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This is the age-old mistaken arguement about prejudice. Claiming that ALL guys aren't groomers doesn't mean that SOME aren't. Embracing facts isn't prejudice.

I was raped at a Halloween party many years ago by an older gentleman with some degree of wealth and family social standing. I exposed his misconduct the very next day to everyone who knew him. I fail to understand why anyone would wait more than 24 hours to do the same. As a victim of rape myself I do find these accounts from years past to be completely unbelievable and even more so when fame and money comes into the picture.

Deterioration of kidney function in men over 50 is his major concern. The stomach issues are more uncomfortable than dangerous. Some liver damage reported but not common. DESCOVY appears (thus far) to have fewer incidents than Truvada.

My wealth is primarily from real estate holdings. The pandemic-panic challenged every landlord in NYC. People left the city in droves and rents plummeted. As the panic slowly subsided, landlords struggled to stay above water with non-payment isses and an attidute that we should absorb the financial disaster of every person who lost his job. What I noticed quickly were the Real Estate agent-buzzards circling offering to take this disaster off my hands. So my attitude was there is a light at the end of this very dark tunnel if big-money clients are eager to buy. So I refinanced at the extraordinarily low rates in 2020 and rode out the storm. Now I have low mortgage rates, emergency cash in the bank ( pulling a little extra in by packaging it into the mortgage ) and rental income that has soared upward due to inflation and increased demand. So for land-barons this kind of crash-the-market and wait for the rebound really benefits the pocketbook if you can ride out the storm. Your mortgage stays in old dollars while inflation changes your income to new (higher) income because you now need more dollars to match value. My income is up 40% from 2019.

Most every pharmaceutical product has a list of side effects. My GP. has long advised me against PreP and is pro-condom for that reason.

"Straight"...but likes to get fucked. Somehow his identity as actually straight comes into doubt.

There are several cultures who mostly drink beer...but any adult American with the slightest degree of class serves white wine as the standard.

I've never been to an adult party where they didn't serve wine. So I don't think it's odd to ask "where's the wine" unless you specifically invited them to "a kegger'.

Would love to see you in New York. Maybe you can organize a few interested dates if you post your profile as traveling to NYC. I'm sure there are plenty of gentlemen would like to meet you.

NYC is a tough town. You definitely need a master plan to be here.

That was actually a very bright and insightful perspective. Smart AND a great ass. Wish I were in Tampa !! 😉

Yes Aaron sent me a message that the renovations are almost done and they should be reopening soon. Donations to help with their reopening can be made here: https://gofund.me/af36beda

All the towns on Fire Island are separated by Nature Preserve areas..not just the Pines and the Grove . None of them have anything but sandy trails to go from one to another. ( Most people just walk on the beach ) I don't know the facts behind the organization of towns but I have worked on homes out there (I'm an architect) and I can tell you the environmental & land use laws are very strict..There are several lots in the Pines that used to have homes but once the structure was lost ( due to hurricanes ) the land is now restricted as part of the nature preserve even though there are houses surrounding them. They can't sell the land anymore for development. I think the whole land mass is now viewed as a nature preserve and the homes are granted exceptions as a grandfathering of having existed before the laws became more strict. There is an area further West at Jones Beach state Park that also is a nature preserve but there is an extensive cruisy area of trails through the dunes even though you are not supposed to be there. So my impression is that technically you're not supposed to be in ANY of these areas but it's all poorly enforced. You don't NEED to walk though any of these areas. You have water taxis and you can walk from town to town on the beach.

I agree.

There used to be more masseurs from Thailand here. But for some reason the last several years have seen a change in the number of young men traveling to the US on Student Visas and making some cash ( off the record ) as masseurs.

I believe the Pines invented snobbery. Granted, when I used to hang out there, I was one of those chiseled pretty boys....but the pecking order wasn't lost on me. As a mature man, it's amusing to think that I once reigned supreme, and now I wouldn't be allowed into a single house party. Even at 36 I remember a few despicable queens who would snigger at me when I would show up with some younger friends, as if I was a hideous troll for being so "old". It's definitely not a scene for the insecure. There is no boardwalk connecting because the area between the Pines and the Grove is a nature preserve ( in spite of the constant intrusion of people having sex in the bushes )

Unfortunately the massage culture here in NY is not the same as Thailand. It's really difficult to find a masseur skilled in this specialty. I've had two amazing providers over the years, but recently have been going without once they moved back to their home country.

Allowing him to be chewed up and spit out by the motor might have put an end to this nonsense for a good decade.

Creepy to the older generation. The young'ns stalk everybody on Social Media these days.

Not necessarily what you would even call "meat". Everything that you can't sell in the butcher counter goes in there. Penis, balls, asshole, ears, ankles and snout to name a few disgusting parts that get ground up for hot dogs. No thanks.

Strange. When you posted that, I looked myself and his ad was still up. I haven't seen him in a while and was worried about him so wanted to check if there was some strange behavior

I don't experience "drama" on Grindr, but I am tired of the ghosting. I've never seen an app that has so many people who TALK about hooking up, but then disappear when you try to set up a meet. Very bizarre. At least with the promise of some 💲... you're less likely to hook a flake.

Maybe he blocked @Harryinny ?