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Probably the MOST common mistake every tourist makes in London

I don't know about "most" delectable but he's got something about him that makes him sexy. And I don't normally find "twinks" attractive.

That cannot be understated. Even traveling as a New Yorker, who is accustomed to high prices, I found Zurich insanely expensive.

I always say: Thanks, but that's out of my budget. Very often providers will ask me what I was looking to spend. But I tell them I would never ask them to work for less than they feel they are worth and leave it at that. No one is going to work for less without providing less. So it's pointless to haggle

And conversely - in the United States shifting political landscapes WILL produce sting operations in various districts. So discretion is highly recommended. So do the opposite of what @Jamie21 is recommending. Even places like NYC where prostitution is "decriminalized" it does NOT mean it's "legal". So beware of the risks and don't confuse the apparent casual blind eye that comes and goes with law enforcement. You don't want to be caught with your pants down on the day a local senator is running for re-election and decides to "clean-up" his district with arrests of "sex traffickers". A term that lumps together ALL activity surrounding escorting.

So he's worth ZERO then. But for people who DO find him attractive some get-off on the chance to be with someone who they've already watched in action.

Hit me up on Grindr a few weeks back...so at least we know he's into mature men.😉

You never find an attractive guy in NYC with a porn career under his belt asking less than $500/hr ..so sounds like a bargain to me. Nice looking fellow and seems to be into some kinky play based on his photos.

There are two schools of thought on that one. I adhere to the legal one especially because of the mass collection of meta-data that is so common now that you don't want to be obviously breaking the law even when you THINK you're having a private conversation. My rule is discuss your INTERESTS and ask how much for their TIME. Never discuss sex for money. Once you meet and things get rolling you can be more specific about details Personally I like to MEET people first for a massage ..see how things go and then discuss a more sex oriented encounter for a second meet if i like their vibe. Have fun.

*** oof *** K J Apa makes me swoon....and that Kiwi accent ! 🤩 yum.

Absolutely. Under no circumstances do I look back at my early sexual adventures at 14 and think: OMG I was just a child. My memory is of absolute confidence in being in control of the situation and being happy I was with someone who was more experienced to guide me. A very happy memory and a positive experience in my sexual awakening.

I find it bizarre that the second son of the King of England jumped into a yellow taxi in New York City, as much as I find it impossible to believe that the son of a women killed in a car chase, decided to participate in a car chase.

I am quite sure there are many viewpoints due to many varied experiences. My gay friend who was sleeping with the teacher, was at the time over-the-moon happy. He wasn't the most handsome guy and had grown up with an abusive father. The affection that this older man gave him, brought a light to his face, and I remember there was an absolutely positive change to his demeanor. Always smiling and happy. Years later, his memory spun around in the opposite direction and speaks only of that period of time as having been a victim, "used" by a predatory teacher. When he first said this to me (we were in our 40's by then). I had to spend a few minutes trying to digest what he was saying because I remembered everything he was saying in a COMPLETELY different way. It was like driving through a parallel universe with him. Completely bizarre experience because I was present for much of their time together as we were both on the debate team and the teacher was our debate coach. (They would slip off together after meets and/or practices with an offer to "drive him home".)

Very sad. It's starting to appear that Harry is suffering from the same mental illness his mother had. Dementia-Narcissus

Her entire career is built on appearances. Her daughter Alexis has often described Martha's public persona as being the polar opposite of her true personality in actual life. In 2011, Alexis published a tell-all book, Whateverland: Learning to Live Here, which she co-authored with Jennifer Koppelman Hutt. The memoir made bombshell accusations about Alexis' childhood, particularly her mother's parenting style. -"Martha does everything better! You can't win," she wrote. "If I didn't do something perfectly, I had to do it again. I grew up with a glue gun pointed at my head." -When it came to holidays, Alexis said her mother was "not interested in being kid-friendly." -"She used to make me wrap my own presents," she recalled. "She would hand me things right before Christmas and say, 'Now wrap these but don't look inside.'" -On Halloween: "There were no costumes. There was no anything. We turned off all the lights and pretended we weren't home." -Alexis also accused her mother of being a hoarder who had "a very hands-off approach to child rearing" . - She wrote that Martha refused to buy her a bra when she hit puberty, among other things.

I remember when I was a teenager thinking Applebee's was good. Didn't even realize the place was still in business ! Such mediocracy ! Funny how some Americans never really experience fine cuisine and remain oblivious to what food should taste like throughout their entire lives. Terrible pity.

Obviously I never paid much attention to the law ...I just wanted to get my dick wet. ( plus I genuinely liked this girl ). To this day, I understood that I would have been in violation of the law. I wonder if the law as of 2023 is the same as it was in 1986. Interesting to know. Thanks @Unicorn for doing the research.

It's a label. Yes. But not a contradiction since the label is meant to encompass the entire category. So, it's the difference between the A, B or C editions of an encyclopedia and the entire collection of books. ( Yes, I'm that old, that I remember when encyclopedias were books)

I have never met Kiddo...but I have observed that the guy has CONSISTENTLY received rave reviews from a wide variety of gentlemen. So there is definitely a big degree of either professionalism or a professionalism borne of kindness. A combination that needs to be noted as a counter argument to the pessimism that was introduced to this conversation thread. NOT everything is about money. Certainly some providers are genuinely good people with a strong conviction of empathy toward lonely gentlemen who are reaching out for companionship, even if its for an hour or two.

Who knew you were such a poet.

Might seem like a contradiction but in defense of bisexuals, we use the term to mean we haven't "picked a side". It's a label that means we reject the usual labels.

Considering Martha had more wrinkles at 50 than she does at 80, I'm gonna call *bullshit* on that statement.

There were quite a few teachers in my years at High School, who were sleeping with students. Both gay ( women and men ) and heterosexual ( both women and men ). At the time, I only knew about a few ( my cousin at 16 sleeping with a 30 year old English teacher and one of my gay friends at 17 sleeping with a 26 year old English teacher. ) Over the years, we all discovered that no less than EIGHT of our classmates were sleeping with teachers. Two ended up marrying them ! And this was Central PA, deep in Pennsylvania Dutch ( Deitsch ) country. With deeply religious families populating most of the town. Even in the 1970s the place felt more like the 1950s. But by the 1980's many of my classmates were extremely sexually active.

Yup. I know that. Yet I have no regret and no sense that I was "raped". I was the happiest teenager in the world to have started out my sex life with someone older and more experienced. I went on in the same manner when I started exploring homosexuality with someone who was 40 when I was 20. Also, a very positive experience for me, leaving me with absolutely no regret, only many fond memories. I always felt this 2 year rule was an archaic remnant of the puritanical 1950s. Maybe I'm wrong. But in my case, I feel greatly blessed to have had both experiences with these people.