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The "two way oral" is gonna be your limiting factor there.

If a massage session ever develops into a full escort session, my "tip" is to double his massage fee. I'm never looking for a discount sex session. I genuinely like a good massage. Sometimes I like the masseur enough that I feel like going further. But I never know that part until I'm already in his company.

Most Annoying Masseur Behavior You've Experienced: Trying to jerk me off when I'm not even hard. ( Read the room, man ) 😒

Ooops. 😆

Actually several members have offered you constructive criticism and you consistently view their responses as demeaning, belittling and condescending. So you should probably just stop asking questions if you don't like the answers.

I think the majority of American guys look like the 30% picture. Its a very obese culture here ..so you see plenty of that plus even bigger and sloppier 40% and up guys when you travel through middle America

When you want amazing Korean food, you always head to Queens. I've also had some of the best tacos ( for an amazingly cheap price ) great Italian, and Indian food in Queens. Zum Stammtisch is really the only remaining restaurant in NYC that serves good German food.

I think you can avoid politics by simply realizing it's about MONEY . Nobody in either political party wants to spend the money to deal with with mental illness( and serious drug addictions.) The rest is nothing but lip service.

Was a beautiful man in his younger years. Still holding up although no longer appealing to me personally.

Had his phone number. Texting was weird. Took forever to respond to the most basic questions

Tried to meet up this weekend but his poor communication made that difficult to do.

Jarrod. You do nothing but complain about your business. Lots of people have read your long posts and tried to offer suggestions to your many gripes. I am just one of them. But it seems you don't want answers. You just need to vent and keep repeating the same problems and never adjusting your approach. I'm sure plenty of other members agree. The "comprehending" and "listening" are advice you may (or may not) take for yourself. People are trying to help you but you don't hear anything because you always get defensive instead of listening and learning. No one is attacking you, so you should lower your armor for a minute and think about the things people are saying more carefully. Best of luck.

In North America "average" means FAT (not fit).

I don't have a problem sending a face pic. I see no reason why a provider can't see me before I show up at his door. I wouldn't want to be in the position where someone found me unattractive and was unable to perform.

It's called the escort business. Your problems are borne in the fact that people here are telling how to improve your business model but instead of thanking us your tell us we are all wrong and then you continue to complain you don't have enough business. Rather a vicious cycle you're creating for yourself. If twenty people say you're a horse every day... then maybe you should at least consider buying a saddle instead of insisting you're a dolphin.

Absolutely. Smaller museums try to prevent crowding by requiring a reservation of an arrival time. Most are not very strict about that time slot being exact if you arrive a little early or late ..but you must have the reservation or make one a the door and return later if it's busy.

VERY. Within the year living in LA, I had dozens and dozens of "friends". ... But One weekend I was feeling very sick and weak. I asked my "best friend" there to please check in with me and just bring me some things from the store. "He wasn't sure he had time". I called another ..who said they'd "try". Then another and another and everyone of these people who wanted to hang out when the party was on....couldn't commit to helping me when I was ill. I ended up asking for help from my Nicaraguan neighbor who I barely knew but to say hello when I'd see them outside. They didn't speak a word of English and my Spanish at that time was rough. She brought me soup and her husband drove to the store. Of course they weren't from LA either....so THEY understood the idea of how important it is for the soul to do things for others. The rest it seems are too focused on their own priorities to be able to work such a distraction into their busy schedule of going to the gym, working on their tan, getting a smoothie and/or getting laid. I left a month after that realization.

I don't think you need to BE a dolphin to be concerned about dolphins. "Black" is an identity and a community as much as it is a description of one's skin tone. Anyone from any ancestry doesn't need to be "pure-blood" to feel connections to their heritage.

"Europe" is a big place. Try using a public toilet in Ireland. You'll be stepping over hypodermic needles from the heroin addicts. In other countries, yes there are more outreach programs that limit the visibility of the problem but don't make the problem go away. Most of what you SEE is a problem with our response (or lack,thereof) in dealing with mental illness. We used to institutionalize, then tossed them into the streets in the 80's after that was considered unjust. Then most of them got arrested and held in jail long past the normal judgement for the crime. Now Progressive cultural theory is "curing" that injustice by once again releasing the victim but spiraling back to the same problem with seriously mentally ill people wandering the streets ( until the end up back in jail again ). It's a real mess. And it's mostly about money. No civil authority wants to committ the money to caring for these people who have little ability to care for themselves.

I'm talking about the fact that you complain incessantly about not getting enough clients or you're complaining about the clients you DO get. Have you ever considered it's not the clients that are the problem ? Maybe its your business model.

Cold and rainy summer days are not pleasant. I was there once over Fourth of July weekend. I had to buy a coat !! I wasn't prepared for such cold weather.

The temperature is probably the same. 😜 People mistake San Francisco for having the same climate as LA because they're both in the same state. S.F. can be as cold and miserable in the summer as a crappy Boston Spring. Summer in Boston is actually quite pleasant.

Sorry. I always just go to the websites. Sleepyboy.com seems to be the best when in London.

Because 20-somethings need to impress all their "followers" with the fabulous destinations and situations they find themselves in weekly. The need for validation is disturbing. I can only guess most of them were ignored in childhood by busy parents who didn't have time for actually paying attention to their kids.

I travel to London frequently and alone without family. So I do often like a bit of company at some point. I've always been successful at meeting young men who were not only handsome, but charming and fun, for a price that wasn't outrageous. So seems like a good location for a "sexcation". I am surprised no one has mentioned Bangkok. It's been several years, since I've been there but the low key attitude about homosexuality and sex work always provided an easy environment for me to bang my brains out. I remember a place where you could book a suite upstairs where there was a spa downstairs with very handsome men who you could choose from. They would come to your room, take a bath with your, scrub your back, massage you, and let you fuck their brains out for a very low cost overall. The better looking/ muscular guys did expect high tips for better service but even then it was nothing compared to NYC.