept their underwear on...but they eventually took them off. One of those did ask for towel draping when he flipped over, but then took it off. He was a bit modest and shy. A funny aside for him is that he spontaneously orgasmed as I was massaging his legs.

 

If you care to read about my experiences of giving massages, I have detailed some of them on another website:

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7113475/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7153618/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7196342/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7198414/

Awesome I have my weekend reading list

If I have more questions or comments I'll let you know.

Thank you for sharing details!

[LaffingBear]

Very informative thread.

 

Ive been contacted on Grindr by pro masseurs... when in Vegas.

 

Ive been considering just adding a picture of a massage table when on Grindr... to see if it enhances responses.

[+ 7829V]

Very informative thread.

 

Ive been contacted on Grindr by pro masseurs... when in Vegas.

 

Ive been considering just adding a picture of a massage table when on Grindr... to see if it enhances responses.

You've been contacted by PRO masseurs asking you to give them a free massage... Wow... sounds good!!

[+ sniper]

You've been contacted by PRO masseurs asking you to give them a free massage... Wow... sounds good!!

 

I think the pro masseurs are looking to massage him for money. I get the same thing when I'm in Vegas. Then they turn out to be staying in one of the sketchier motels and I decline for fear of getting robbed or worse.

[LaffingBear]

@sniper got it right. I declined... so dont know hotel info

 

I got contacted in LV by a cute cub-type... he eventually said he and big bear partner do 4-handed for $$. I declined.

 

Grindr seemed to be gateway to everything in LV. Got contacted by rentguys, drug offers, and, of course, every imaginable hookup and fetish. Some a little scary... like "Im 17, here with my parents, can I come learn from you..." I dont even want that unsolicited stuff on my phone or app history....

 

I gave up on Grindr and apps when home in SF Bay. Theyre useless in my suburban locale.... might be different if I wasnt a Bridge &Tunnel guy.

 

But watching this thread makes me wonder about reloading Grindr and having pic of massage table to send (not profile pic) to see if any local results

[+ SK in SD]

BTW - I don't charge. I do this as a hobbyist. One of my past masseurs said that I had received so many massages that he encouraged me to give some as well. He said that I would get more out of my massages, if I knew what it was like giving one. He also said that touch is reciprocal. That it can be as enjoyable to touch as it is being touched. I have found this to be true.

 

The sessions tend to be about an hour. Some have been massage trades so they have gone a lot longer. I don't offer a HE...as my agenda is focused on the massage. The session tends to be on the sensual side as I don't shy aware from the naughty bits (but don't grab them either) and I tend to give lots of body contact. I have had a couple of guys finish themselves. Additionally...because of mutual attraction...some have progressed to [much] more after the massage session is over.

 

I don't ask stats. That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats. What I try to do is see if they are truly interested in massage or if they are just looking for a hookup or a flake. Therefore, I ask questions like: What is your experience with massage? What do you hope to get out of the session? When was your last massage session and what did you like about it? The guys that are looking for sex tend to quickly reveal their agenda...and the flakes tend not to want to spend the time answering the questions. They are just trying to get your pictures or address.

 

I wear a t-shirt and shorts (commando). I instruct the "clients" to undress to their level of comfort. I do add that most go fully nude and that I do the same when on the table. I have had two that have kept their underwear on...but they eventually took them off. One of those did ask for towel draping when he flipped over, but then took it off. He was a bit modest and shy. A funny aside for him is that he spontaneously orgasmed as I was massaging his legs.

 

If you care to read about my experiences of giving massages, I have detailed some of them on another website:

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7113475/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7153618/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7196342/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7198414/

I'll be in MD in Oct if you're scheduling that far out... Thanks for sharing about your experiences!

[+ 7829V]

That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats.

Double list did not approve my ad. I was clear it was not a hookup, that I was amateur, not charging and the ad was not published. They don't want any ad related with massage, masseur, escort and all that. So they have a no zero tolerance policy now.

 

From DL site:

 

NOTICE REGARDING ESCORTING, MASSAGE SERVICES, PROSTITUTION OR ANY TYPE OF IN PERSON SERVICE

 

As stated in our terms of service and guidelines. ANY and all forms of these services and acts are strictly forbidden on this website. Any attempt to engage in these activities will result in an automatic termination of a users account and serious or repeated violations may be reported to the proper authorities.

Edited July 7, 2018 by 7829V

[niceandthick]

Double list did not approve my ad. I was clear it was not a hookup, that I was amateur, not charging and the ad was not published. They don't want any ad related with massage, masseur, escort and all that. So they have a no zero tolerance policy now.

 

From DL site:

 

NOTICE REGARDING ESCORTING, MASSAGE SERVICES, PROSTITUTION OR ANY TYPE OF IN PERSON SERVICE

 

As stated in our terms of service and guidelines. ANY and all forms of these services and acts are strictly forbidden on this website. Any attempt to engage in these activities will result in an automatic termination of a users account and serious or repeated violations may be reported to the proper authorities.

