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When I'm not seeing anyone, I try to hire twice a month. I actually have a line item in my budget for that.
The past few months, I've been hiring less, simply because I'm spending a lot of time with another guy. Open relationship. I've been meaning to ask if he wants to hire a really muscular guy to join us.
However, on vacations, I can hire a couple a week, as I did about a month ago. I'm still working and spend a lot of time oncall, so finding time to hire can be difficult at times.

I have never actually hired but I do enjoy the company of older men when I can get it. 

See if you can turn the butler.

Exactly!  The thing is, I wouldn’t have minded the outdated picture if he still looked basically the same, just a little older… but quite a bit changed since that picture.  I know I have pictures of myself from around 10 years ago in which I look basically the same as I do now.

I don't understand the outdated picture thing.  I like older guys. No one has to be perfect. But don't set me up for one person and present another.  So annoying.  
In my hometown, the trend on Scruff is to use an old picture, then to have the following pictures be recent. I don't get it. 

Does a guy with a huge cock ever really feel bad about showing it off ?? 🤔
I think, not.

I feel bad that so many actors have to reveal so much of themselves in their shows these days.  But I guess making lots of money showing your private parts is much better than the stress and frustration many of us deal with at our jobs on a day-to-day basis.  

I feel bad that so many actors have to reveal so much of themselves in their shows these days.  But I guess making lots of money showing your private parts is much better than the stress and frustration many of us deal with at our jobs on a day-to-day basis.  

Pretty damned rude.  It's nice when the trash takes itself out.

I have been seeing a guy who is 39 years younger than me for the past 3+ years; I really enjoy my time with him and it seems to work for both of us; I especially appreciate our conversations and having insight into his life

I don't live in LA anymore nor do I follow whatever is really going on at KTLA... but what is refreshing is that he stood up for something/someone he believed in very strongly. I'd commend him for that. Clearly, there is a back story and like with all stories, there are usually many more than just two sides.

My partner is 18 years older than I. When I started having sex (at 32), I was so closeted,  I wouldn't share pictures with anyone.  So, it was always the older guys who took a chance to meet.  They taught me a lot about sex and I developed an attraction for older guys.  That is not to say that I don't enjoy guys my age and younger, but I really do have a thing for older guys.  I love porn with older guys too--Dallas Steele, Matthew Figata, President Oaks, Lawson James, Ace Banner . . . 

That may be a fact. 
But the truth is that out of the thousands of members on this site, there’s going to be someone who looks like that guy, is his weight, and has been insulted with such comments, and your posting is going to trigger their past trauma. 
 
I know how you roll, but I have a preference for forum posts that are honest, but also are less vitriolic. We endure enough of that outside of this forum in real life, so let’s try to be civil here and create a safe space for opinions and even debate. 

Agreed. 
and my opinion is that you’re mean. 
what’s the issue here? 

Dude, you don't have to be so degrading in your comments. You can simply say that he is not your type or this coupling doesn't pique your interest or don't  say anything at all. But to be cruel, it's so not necessary.

FYI - the OnlyFans creator being discussed is SantanaXXL.  He is a very successful OF creator in terms of likes, subscribers & income generated. OF “likes” can only be made by subscribers which is an indicator of subscribers/income.  He’s so successful that he maintains a separate site that sells various merchandise - very few OF creators generate enough interest for merchandise sales. 
While his audience may not be the people here - he has a huge audience that supports him.  He routinely films with very popular creators that do fit with more traditional ideas of male beauty & sexy - he doesn’t seem to have any problem getting willing collaborators.  Obviously they know the upside of appearing with him and/or there is an attraction. btw - he has 788,000 followers on Twitter
I tend to have far more respect for anyone that manages to succeed while overcoming societal expectations, discrimination, judgment through their own drive, ambition & despite all the odds.  I can only imagine how many times this guy was told he couldn’t do exactly what he did. 
 

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

I think of OF creators like Seattle Dad who were denied entry intomporn but found a wide audience on their own.  Body positivity in porn doesn't have to embrace people who look, well, like me, but there is room for sexiness in multiple shapes and ages. Guys with tummies can be hot, guys with big bellies can be hot, guys over 60 can be really hot, guys without strong muscle definition can be hot, etc. 
When I think back to the best sex I've ever had,  it has mostly been with average guys who couldn't make 25 cents in porn.  

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

I am not saying I am attracted to this guy or want to watch his porn, but that doesn't mean he isn't a human being worthy of respect. If people want to watch him, more power to them.  There is an audience for him.  No need to be unkind. 

Yesterday I was with a top for over 7 hours in total, most of it with me on bottom. When I wasn’t on the bottom we were out dining. Today I am recovering.