DrownedBoy

Don't worry - the mass murderer here was already gunned down last December. Since NY dropped the capital charges, it will be near impossible for the Feds to get a capital "terrorism" conviction. I estimate he'll get 10 to 20 years and will be out early. He'll spend those years replying to fan mail, and after America finally adopts decent comprehensive health care, he'll probably write a book and appear on talk shows after his release. I personally think he's a nepo baby brat who was trying to make a name for himself, and he had no prerogative to commit that crime (if UHC killed a loved one or hurt him, he would have a prerogative). But that's how the system works, and history is written by people of certain political persuasions.

Not always. My main regular provider (almost 9 years) has another long term regular client. That other client checks my profile every so many months on average. I raised that with my regular, as I found it creepy. Next time his other client does it I'm going to message him directly. This isn't some love triangle.

Relative youth, attractiveness and muscle, some humility (I don't hire prima donnas or the entitled), willingness to obey (my sub role-play fantasies require that), reasonable fees, and trustworthiness. A lot of these things, you can only get an idea based on how they respond to your inquiries. It's an art, not a science, and every so often, a bad one slips through, and I have to file a report with RentMen .

I have respect for Wernik, both his attractiveness and bravery. If he listed kissing, I'd hire him.

I hired a guy once and was rechecking his ad. While looking at it, he must have somehow seen my presence, and sent me a sarcastic remark about sitting on his ad all day. I responded to his RM Messenger text with a phone text to the number I hired him at. Epic fail - rudeness and disrespect are the ultimate turnoffs, and that stupid little narcissist cost himself a customer.

When an escort starts arguing over what they will and won't do after you made an appointment. Cancel. Immediately. Haggling providers are as annoying as haggling clients.

It's the younger escorts who flake the most often. GenZ is practically unemployable in real jobs, and they manage to screw up this job as well. Not understanding the importance of regulars is the main thing, I agree. Unbelievable how many arrogant brats tried to get on my good side....years after I hired and (unofficially) fired them.

Exclusively gay, as expected. Glad to be a pure blood.

Similar to DMonDude - in the past, I always hire through a regular, and he insists on handling the money, since he does the driving. If you want to save money, talk to the guy who gets more money ahead of time. You two should agree to pretend he's getting paid as much as the other. As long as he gets more, it's in his interest to follow that script.

I already tried getting those cons off RentMen, but no go. Probably because those brats are paying for Platinum memberships.

The only person not involved with the business I discussed it with was a straight friend who hired female escorts all the time . He sonehow managed to TMI me several times, but I got him back. It was fun exchanging stories.

Both. Plus, even with a membership, I'm seeing a lot more headless ads. For some reason starting this year, a lot of escorts are blurring their faces...

I had a black escort start playing a TikTok (or similar) video with a guy lecturing on how evil white people are. I asked him to turn it off. He complied. Good example of how opinions are bad for business.

Yeah I contacted a former RentMen guy via FB and asked if he was still working. No response, so I assume he wasn't. No harm done.

He was eating hash browns not French fries.

Damn, that's longer than my journal entries when I hire. And I can be imaginative.

I've been rejected by quite a few guys who got creeped by for the fantasies I hire for. I just reject them as timid and unprofessional.

I just got to work (was in Springfield, the Illinois capitol) when my boss said a plane just crashed into the WTC. I said, "Are you sh!tting me?" We listened to it on the radio when one of the towers collapsed. Then we pulled up Yahoo! (which was a decent news source then) to find out the rest. My folks near O'Hare said it was the quietest day ever, since they grounded all flights in the U.S.

And he's full of shit and can't even afford a lawyer.

I find guys who live in low income urban areas. You can get them for 150 an hour. The problem is while their bodies are good, their personalities are horrible, and they can't think longer than 24 hours into the future. I need to dispose and find new all the time. They usually beg to get back after awhile, once they realize how easy my money was, but too late.

Once. It wasn't worth the extra money.

I have a Premium account, which signals to providers I hire and put my money where my mouth is. If they reject my request to unlock, it means they're stupid and have no business sense. Ads are a dime a dozen. They hurt only themselves.

You're thinking of host clubs, but paid male companionship is a lot more common in Japan. On the other hand, the "intimacy" between gay men is unrealistically depicted in yaoi manga, which is mainly read by straight women.

There was a long time escort who was in the area. I was surprised that an escort with 50+ stars quoted me 280 an hour. I checked the 411 in here on CoM, and he was seen as ok, although not the type who goes to the gym all the time. His last photo was a few months ago, and damn, he packed on the pounds in that short while. I had him keep his shirt on, but his face was fat too, which really darkened the mood. Yes, if the price seems low, there's always a reason.

I hire at hotels all the time. The decent chain ones don't care - it's common for a provider to just walk directly to my room. In better hotels, you have to come down to help them with the elevator key. In either case, nobody on staff cared, and I got a wink from a clerk who assumed I'd have "guests" overnight. The only thing you have to watch out for is people you know, if you're at a convention or something, and even then there's ways to minimize your visibility.