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Is it possible for you to get a hotel room in Brooklyn and drive out to Brookhaven? That way, as @quaero suggests, you will access a much greater pool of talent.

I never worry about the labels people use or how they define themselves. Surely all that matters is whether he is compatible and happy to meet all your needs?

Thanks @fedssocr1 I’ll have to watch this. Wonder if the reality of their lives, struggling to pay their bills etc, will be shown? Or how they have to be flexible about making ends meet? ;-)

Sadly, I think you’re right @ScottyTX100

I know those 3 cities well and I don’t think you will encounter overt racism at all. Certainly I would expect service-providers to be very happy to meet you. But if you are concerned, why not just say “I’m American and a person of colour...”? In much the same way, when I hired, I always stated upfront “I’m a middle-aged man, gym-fit but bald, and a dominant top who likes to kiss a lot. Will we be compatible?”

You’re right @tassojunior that renewals are key. Not to quibble but I know one blond muscleboy who likes to travel and doesn’t hold down a job. So he poses in briefs and at the gym with an obvious erection; to his ‘fans’, he poses naked but with only partials of his erect cock. He told me that even with the churn, he keeps a steady level of 500-600 ’fans’. And he thinks the money isn’t taxable and he’s happy making around $5000 a month. Another muscled guy I know well does more for his ‘fans’ (strips naked, jerks off) and he makes more than he did as a full-time personal trainer.

I remember that bar fondly as I picked up a preppy young man there in the late ‘80s. He was dressed, like me, in a suit, shirt and tie. Back at my place, I confirmed that he had a good body and he was very uninhibited in bed. I never knew if he was a working guy or just liked the thrill of getting paid. Afterwards he only asked for “cab fare home” and he was happy when I gave him $50.

I did not mean to offend you @WilliamM. I used ‘coy’ to describe your seeming a little reluctant... Thank you for providing the info. I am sure it will be helpful generally.

You’re right @Mustang. This is why I hate Onlyfans. When I was single a few years back, I was a gay version of the heterosexual modeliser. I specialised in dating fitness and fashion models, especially underwear/swimwear models as I like a handsome face with a ripped, muscled body. I often found str8 guys 21-24 were keen to date. Of course, they were much more interested in my thick wallet, rather than my thick cock, but we always reached a satisfying agreement. I very much liked that such fit young men had expensive tastes (for travel, clothes and accessories, food etc) yet had only irregular incomes that were rather small. And of course they also had mundane bills for gym, phone, rent etc that had to be paid regularly. Onlyfans has changed that equation and not in favour of the middle-aged admirers of fit young men. Now a handsome muscleboy can set up an online profile and get a steady stream of $ while doing little other than post steamy pics and a few videos hinting at how he looks naked. I’ve heard from a few guys what they can make on Onlyfans and frankly the sums have surprised me.

Please don’t be coy @WilliamM Where is this different location?

Now that he’s trying to get ahead as a male model, he may have to put those lips to good use to succeed.

Actually, a few years back, the use of GHB in major US cities such as Chicago and NYC was quite great. It featured heavily in reports of sexual assault - the victims calling a multinational helpline in the US were more often men than women.

Interesting article @tassojunior and a timely reminder to always keep a close watch on your drink in any club or bar

Revealing photo: a lovely young man with a good physique. Originally he’s a Texan ‘longhorn’ but now working in LA.

He certainly wants ‘cash slaves’. He was very upfront about that. I’m not too sure what, if anything, slaves get in return. I was equally direct in my response about not being a masochist/slave. I made it plain that when I financially support a guy, I expect full interaction.

No “intel” but my guess is good old-fashioned chemistry’. He certainly has professional photos on his advert. I congratulate you on your good taste @adventurous old guy Please report back if you do meet him. BTW did you see this related(?) thread? https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/bernardobrtouk-in-nyc.145258/#post-1716815

Very true @TruthBTold. I’ll let you know if I decide he’s “worth” meeting.

He’s fit but I’m unsure about him. I don’t know if he’s gay or just GFP. He’s certainly keen on getting gay men to be his ‘cash slave’.

You're quite right @WilliamM and I share your interests. Apart from culture-vultures, some men are foodies and enjoy a local buffet; others may be more carnal and want to feast on a local butt.

No @sync I certainly don’t see your response as critical. I’m glad that here almost all posters are polite and we can exchange views. Perhaps, as a non-American, I don’t appreciate the meaning of @IndyGuy stating “get the vibe” and then attributing various qualities to PB despite never having met him. That, to me at least, is making assumptions. I was certainly not offended by what @IndyGuy wrote. I just thought that almost all of us know that ‘looks can be deceptive’. One small point, however, is that I cannot “closely confirm” the...qualities...that @IndyGuy perceived”. Yes, PB is physically attractive (he indeed has a ripped, muscled body) but in a social setting he is rather dull and a poor conversationalist. He was charming to me but I would not describe him as “articulate”. I have no idea whether he is kind, grounded, well-centred etc., but he told me he enjoyed his free vacation in Greece.

Wow! @IndyGuy I don’t want to be bitchy but, as you state you’ve “never met him”, you seem to be making huge assumptions based simply on physical appearance. I’ve met him a few times. He is smart and physically gorgeous. He was personable in our social encounters (both guests at a couple of functions and both invited to the same house-party in Greece) but I never discussed architecture with him.

@Hlparx I’m very confident this is the same guy. Your post made me look at his reviews and check his online ad: he’s still using a couple of photos that I remember from ‘way back then’ Of course I haven’t dated Braden in years but I have a good memory for a smooth muscled physique. IIRC he had some connection to England and only worked in LA periodically. To me, it would be odd for a different guy to be using his name and photos. Again IIRC he did not show his face in his ad then, but he sent me a face pic after we’d arranged a date and before we met. Maybe you should ask him for a very recent pic or enquire whether he is in exactly the same physical shape as shown in his pics.

I agree @Quincy_7. I’m a man of simple tastes. Give me a fit-bodied and eager young man, and all I need is a decent power-shower to freshen up before we workout in a good kingsize bed, and plenty of towels to clean up later.

@Ocposterboy if you describe what types of guy you like - 20s, 30s twink, jock, muscleboy etc - and what activities you envisage as a top/bottom/versatile man in the threesome, I suspect you will get more responses. Just my 2cents but I find people here are helpful. It’s just easier to answer precise queries. The key to getting better info on guys and more helpful responses on how well they play with others is to be specific.

I really wouldn’t be shy or worry about this @Starlight77. In my experience, staff working in big city hotels have seen and heard it all before.