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Make sure you start 2 hours before you intend to play.
Then, about 30 minutes prior, visit the toilet to empty the water that has worked its way through the system.

10,000, pretty impressive. Wonder what % are making at least a 100k$ a year, if you're to believe that's the average these days... which would mean at least 1 client a day, EVERYDAY.
 
Steve
 

Yes, I tried. It seems I am always on the verge of orgasm. I can control it myself, but with escorts, they often make me explode inadvertently.

Although the frequency keeps decreasing when I get older, I always get an orgasm very quickly (less than 5 minutes, or even 1 minute) if I don't control. With an escort, I often have to ask him to stop, or I will come too soon.

I had a regular masseur for about a year. Not terribly attractive but great hands and an amazing HE technique. One time he told me about a new client who’d just left. He said the guy was handsome AF and very well-built. He couldn’t stop raving about his looks. It wasn’t at all professional of either of us, but I booked my next appointment just before the “new” guy’s next so I might by chance catch a glimpse. Oh hell, yeah. So the masseur called him and told him he had a client (me) who was interested in learning to give massage and would he be interested in a free session as long as I could join in and watch/participate. The guy said sure, sounded like fun. We set up a mutual time and I played the part to the hilt - white running shorts and a t-shirt. The guy looked like a model with just the right muscle/swimmer build. I was salivating. The massage began and “John” deserved an award by describing all the strokes, and the muscle groups, etc. just like a massage school lesson. It was hella fun. Of course it morphed into a full-on erotic event and I lost track of who was doing what with who. The client was well-satisfied, and we did two more sessions. The client paid the basic rate and I more than compensated “John” for the experience. I would love to try it again some time.

I have to say I was very naive with anal sex. I didn't know there was a technology called douche for many years. I dated with guys and I went to escorts. I don't know how many accidents happened, but most of guys didn't want to meet me again after we had sex. Until an escort told me about douche.
I regret I didn't know it earlier. 

I’ve met several folks from the site here. In fact… I’ll be seeing one member later tonight and a couple more tomorrow.   

But we (the customers) aren’t the ones who lump you all in…. It’s you… the licensed- 100% therapeutic-massage therapists. 
The customer understands the difference and makes a clear distinction of expectations when we go to: Hotel Spas, physical therapy massage studios, etc.  
it’s the “Massage therapists” who usually choose to cross lines of advertisement then are shockingly insulted when a customer desires a more sensorial experience. 
If you are a “professional, 100% therapeutic, massage therapist”, then don’t advertise on Masseurfinder (they actually have Massagefinder for the purely therapeutic folks), Rentmasseur or Rentmen. Create your own website to advertise where you can make your expectations of services clear, and there’s always specialty spas that cater to such needs. But to come into those type of spaces, and then be “shocked” and “insulted” is simply ridiculous. 
There’s room for all types of massage and all types of customers.  
 
 

Not sure if I should be posting these here or not. I am a big fan of underwear/gear and since you were looking for some pics I thought I’d share a few. I made sure there are some tighty whities in there for you guys. Hope it’s okay. 

I think it’s less of a dividing line and more like a Venn diagram where the two circles overlap to at least a 50% degree. 
Some sensual masseurs will work much closer to escort type work whereas others stick to just naked massage. In my time as a sensual masseur some of my sessions have been just massage and some where we have gone much further so that it becomes an escort session but always there’s been a base of massage. 

I agree with you. Why bother with straight men or the undecided? There is no shortage of gay men or men who voluntarily offer their services for cash. I believe sexual dealing with a straight man is a disaster waiting to happen. When I see a man advertising on rentmen who declares he's straight, my brain yells "NEXT!!"

Hey, I am old, saggy, and not physically attractive to any young muscleboy, which is my type. But I do pretty well. It's trying to be a nice person, treating them with courtesy, dignity, and respect; showing interest in them and their pleasure, learning what gets and keeps them hard. Young men can bring beauty, energy, new ideas techniques, and sexual prowess. An old coot like me has none of these anymore, but I can bring maturity, experience, patience, judgement, and financial resources. We need them and they need us. Don't sell yourself short.

I wish I could meet more guys like you in my life. I am Asian, and I feel difficult to make friends since most guys aren't sexually into Asian guys. I was even refused by an escort when I told him I am Asian.😭 

It isn't very visual. A guy can have an anal orgasm without his partner even knowing it.

I wish I could meet more guys like you in my life. I am Asian, and I feel difficult to make friends since most guys aren't sexually into Asian guys. I was even refused by an escort when I told him I am Asian.😭 

I wish I could meet more guys like you in my life. I am Asian, and I feel difficult to make friends since most guys aren't sexually into Asian guys. I was even refused by an escort when I told him I am Asian.😭 

I wish I could meet more guys like you in my life. I am Asian, and I feel difficult to make friends since most guys aren't sexually into Asian guys. I was even refused by an escort when I told him I am Asian.😭 

What's a Sex Round?

It happens quite often. I’m hung, which seems to cause messiness sometimes. It’s cool, just stop, clean off and then carry on. I won’t rim after an accident down there though. 

