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Exactly true. I always found the other towns on Fire Island to be more charming to stay. The Pines was just fun to check out the pretty boys in the Pines for an hour or two. (Maybe drag one into the "Meat-Rack" for a quickie.) But I know some of the gays enjoy a gay-only-bubble, and the Pines and the Grove definitely provides that wonderland fantasy for those who need to be away from "the straights" and not feel "second class". The Hampton's isn't really a decent alternative, because that too is all movers and shakers from Manhattan doing their networking. So that's just tedious and ruins the whole social scene. Most of the gays are super pretentious and won't suck your dick if you're net worth is under $10M.

I was young (21) and a bit naive about such things. It DID seem "off", but I didn't know enough at that time to realize HOW unprofessional it was. This was about 1992, and I had assumed this kind of pontificating about the sins of homosexual activity had been resigned to the deep South. I was living in Pittsburgh PA at the time. Older and wiser now. I chose a physician who is extremely worldly, experienced and open minded.

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There ARE other towns on Fire Island. You don't NEED to stay at Cherry Grove or the Pines. There are multiple mini ferries going from town to town, that would allow you to visit the gay-centric towns for your dose of visual stimulus (or a bump of meth). Then head back home to a more peaceful environment in one of the other beautiful sea side villages on the island. You can alternatively visit from the town of Sailors Haven or Water Island by walking along the beach in 20 minutes time. I agree: the pernicious drug use in the gay towns is a downer. But its most obvious in the later part of the day when the body-builders start heading out for cocktails, coke and cuckolding

I think that's reasonable. If you don't want to participate with group-think then don't participate with the group.

I don't know how things are today but I remember when I was in my 20s I had a small problem with an anal fissure resulting from going to sex clubs and getting gang-banged by dozens of men over several hours. I went to a doctor who was "in network" for my insurance who judged me for engaging in anal sex and started reciting biblical examples of how I've "sinned". I thought that was rather unprofessional no matter what his religious beliefs are. Especially considering ACTUAL Christians aren't supposed to pass judgment. Taught me the importance of choosing a primary doctor and not using the one your insurance company issues.

Not surprising. Keeping in-mind that Nab'iliDON ( someone from Naples) is a disparaging term amongst Italians from outside the area.

For me telling me that he's absuing drugs is the same "ick" factor as somebody who tells me he's HIV positive. Both subliminal turn offs. Technically I'm not behaving differently during a sexual encounter with a stranger because in both situations I really don't know what goes on in anyone's personal life. But putting these facts "in the window" flips a switch in my brain telling me it's *emotional-quicksand* and I should avoid. Illogical perhaps but strongly influential in my decision making.

Those pictures on Masseurfinder are ancient.

Yup. I'm on board. I'd take your sloppy seconds. 😉

Agreed. @GeoMitch You might want to add your general location. At least pick a county. Unicorn makes a good point. Long Island is 118 miles long.

I will toss in a guess: Harry and Meghan represent a growing narcissism in young people today. Their entitled pity-party is emblematic of the sad state of the world. We are over-run with useless spoiled children who think they are the center of the universe.

Personally I don't think trans issues should have ever been lumped in with gay and bi issues in the first place. My impression is that your average-Joe middle America redneck now has fewer problems with gays as long as they are NOT cross dressers. I think the trans issue takes away from the progress of gay and bisexual people in middle America. Trans is still viewed by most mainstream American conservatives as a freak show. Needs to be separated OUT from the gay rights issue especially since a lot of trans people aren't homosexual ( or bisexual ).

THANK YOU for taking the time to post such an informative breakdown of your experiences.

Not saying I'm an expert, but I'm pretty confident that there isn't much of a transgender rights movement in Africa, Russia or any of the Muslim nations, that it would be affecting their miniscule gay rights agenda.

Where I grew up in Central PA, "gay bashing" was pretty common. Therefore I never had the nerve to even TRY to hook up with a dude, let alone tell anyone that I had same sex attraction. NOW, there are multiple bed and breakfast venues hosted by gay couples who live openly in these same communities. Things like bigotry get better over time, they don't just "go away". Pushing these issue down people's throat ALWAYS makes it worse, not better. People need TIME to adapt to changes in what is accetable social normatives. The issue here is about the excessive speed in which some social justice groups, move. It's freaking out mainstream people, and getting the REVERSE effect they are expecting.

Thanks. I hope he's ok. Although I had some fun times with him, I used to worry about his mental state that drove him to be so extreme in his sexual interests, and how that may put him at future risk with gentlemen that may not be as conscientious as I am.

I'm not sure where you get your statistics, but some aren't: There's a difference between "most" and "some". 12. “All” and “some” – A Concise Introduction to Logic MILNEPUBLISHING.GENESEO.EDU

Some adults believe that they were abducted by UFO's. I think most educated people understand that religious narratives are allegory. Just that most people aren't very well educated.

If I looked at their profile and didn't contact them, I would think it's obvious that I wasn't interested. BUT this comment sounds like some clients like to browse and don't reach out even when they ARE interested. Perhaps an awareness of shy clients is why some do reach out on their own.

Never had any body-builders next door.

They are also told about bunnies delivering eggs and candy and an old man with a white beard bringing toys. Children tend to like stories of magical entities bringing gifts. "Rub my dick and I will buy you a toy".

It's also not false. Sexual predators FREQUENTLY groom children. Some of them are looking for same-sex diddling. Prove me wrong.

...because "PARTY and PLAY refers to CHEMSEX using meth or ketamine as an aphrodisiac. Do you consider those "light drugs" ? What is your definition of "hard drugs" ?

"Grooming" is still considered dangerous no matter how much a person has adopted a live and let love attitude toward gays. "Acceptance" in the United States is mostly a matter of "It's ok what you do in your PRIVATE life but I DON'T want to confront it myself