DrownedBoy

I dont know about you, but if I pay my plumber, etc., in cash, I always get a discount.

I've met Asian gentlemen who would challenge this belief.

Some clients use Mr. Number too. Beware.

My philosophy as well. On the 1 or 2 occasions when the escort was respected enough for me to be willing to place a deposit, I prepared to get stood up, and praised them for honestly showing up.

Damnit I was going to hire him. Was a nice guy when we chatted.

I mentioned this in a different thread, but banks will often report withdrawals of amounts muuuch less than 10k. CYA.

I heard that RM messenger doesn't have enough cybersecurity. That's why I'd never set anything up via it.

The same "safety net" I was getting when job hunting and getting cancelled or useless job interviews: tough.

Yup. Broke up with a boyfriend for the same reason. Who knows what they're covering up with those obvious lies.

Maybe they need to join a forum so we can all exchange notes and advice...

Ditto for Chicago. Sorry, but he's not that attractive, and I've seem much better muscles.

This is why I always talk to providers about kissing before I hire. A RM said he was into kissing, but when I told him I was into that, he replied thus. Needless to say, no hire. Well my rates start at 300/hr….. and kissing donations are per kiss at 50/per or flat rate of 200/hr

I've had young idiots cancel last minute and say we could do a "raincheck." I block them and report them here if they come up.

If they're marked "Available," it can't hurt to ask. Although it helps if you're not spending the holiday with a bunch of family members. 😁

Ditto to most of these. I've met quite a few escorts who have a bachelor's degree. But while they technically had an "education," they were not what I'd call intellectually curious. In fact, most are indistinguishable from public HS grads. I've only met one escort who bested me in an intellectual conversation. To be fair, though, we were discussing philosophy, and he had a liberal arts education (and was a dedicated reader) while most of my education was in STEM. But we could discuss Hannah Arendt without bluffing. Likewise, I've met escorts who thought they were street smart, but turned out to be clueless suburban boys who didn't even know how to handle basic situations. They had no idea on how to talk to or bluff credibility with LE or security guards. However, as shallow as this sounds, I hire escorts for their bodies, and try to leave the intelligent conversation to my bfs. One always pays for what they can't get free.

The jury was probably thinking, "That dirty old man had it coming."

He sounds like a Hindu looking for a wife, not an escort from Mumbai.

The new system does shift more power towards clients willing to pay extra. As I mentioned in other threads, since that change, even my long term regulars (who have excellent reviews) are begging me for a review. I prefer RM over other sites simply because a provider who pays for an ad has more skin in the game (no pun intended) than if not. It's only fair clients are given the chance to put some skin in the game as well to indicate seriousness.

Nah. Just honest with providers. 😆

Yup. Escorts who seem sweet as sugar during hourly sessions can turn into real bitches over a whole weekend. Honestly, the only way I'd try to vacation with an escort is if I went with some real friends, and just had the escort on speed dial to get me off once a day. I have little to nothing in common with the men I hire, so I feel no need to spend my social time with them.

I've largely given up on overnights after 2 experiences. First, my sex drive simply isn't what it used to be, mainly because of stress from my job (I'm usually on call, meaning I can get called anytime into a 24 hour emergency meeting). I'm only able to come once during a 8-12 hour session. Second, although I'd really like to fall asleep in a bodybuilder's arms, I end up feeling too hot and withdrawing to my side\bed. Finally, the things that interest me go right over the heads of most escorts, and there's only so much conversation you can have about the weather.

When I've had threesomes, I only worked with RM clients who either advertised as a couple, or with providers whose ad said they "had a friend" to come with for extra. In such situations, I've never paid more than the standard fee for 2 escorts, and they always gave me a discount since they didn't need to make any special arrangements.

Wouldn't be surprised. He would have to travel overseas to gay-sexually repressed places like Singapore to find enough people willing to blow 500 an hour for such a limited session.

Yup. Scammers playing off people's sympathy for the Ukraine. A problem not confined to RM. Too bad. If I were rich, I'd sponsor Kiriki, under the condition that his job would be "my house boy..."

Yup. My first serious boyfriend was also into BDSM, and had permissive parents who didn't believe in corporal punishment. I came from a military family with the exact opposite upbringing philosophy.