When I film porn with guys who bottom regularly sometimes there’s an accident just the same as when I see clients who might be inexperienced bottoms so there’s no need to be embarrassed about it. 
I remember I saw a client one time at his hotel. We’d massaged etc and he wanted to fuck me (all this had been agreed previously so I was ready). I don’t usually bottom but if it’s arranged beforehand and agreed as part of the massage it’s all good. At this point in the story I’ll warn you to not be eating as you read my post, whether that’s eating food or ass….Oh and I’ll add at this point too that I was wearing a new pair or white adidas socks which I was really attached to. The socks are important. 
Anyway… the client (I’d seen him before)  wanted to try various positions in this session on the bed which was all fine. I think he wanted to re-enact scenes he’d seen in porn. I’m flexible and did my bit getting into some quite impractical positions but hey, it’s a job….
Then he wanted to do me doggy as I leant over the end of the bed. As I’m  bent over looking at the headboard he’s pumping away behind me when all of a sudden I feel a bit different and uncomfortable. He senses this and stops thrusting, then he pulls out quickly (not a good idea). Instantly there’s a cascade of dirty water from my ass all over the carpet, and my socks which bore the brunt of it. The client has jumped back and is now panicking about the mess. I’m standing in a brown mess, my socks ruined, the carpet, previously a nice cream colour is now muddy brown, and I sense that the session is probably now over….and so are my socks. 
I tell my client to go and get some towels from the bathroom and as he’s in there I’m peeling off my socks and have grabbed a towel off the massage table to wipe my bum. Anyway, we clean up as best we can and fortunately most of the stain comes out of the carpet. The client is staying in that room overnight so he’s anxious it’s all cleaned up ok. 

Fortunately after we’ve tidied up he can now see the funny side and we spend a while chatting on the bed, both naked but somehow the horn has gone. I didn’t like to check with him whether he’d cum or not but he seemed satisfied and paid etc. I dumped my socks and the brown stained towels in the bin as I left the hotel.
I think the douche (which was done at least 4 hours earlier, and which had been clear) had probably resulted in some water getting trapped in my passage and it was disturbed by the regular changes of position. I’d used a shower attachment to douche and had probably used too high pressure (you learn…). It’s usually best if you’re anxious about making a mess to avoid too many different positions and avoid keep pulling out. Once it’s in, keep it in, if possible, and if there’s a risk of mess don’t wear new socks. 

I can continuously add on to this.  If any of you have PM'd me about this specific masseur in Hell's Kitchen who provides nuru style erotic massages then you've probably gotten all these details already, BUT..
I showed up at this place for my erotic massage (although I had no idea it included nuru as well) and he answered the door in his wife beater and sweats. He smiled and introduced himself as we shook hands and he asked how I was doing. He was happy as hell that I'm black too since his exact words were "I'm always happiest when I get clients who look like me." .. He asked if I wanted to shower or if I needed water or anything, so I said I'd take some water. He told me to make myself comfortable and then hop up on the massage table when I'm ready, so I undressed while he went to get the water. As I hopped up on the massage table, he walked back into the room (butt ass naked, dick already semi hard) while holding the water. He smiled as he handed it to me, and then he smacked my ass playfully and said "Nice!". After I finished my water, he turns on the relaxing massage music and starts to oil up his hands and my body. He started with my neck and back of course, working his way down to my lower back and ass, spreading my ass cheeks and blowing on my hole a bit. He asked if I was okay and comfortable to which I replied "I'm absolutely amazing, do your thing." He laughed and continued playing with my ass and hole before moving down to my legs. Once I turned over, I was rock hard and precumming, as was he although he was precumming a lot more, so I asked him if I could taste it, and he said "Yup!" so I squeeze some precut out of the head of his dick, and tasted it. He asked me how he tastes and I said "good as fuck". We both laughed and he continued massaging my while I laid on my back. From my neck to my stomach down to my dick, which he grabbed and started stroking it. He once again asked if I was comfortable to which I replied "Even if I wasn't, my dick seems to be." and we both laughed. I came all over his hand, and then he cleaned his hand off, and I started to get up, assuming the massage was over. He told me it's not over yet, and to turn back over onto my stomach. He then oiled up his body and my back area again before climbing onto the massage table and rubbing his body against mine. While he's on top of me, he's moaning loudly as am I, while he's holding both of my hands. I felt his dick precumming against my ass, and then I felt him kinda squirm for a sec. I asked him what's wrong and he replied "I don't wanna cum yet!", so then I turned over and he's now rubbing the front of his body against the front of mine. My hand are on his ass, pulling him further onto my body, and then he starts to kiss me, which I didn't mind at all. After a little while of that, he turns me over, and climbs onto the back of me again. Now for the unexpected part, I feel him rubbing my hole which was fine, but then he leans into me with his precumming dick against my ass, and he grabs my hands while slowly pressing into my hole. I literally feel the head of his dick sliding into me, so I flinched and pushed it out of me and he goes "I'm sorry, I was just going with the flow, I hope I didn't hurt you or make you uncomfortable." I was like nah, I'm good, just wasn't expecting THAT part, LOL. But we both laughed it off, he made me cum again, I stroked him and gave him some head and let him cum all over my face, he had me looking like a damn chocolate glazed donut, but it was a good time all in all. I haven't booked with him since then since a few other forum members have said he's become very unreliable, but yeah..
 
 
 

Doesn’t matter what the client is like. I know that may sound counter intuitive  and before I started doing sex work I had the view that supposedly ‘hot’ clients would be easier to get hard with. But now I’ve seen all sorts of shape clients I realise that I can get hard for all types. If they are happy in my company then I find I’m turned on. I guess it’s why I do sex work, I enjoy it, I enjoy meeting all sorts of people and helping them with sexual exploration. That’s a turn on.
Condom use is also ok although I do think it’s easier to get / stay hard without a condom. 

It isn't a very visual phenomenon.

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