DrownedBoy

I didn't like it when my bf tickled me, so no to escorts doing it. I have no need to keep them happy.

It wasn't until I was in college that I studied under teachers who were actually smarter than me. Thank you, American public schools.

I'm glad I got it cut off when younger. As an adult, I'd probably chicken out unless there was a given medical reason for it.

One of these years I'll go. I need houseboy advice.

In the U.S., if you're a citizen, you can decline biometrics and ask the agent to do a manual check. They usually just glance at me, the passport, and wave me through.

Mine claimed his finger slipped and apologized.

"Power & Liberty" by Gordon S. Wood, which looks at political philosophy and how it changed during the revolution. It's an influence in Ken Burns's upcoming documentary on the American Revolution (mid-Nov) so it seemed like a good time to read it.

Broke the Second Commandment. Needs to do a penance 😛

Interesting experience while returning from an international trip. While in Italy, I enjoyed the company of a young man who, without me expecting, gave massive hickeys to my nipples. My gold crucifix set off the alarm, so the TSA guy insisted on feeling up my chest region, including the nipples. I told him my nipples were sensitive due to some "extracurricular activities." He didn't blink

I've met quite a few escorts who turned to Jesus and kept working. I met the first "born again" when I was 22....and I mean a "social meeting" since I obviously wasn't hiring back then. Most Latino escorts consider themselves Christian. I do as well. An intelligent Christian rejects 90 percent of the Bible, including its misinterpreted views on sex.

Turn off for me too. I recently slipped out of a cocktail party with a bunch of fat old rich white gays who spent all their time talking about their investments. I invest too, but I'm not so insecure that I need to brag that I do. And it shows they have a dull soul.

You know, there's gay men in prison too.

That's because the current Executive insisted the current Attorney General seek the death penalty in all cases, in an attempt to create a tough on crime image. That's political, and the defense attorney has entered that into the record. After the types of "criminal charges" issued by the Attorney General during the past two months, and especially last week, it's extremely doubtful that a NYC jury will unanimously take any of them seriously. I wouldn't be surprised if they have to be dropped beforehand, or if the judge simply decides the DOJ is no longer trustworthy enough to even listen to. He'll probably get 15 to 20 years due to mitigating factors and biases that jurors have (even if unconsciously), he'll be a "model prisoner" and get out within 10, and end up a celebrity as the American health care system starts being reformed. The brat will get what he wanted all along.

NY only has a second degree murder charge left against him. That might get him 15 years.

Don't worry - the mass murderer here was already gunned down last December. Since NY dropped the capital charges, it will be near impossible for the Feds to get a capital "terrorism" conviction. I estimate he'll get 10 to 20 years and will be out early. He'll spend those years replying to fan mail, and after America finally adopts decent comprehensive health care, he'll probably write a book and appear on talk shows after his release. I personally think he's a nepo baby brat who was trying to make a name for himself, and he had no prerogative to commit that crime (if UHC killed a loved one or hurt him, he would have a prerogative). But that's how the system works, and history is written by people of certain political persuasions.

Not always. My main regular provider (almost 9 years) has another long term regular client. That other client checks my profile every so many months on average. I raised that with my regular, as I found it creepy. Next time his other client does it I'm going to message him directly. This isn't some love triangle.

Relative youth, attractiveness and muscle, some humility (I don't hire prima donnas or the entitled), willingness to obey (my sub role-play fantasies require that), reasonable fees, and trustworthiness. A lot of these things, you can only get an idea based on how they respond to your inquiries. It's an art, not a science, and every so often, a bad one slips through, and I have to file a report with RentMen .

I have respect for Wernik, both his attractiveness and bravery. If he listed kissing, I'd hire him.

I hired a guy once and was rechecking his ad. While looking at it, he must have somehow seen my presence, and sent me a sarcastic remark about sitting on his ad all day. I responded to his RM Messenger text with a phone text to the number I hired him at. Epic fail - rudeness and disrespect are the ultimate turnoffs, and that stupid little narcissist cost himself a customer.

When an escort starts arguing over what they will and won't do after you made an appointment. Cancel. Immediately. Haggling providers are as annoying as haggling clients.

It's the younger escorts who flake the most often. GenZ is practically unemployable in real jobs, and they manage to screw up this job as well. Not understanding the importance of regulars is the main thing, I agree. Unbelievable how many arrogant brats tried to get on my good side....years after I hired and (unofficially) fired them.

Exclusively gay, as expected. Glad to be a pure blood.

Similar to DMonDude - in the past, I always hire through a regular, and he insists on handling the money, since he does the driving. If you want to save money, talk to the guy who gets more money ahead of time. You two should agree to pretend he's getting paid as much as the other. As long as he gets more, it's in his interest to follow that script.

I already tried getting those cons off RentMen, but no go. Probably because those brats are paying for Platinum memberships.

The only person not involved with the business I discussed it with was a straight friend who hired female escorts all the time . He sonehow managed to TMI me several times, but I got him back. It was fun exchanging stories.