 

Well I only posted once on DoubleList and that was within the first couple of weeks of it starting up. Maybe things have changed. Did you have the word "massage" spelled out or did you use some of the "clever" alternatives like m@ssage, mass@ge, and massge?

 

...or maybe it was your wording. I see ads in DC on DoubleList offering Massage:

* Free Tantric Massage for Women and Couples Fairfax, Va

* Free sensual massage for women Downtown DC

 

I also see these in San Diego (your area I presume):

* Massage, Jacuzzi and fun La Mesa img guys for women

* Foot Massage and BJ guys for guys

[+ EVdude]

Double list did not approve my ad.

The DoubleList approval software has some flaws. Do a search on “fuck” and get hundreds of posts. I note this approved ad:

 

07/07/2018 (1 hrs ago)

Relaxing, erotic touch (manhattan - upper west side)

Let me get rid of the tension and stress all over your body. Legit, attractive, tall, younger black guy here for you. Email me for more details.

 

Yet enter the word rimmed into a post and get this:

 

It looks like we've detected some vulgar language. Lets dial it down a bit on the posts, but save the juicy stuff for the private chats! Words like blow, rimmed, rimmed will likely get the post flagged.

 

Go figure.

[fratphysicals]

BTW - I don't charge. I do this as a hobbyist. One of my past masseurs said that I had received so many massages that he encouraged me to give some as well. He said that I would get more out of my massages, if I knew what it was like giving one. He also said that touch is reciprocal. That it can be as enjoyable to touch as it is being touched. I have found this to be true.

 

The sessions tend to be about an hour. Some have been massage trades so they have gone a lot longer. I don't offer a HE...as my agenda is focused on the massage. The session tends to be on the sensual side as I don't shy aware from the naughty bits (but don't grab them either) and I tend to give lots of body contact. I have had a couple of guys finish themselves. Additionally...because of mutual attraction...some have progressed to [much] more after the massage session is over.

 

I don't ask stats. That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats. What I try to do is see if they are truly interested in massage or if they are just looking for a hookup or a flake. Therefore, I ask questions like: What is your experience with massage? What do you hope to get out of the session? When was your last massage session and what did you like about it? The guys that are looking for sex tend to quickly reveal their agenda...and the flakes tend not to want to spend the time answering the questions. They are just trying to get your pictures or address.

 

I wear a t-shirt and shorts (commando). I instruct the "clients" to undress to their level of comfort. I do add that most go fully nude and that I do the same when on the table. I have had two that have kept their underwear on...but they eventually took them off. One of those did ask for towel draping when he flipped over, but then took it off. He was a bit modest and shy. A funny aside for him is that he spontaneously orgasmed as I was massaging his legs.

 

If you care to read about my experiences of giving massages, I have detailed some of them on another website:

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7113475/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7153618/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7196342/

 

https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7198414/

These are incredibly hot stories @niceandthick

[Smurof]

Truth be told I was hoping for a "free" experience with someone who advertised without listing rates, only to get a deserved "Fuck You" when I mentioned the most I would be willing to part with, since no rates were listed. It all comes back to not only how good you look, but what your age is, also. It's disappointing seeing so many hot older guys have limited action because young hot men want to be exclusively with other young hot men.

[niceandthick]

It all comes back to not only how good you look, but what your age is, also. It's disappointing seeing so many hot older guys have limited action because young hot men want to be exclusively with other young hot men.

 

Well having massage posted on my profile has brought in all types. However, I can tell you that the last 5+ responses from Grindr/Jack that were seeking massages were from guys under 30yo with nice bodies and faces. There are hot young men that are attracted to other than hot young men. I would be considered a Daddy (50+ years old) and a Bear (Chubby, Hairy, Belly).

 

Personally, I think that they all have the fantasy of being taken advantage of while being on the table. Young and old. Lots of DL/str8 types. With so many massage videos out there, they want the experience. I received an interesting response from a guy that I had massaged before. He has been really aggressive in trying to come back for a second session. He aggressiveness is a little off-putting, so I have told him that I am taking a break from giving sessions. He then responded : "That is too bad. I had been hoping to get together again and have you relax me, tie my wrists, and safely take what you want. If your situation changes, let me know." LOL. He is a 25yo Latino. Very cute with and avg body.

[fratphysicals]

I’ve done this a few times before as well. I quickly realized that it can be almost even more enjoyable giving a massage/pleasing a client (a good client) than receiving once.

 

I had a couple of “straight” younger guys when I lived back in NV who came by for a massage. The first two, I was fully clothed for and neither of them made any advances toward me, but the last was very into the idea of pleasing me as well.

