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Beautifully put [uSER=12309]@TheOtherGuy[/uSER] : I suspect that each of us has in our past a very attractive young man who met all our needs until he didn’t.

I feel Seeking is Capitalism in the raw, rather than Socialism ;-)

There’s no specific requirement, @Reisr30, as @Unicorn states above. But I disagree with his views. I think the purpose of the website is clear: it enables younger and older men to meet. If you are an older man seeking a younger companion, you better have plenty of disposable income (and/or a high net worth) if you are going to take numerous candidates on dinner-dates etc and pay for all the related expenses. Of course, it will boost your attractiveness to younger men if, as @Unicorn suggests, you dress well and are in good physical shape as well as being intelligent and entertaining. Similarly a younger man seeking to be looked after by an older man had better be handsome and have an athletic or defined body. In addition, he should be charming and agreeable as well as interesting if he expects a date to develop into a relationship where he is cared for over the long-term.

Is Amir still based/working in Orange County?

An interesting and thoughtful response @LivingnLA (tho I'm no fan of therapy)

He's so pretty. He deserves to be flat on his back.

I agree that book showed John Barrowman in a very bad light. I wonder if JB inadvertently revealed his true character: JB mentioned the gifts (and free vacation) Valentino gave him, yet he whined about not getting a modelling contract after he became irritated at Valentino touching his hair. I don't recall @Unicorn if you mentioned what country your boyfriend is from. Is he Brazilian?

Great photo of the 2 guys in matching red speedos protecting their modesty. I like how the pic catches one clutching his chest while the other cradles his cock.

That boy was so cute and seductive in his early 20s.

In my mind’s eye, I see him being stripped, horizontal and a splendid bottom.

I’m sure @tassojunior will be along to respond, but from his earlier postings I believe that is the reason for their visit to and lengthy stay in the US

@jock I wonder if autocorrect denied us the pleasure of learning how many men Jose satisfied and in what way... ;-)

I haven’t found a setting but I just open those in the usual way and I see the ‘sensitive’ material. It may be that I have vanilla tastes but I haven’t been affected by this change. Of course, I have seen some shocking and kinky stuff such as the Ukrainian male model Igor Kolomiyets not displaying his erect cock (as on Sean Cody) and even wearing underwear.

Other members of the gym, muscled friends of escorts, personal trainers who didn’t escort but needed some cash, and horny guys on the apps.

I don’t mean to patronise you @LookingAround but I have some thoughts based on my experience with this. It seems to me it would be better for you to ask an escort you know well to help you. My view is that you don’t need an escort to be an administrative assistant, rather you need an escort who knows you well and understands your taste in men and what activities you enjoy. I wonder if you plan on hosting this group in your home or an hotel suite. Or do you want the escort to be able to have the group at his place and co-host with you? Also, are you planning to invite other working guys to this group or will it be only willing amateurs? FWIW in the past I organised several group-dates of 4-6 men (in total) and they were always fun. I hosted them in my house but had one larger gathering in a 2 bedroom hotel suite. Typically I invited a 50:50 mix of working and amateur guys. My preference was to invite only handsome, muscled young men (21-35) who sexually defined as versatile or bottom. It was always a considerable effort to organise the guys and ensure the group started on time. I asked in advance about what beverages, snacks etc might be wanted; I agreed fees and payment on leaving the party; and I spelt out in advance what activities were anticipated, whether 1-on-1 or as a group. I arranged to have plenty of bottled water, condoms, lube and towels (as well as poppers for the bottoms) available. I emphasised that recreational drugs could not be brought into my house. I outlined the expected finishing time. On the first group-date, I provided wine but no liquor and as I introduced the men to each other, I had them be bare-chested ‘to break the ice’. Having described what I knew each guy liked to do/have done to him, I seized the initiative and started making out with the guy I found hottest. That got things going. Amazingly, 1 of the 5 guys invited arrived 1.5 hours late, so he was promptly spit-roasted by the rest of us as ‘punishment’. My surprise on that first occasion was how long some guys took to clean up and dress after play had finished; I recall 2 guys still being present 1.5 hours after the others had left. On later dates, I learned to spell out that on arrival guys were to strip down to their briefs/jockstraps before I introduced them to each other. I also emphasised that guys had to arrive within 15 minutes of the start-time or they would not be admitted (or paid if a working guy). I also learned to state that I preferred to play with each of the new guys 1-on-1 before we had some group action.

+1 On a dinner-date with Ricardo in SF, I gently touched his nipples through his shirt. Once back in my hotel-room, I repeated this as we began kissing. It sent him into overdrive and he kissed me voraciously as he undressed me. And, as the book says, he went on to do a great deal more...

My physician once commented that it’s rather difficult to get warts from skin/skin contact. He pointed out that he’d touched and examined lots in his working life but never had one himself.

My usual technique is to smile and to compliment or remark on something not obvious to the man who interests me. An ex of mine (a handsome guy with a great physique) once told me I captivated him on our first meeting by not complimenting him on his looks but by asking him his thoughts on a current blockbuster art exhibition.

This is something I find insanely hot. As a top, I love it when a fit young man enjoys me unloading in his mouth, swallows my load and drives me wild by keeping on sucking my cock until I’m totally drained. A few years back when I hired, I was lucky enough to find several escorts who were talented cocksuckers and dedicated cum-swallowers. My favourite blond muscleboy was such a cum-hound that, as my cum hit the back of his throat, he himself would ejaculate hands-free.

For me, his smile and that torso make him eminently do-able.

I remember this guy from years ago when he rejoiced in the title of “best bottom in London”. Shame he went the steroidal/bulky role.

And men, working or not, never lie about their size nor their age ;-)

He’s short but very beautiful

You do realise it's just 'legalese', right? Hiring in Australia is relatively straightforward. Otherwise, if you are so fearful, it may be better for you not to hire at all.

From his porn and his own postings, he appears to be a voracious bottom. At Fiesteros, there will be plenty of muscled 30something men ready to fill his hole. I think the advice from @Harryinny is sound and you might better wait for a less competitive arena FWIW I attended Fiesteros 12 years ago. A friend of mine knew the organiser and secured my invitation to the apartment where the party was being held. At that time, as a gym-fit 50 year old, I was the only man who was aged over 35. There were a lot of goodlooking men present but I was very surprised by the amount of barebacking then.