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So true. In my case, it meant spending a lot of time on social media doing some detective work: I became ‘friends’ with a couple of guys who introduced/recommended me to their friends.

The sofa is outdoors and they’ve put a throw over it. So just for the sake of the 3 nice looking muscleboys I’m prepared to relax my usual standards.

The sides/arm-rests of those 3 sofas all seem uncomfortable and hard. On the first two sofas, the man is obviously unable to appreciate fully being sucked off. The third sofa clearly gives insufficient support as the two men are reducing to just rubbing cocks.

These are some truly ugly sofas @Whitman. You must get out more ;-)

Now there’s a guy I find sexy. Thank you @honcho

He’s pretty but I don’t find him sexy at all. He has the same pouty look in all the photos I’ve seen of him in brief underwear and swimwear.

Have you read that book @marylander1940 ? Was it insightful?

I’m sorry this happened to you @alrajee but you undoubtedly made the right decision. Very wise of you. Something similar - a sudden rate increase by an escort I dated overnight once a week and with whom I enjoyed the hottest sex - happened to me years ago. Obviously, it was “nothing personal, just business”. In retrospect, it helped to motivate me to find a steady boyfriend.

Ugh! Why are so many Americans obsessed with minor British royalty? Didn’t your forebears fight a War of Independence to escape this nonsense?

What a range of men @TruthBTold Ridiculously bulky Lovely ! Beautiful man

Please @TruthBTold Have some consideration! I’m eating breakfast and I do not need to see a pic of a semi-naked man looking at the ass of a woman!

Funnily enough, @dlee02 I saw a pic of him (when younger) in the last couple of days in another of the picture-threads here. He’s very attractive and one of our tribe too!

Funnily enough, @dlee02 I saw a pic of him (when younger) in the last couple of days in another of the picture-threads here. He’s very attractive and one of our tribe too!

I haven’t looked at Hunqz in a long while but IIRC you have to set your own location/hometown to the place that you wish to browse. Having set your location accordingly, a list should appear.

Did he give you your usual fee? ;-)

I don’t know @Quincy7 but I guess a discreet, private message on social media would work. If it helps, when I wrote I mentioned where/when I was planning to go. I said it would be an all-expenses-paid vacation for him as I wanted an attractive companion, but wondered what cash he might require. As I recall, I only once got a “No interest”. The other guys started up conversations which, nowadays, I’d suggest you quickly take to WhatsApp

@tassojunior is quite correct. I did this several years ago when I was ‘between boyfriends’. I politely contacted some BA guys who had online ads on GayRomeo (now named PlanetRomeo and Hunq). One BA guy was interesting for what he told me. He had already travelled with several different clients. Tho str8 (as he defined himself), he much preferred older men as he said they were “less demanding physically”. He cheerfully informed me how much he got paid and how little he did in return. Travel with clients earned him far more money than filming ever did. Another BA guy was new to the idea of travelling with a client. We exchanged a few emails then phone calls*, and he and I made arrangements - we had a really good time on vacation. *(Just to confirm: I was very explicit in advance about how I expected us to spend the days and nights, and also about what would please me; he was equally direct about what he needed as a paid companion).

I don’t consider this thread to constitute ‘drama’. I find the observations and comments highly interesting. Thanks for replying at length @Coolwave35 Your additional posts helped me better understand the difficulty about which you posted originally.

I saw Kit Harrington in the flesh in London last year. He’s not tall but he has a good physique. If I was single and he was available, I’d top him.

@Coolwave35 (the OP) said “ Recently I've been hitting it off...flying repeat hires out”. Let me explain: it’s natural to form bonds when the companionship is pleasurable; repetition reinforces those bonds; and ‘small talk’ at the beginning and end of an encounter is both civilized and fine. But you are the client: it’s up to you to initiate action and to terminate the date. As with any date that goes on too long, just smile and say “I have some other plans this evening so we must finish, but I’m going to look forward to seeing you again”. Just keep it professional; when the allotted time is up, just smile and hand over an envelope with the cash.

As a very frequent visitor to the US over many years, I’ve never had a problem with the Border Control/Immigration Authorities. I used to have a visa but it was automatically cancelled once the ESTA was introduced. I have asked the Officers a couple of times in recent years about the number of visits. Each time the response has been that It’s not a problem. Just keep the stay to 89 days - one Officer pointed out that if there was a problem with my return flight/aircraft and it was postponed for 24 hours, that way I’d still comply with the 90 day rule. The only problem I can foresee with frequent visits/long stays is that the IRS will become interested. (A few years back, I was involved with a handsome young actor. For over a year, I commuted monthly to LA and stayed with him for 2 weeks each time at his place in Century City. I came onto the IRS’s radar and had to answer several questions about where I paid my income taxes (Spain). But having answered satisfactorily, there were no problems on further visits).

Did you see the interesting exchange between Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez and the Gilead CEO on why the drug costs $1780 in the US but only $8 in Australia?

It takes a big investment of effort over a long time to gain a gymnast body. And a “very talented bottom” is always a great find. I’ve not met this particular guy, but I’ve fond memories of playing with a similarly built young man who had been on the US gymnastics team. So I don’t think that asking 300 is too much. If you’re interested @Jostar why not take him for a test-drive?

I think you touch on an important point here. As adults, we can control our thoughts and our emotions and thus our behaviour. But we cannot control the inner workings of our brain and body. You mention dopamine but I feel that oxytocin plays a bigger role. Just as a stressful situation can trigger a cascade of stress hormones, so a pleasurable situation and orgasm can trigger the release of oxytocin. Produced in the hypothalamus and released during sex, this neurotransmitter and hormone plays an important role in establishing trust, empathy and social bonding. Put simply, you may know that you’re having sex with an escort and you know that his primary motivation is money. Your brain and body, however, produce a chemical response as if you’re with a much-desired lover.

You’ve really lived life to the full @Ajac ;-)