 

The first turned out to be a college soccer player looking for a sports massage. I gave him a few minutes to get ready and came back in to him face down on the table with a towel over him. He was a total stud, young 20’s, perfect tanned body. Started the massage and he requested some extra time on glutes, which I took to be a clue he might be looking for more. After I finished the backside, he flipped and I asked if he still wanted the towel - he said he did, and as I adjusted it, saw his 8” masterpiece at full mast. He asked for more work on his legs so he flipped again and this time removed the towel. When he flipped back over towards the end, he was using his hands to cover his goods and although he declined a release, he did so very politely and understood why I asked. He’s texted me a handful of times since asking for another session but I’ve moved out of state since. One of my hottest experiences so far giving a massage.

 

The second was another athlete (lacrosse play I think) who texted me from a CL ad I posted. He came over and was at least 6’ with a beautiful build and fair skin. He was masculine (straight as they come) as some might say, and was again looking for deep work. He got ready on the table and I came in to him fully naked face down. He was really quiet and it was clear he hadn’t done this before and was nervous, which made it even hotter for me. When he flipped, he was fully hard and had a beautiful built chest. Finished the legs portion and finished him off nicely. He shot and almost hit the ceiling. He was extremely quiet afterwards and it felt like he was a bit ashamed of what he did, but was very appreciative and texted me afterwards thanking me.

 

The last massage I gave was a shorter blonde kid who had just moved to NV from the Midwest. He was probably in his mid 20’s and moved out to NV with his fiancé. I think he was from a very religious family from what he was saying. I was really surprised he ventured out looking for a massage. Seemed like a very conservative farm boy. He got on the table naked, face down, and was really enjoying the massage. When he flipped, he was probably half hard and actually asked if we could trade and he could start massaging me. I obliged and after quickly massaging my legs he went to town and gave me an incredible handjob. It was one of my hottest experiences so far. I ended getting him off and we had a great conversation befor he left.

 

I miss being able to post on CL for this type of stuff.

[+ 7829V]

Well I only posted once on DoubleList and that was within the first couple of weeks of it starting up. Maybe things have changed. Did you have the word "massage" spelled out or did you use some of the "clever" alternatives like m@ssage, mass@ge, and massge?

 

...or maybe it was your wording. I see ads in DC on DoubleList offering Massage:

* Free Tantric Massage for Women and Couples Fairfax, Va

* Free sensual massage for women Downtown DC

 

I also see these in San Diego (your area I presume):

* Massage, Jacuzzi and fun La Mesa img guys for women

* Foot Massage and BJ guys for guys

I don't' understand, I posted again, I used a generic title, like looking for guys around the area... then I described a little about myself, stats, what I enjoy and one of the many things I listed that I enjoy is give and receive massages... and I was again not approved! And the place is full of ads looking to give and receive oral, anal sex, etc. Something does not make sense.

[+ EVdude]

I don't' understand, I posted again, I used a generic title, like looking for guys around the area... then I described a little about myself, stats, what I enjoy and one of the many things I listed that I enjoy is give and receive massages... and I was again not approved! And the place is full of ads looking to give and receive oral, anal sex, etc. Something does not make sense.

Are you posting under Connect Now or Lets Date? I notice much more scrutiny under Let’s Date. Also, try replacing “massage” with “touch” or just try “mssg”.

[+ 7829V]

Are you posting under Connect Now or Lets Date? I notice much more scrutiny under Let’s Date. Also, try replacing “massage” with “touch” or just try “mssg”.

I'm using the section shown below... I'll try to replace the terms as you suggested. Thanks!

[+ Travis69]

A posting on Doublelist of mine was originally declined by their system. I appealed their decision and at that point they actually looked at it and approved it. Have you tried appealing?

[+ 7829V]

A posting on Doublelist of mine was originally declined by their system. I appealed their decision and at that point they actually looked at it and approved it. Have you tried appealing?

No, I have not. I'll try that too.

What was your problem?

[+ Travis69]

No, I have not. I'll try that too.

What was your problem?

Funny cause it was an ad to sell stuff. NOTHING sexual about it. Not sure what word or words triggered the system to reject. Think it only took them 20 minutes to check it out and approve it. Good luck.

[LaffingBear]

Im in Lake Tahoe. Loaded Grindr for the visit. Added the ATM and Rose emojis. Mostly, of little value.

 

A few guys asked if I was gen. But they were very young, and I wont even consider that.

 

One guy just asked if I wanted a massage. Within 30 seconds, several nude pictures arrived, big hardon. 1-2 Grindr messages, quoted $90.

 

And, I realized that I'm not a carefree person. Hes not really my type, although I dont find him repellent. But I like my research, this board, reviews, and time to consider. So I said no thanks, and he politely moved on.

 

Nonetheless, sharing here that Grindr can yield opportunities, even in much smaller markets.

_____

Added note: I did get a chuckle from seeing another user whose screename is: a pig emoji, the word "for", a flexed arm/bicep emoji.

Edited July 21, 2018 by LaffingBear

[+ tassojunior]

I have a friend in Prague who puts as his handle on Grindr just "Massage?". I think the question mark may throw the filters.