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He used to be cute. Not a fan of the new lumberjack look. Bumped into him on Grindr recently...was pretty rude in his response.

Everyone has a right to run their business in the manner that works best for themselves. That's rather the whole point of having your own business. If someone doesn't want to massage a grotesquely obese person I don't have a problem with that. Money doesn't buy everything.

"Gay clubs" in many places around the world are not exclusive to gay men. Women like to go and dance without getting hit on. My understanding is that even in the US prior to the AIDS epidemic many gay clubs were places where it was ok for same-sex dancing but it didn't mean that everyone was gay.

I've never seen so many incredibly beautiful people as I've seen in Rio. Those Brazilians have some amazing gene pool going on.

I agree. The conversation about whether a masseur bottoms is rather out of place when you're hiring as a new client I think the misconception comes from the lines getting blurred with LONG TIME CUSTOMERS. Since many masseurs know any man likes his happy ending....there are many practitioners who will turn up the heat for a good customer. I've had more than one regular who, after several months of weekly appointments went from a hand job - to oral service - to riding my cock to get me off. So it does happen .. but no one should be expecting this without an actual relationship forming over time.

No matter what your beliefs are, it's becoming glaringly apparent that few of our representatives represent the people. Unfortunately most everyone wastes too much time blaming various social problems on "the other guy" and is mostly blind to the fact that this Corporate problem is everywhere in infesting everything. The petty bickering is all a smoke screen so we don't notice how a few massive Corporations are taking over the country.

I like icing and I like cake. But if I'm hiring a masseur the cake is more important to me. If I was SO interested in the icing I would be shopping for icing not cake. One of the best masseurs I ever had was a skinny Chinese kid ( gay ) who I had zero attraction to. But he was an incredibly skilled masseur and did things to deliver an explosive happy ending without having the poster-boy looks some people demand.

If somebody doesn't look like their photos and I am here for a massage I would probably follow through with the massage. Just don't bother with a happy ending and don't expect a tip unless you're giving me the world's greatest massage. I have found the worst masseurs are the best looking guys and the best masseurs aren't not the pretty boys. So I wouldn't pass up the opportunity to see if Mr. Fake Pictures might be skilled instead of visually gifted.

I have the same experience. When I travel is when I'm most interested in company. At home, I don't live alone and have a few fuckbuddies so Grindr doesn't serve any purpose unless I come across a particularly exceptional profile. ( Usually on recommendation through someone here.) I second your opinion about being "fresh meat" in town. This makes you a valuable commodity..especially if you're traveling to an area with a smaller gay/bi community. Being in a large city with many gay/bi men contributes to the problem of constant browsing where people feel there are so many choices there is no sense if urgency to meet up now.

Exactly. Navigating a hook up site like Grindr can be intimidating to guys who aren't necessarily well familiar with how the gay hook-up scene works. Easiest to just pick from the Rent.men menu and pull out your credit card.

Most gay men weren't child molesters but many were. The Social stigma of being known as a homosexual and the risk of being exposed lead many men to turn to horny teenagers who could more easily be manipulated to keep their sexual encounters quiet especially at a time when the girls weren't putting out anyway.

But..how was the massage ?

That's a broad statment that I don't know is true. Is it "most" ? The few times I've hired escorts ..yes. I go for the deluxe model that I am too old to land on my own, anymore. But I've seen guys on rent.men who aren't even as good looking as me. So I think its all about what you're aiming for. I don't think everyone necessarily hires people who wouldn't look twice at them outside of a professional realm. But for those who were not fortunate to have been born with good looks...escorting is a blessing to be able to feel beautiful to someone for an hour or two even if they're being paid to do so

Do you really ?

I think its a common misconception that people always hire escorts because they can't get laid without paying. Sometimes you just want WHAT you want WHEN you want and HOW you want it.

Oh. There were some Poiish families where I grew up who I assume were descendents of some Slavic group that were super hairy. I remembered those guys had chest hair at 13! (And back hair by high school.) Very very black hair. Very masculine looking guys. (Unfortunately so were their sisters) bushy mustache on the girls and looked as butch as their brothers. Hopefully they went on to be Lesbians

If that were actually the boy next door...I'd be borrowing many cups of sugar, daily.

I don't really watch much porn. Doesn't do much for me. I am speaking from the observation of experiences. I've been in many dungeons that have that table but never seen it at a masseur's place.

A "milking table" tends to me more BDSM Dungeon furniture than massage equipment.

So a bald cock and balls doesn't look like you haven't reached puberty ? I remember being anxious to get my bush on. I was a late-bloomer compared to some of the other boys in Junior High school who were from a more hairy ethnicity than I. A hairless cock or vag looks like kiddie porn to me. I ponder the reason why people find it attractive. I personally like a full bush and a matching treasure trail.

Fascinating fact. Thanks for sharing.

Yes. A reasonable conclusion. Unfortunately the broad stroke gathered up too many who DO need institutionalizing. The States gleefully pretend to be protecting their civil rights to save money housing them and waiting for them to die in the streets. There was a fellow last year who used to eat out of my garbage cans. I would see him and offer him food from my kitchen. I understand he froze to death over the winter while sleeping in a doorway.

Yeah. Sorry ..I misunderstood. I thought he was talking about having all the pubic hair removed. Women have been waxing all their hair like that and I always found it creepy. So I thought he was considering doing the same

Which is the core defect in the legal arguments for mentally ill. There's an obvious point at which some people are a danger to themselves. What good are civil rights when you can't care for yourself ?