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An impressive roster. You have good taste in men @asian sensatin

@Ichabod may I ask what rate you paid your companion for the different experiences?

Beautiful physique and available for personal training in NYC An even more beautiful physique. Any idea who he is and where he’s based?

Tough question for anyone to answer. I once made an exception to my policy (of seeing clear face photos before meeting) for a guy who was exceptionally well-reviewed here. Transpired that his physique was definitely not as in his profile (not ripped, no 6pack etc) and his face could best be described as homely.

Not at all: it’s just not what I seek. I prefer a handsome young man with an athletic physique and a “preppy” appearance. My comment is based on knowing the guy and feeling that he is in prime physical condition now.

Certainly he looks very attractive to me. If I was hiring, as @Johnny_85 is considering, I'd pick up the phone and talk to him.

He's Polish-American. His face is handsome but soft-featured. His body is nicely built and athletic. Its just my feeling that as he ages, bulks up and loses the softness, he will seem very rugged

If we had a good talk and then a fun time at home, I'd offer to take the guy out for lunch/dinner. And I'd set up a second date. I agree 100%. I always met in public first (to check the man matched his photos). And with some guys, you get an instinct that not everything is as it should be...and so I did not disclose my precise address until after the first date had gone well.

I would send an initial text, stating (using myself as an example) that I like to meet guys like him, handsome with a muscled body, and I value full service but I'm only a top - are we compatible? If we are, is there a time I can call you briefly to finalise arrangements? If I didn't get a positive response, I'd move on. If the man responded well, I'd call and say that prior to fixing the date, I just need to know that he's happy with what I like to do - deep kissing with tongue, me getting sucked without condom, me topping him with condom and me unloading in his mouth. I emphasise that it's a menu, not a check-list. Most times, guys said they appreciated me being clear and direct. I can recall only 2guys who would not discuss and I'd add that my concern was about compatibility - if they would still not discuss, I'd move on.

Just saw this and I realised I know him. He’s young and very good looking with a masculine appearance now, but it’s easy to see that he won’t age well.

All very good advice @firefly16. I’d assumethat the man you choose will be physically attractive, but remember he is not telepathic nor is he a mind-reader. Please state directly what you are looking to enjoy in your time together. And if a specific activity (eg deep kissing with tongue, being sucked to completion without a condom, or kissing and cuddling afterwards) is really important to you, mention it to him and ensure that he is ready and willing to perform according to your wishes. There is no point in being shy. I don’t want you to end up being disappointed and paying for a bad time.

I agree strongly with the advice posted by @MikeBiDude. I adopted a similar strategy - coffee or meeting over a drink/no obligation, no payment - when I used the site. It’s intriguing how within 10-15 minutes of conversation you can tell who is a nice guy and establish whether there is chemistry or not. I was pretty direct in stating in advance that we would talk first and, if we both wanted to, then see whether we were physically compatible. Over time, I found that the only objectors to this meeting were guys who seemed problematic or difficult. Like him, I had a high success rate in meeting attractive young men and enjoying some very successful dates.

Beautifully put [uSER=12309]@TheOtherGuy[/uSER] : I suspect that each of us has in our past a very attractive young man who met all our needs until he didn’t.

I feel Seeking is Capitalism in the raw, rather than Socialism ;-)

There’s no specific requirement, @Reisr30, as @Unicorn states above. But I disagree with his views. I think the purpose of the website is clear: it enables younger and older men to meet. If you are an older man seeking a younger companion, you better have plenty of disposable income (and/or a high net worth) if you are going to take numerous candidates on dinner-dates etc and pay for all the related expenses. Of course, it will boost your attractiveness to younger men if, as @Unicorn suggests, you dress well and are in good physical shape as well as being intelligent and entertaining. Similarly a younger man seeking to be looked after by an older man had better be handsome and have an athletic or defined body. In addition, he should be charming and agreeable as well as interesting if he expects a date to develop into a relationship where he is cared for over the long-term.

Is Amir still based/working in Orange County?

An interesting and thoughtful response @LivingnLA (tho I'm no fan of therapy)

He's so pretty. He deserves to be flat on his back.

I agree that book showed John Barrowman in a very bad light. I wonder if JB inadvertently revealed his true character: JB mentioned the gifts (and free vacation) Valentino gave him, yet he whined about not getting a modelling contract after he became irritated at Valentino touching his hair. I don't recall @Unicorn if you mentioned what country your boyfriend is from. Is he Brazilian?

Great photo of the 2 guys in matching red speedos protecting their modesty. I like how the pic catches one clutching his chest while the other cradles his cock.

That boy was so cute and seductive in his early 20s.

In my mind’s eye, I see him being stripped, horizontal and a splendid bottom.

I’m sure @tassojunior will be along to respond, but from his earlier postings I believe that is the reason for their visit to and lengthy stay in the US

@jock I wonder if autocorrect denied us the pleasure of learning how many men Jose satisfied and in what way... ;-)

I haven’t found a setting but I just open those in the usual way and I see the ‘sensitive’ material. It may be that I have vanilla tastes but I haven’t been affected by this change. Of course, I have seen some shocking and kinky stuff such as the Ukrainian male model Igor Kolomiyets not displaying his erect cock (as on Sean Cody) and even wearing underwear.