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I always find it odd that someone as fit and handsome as this fellow feels the need to focus his advertising on the size of his penis. "XL" 😢

Just to clarify. Humphries was not a member of the trans community. "Dame Edna" was merely one of his performance characters, but his most popular and familiar. In his day to day life he was a married man with children and actually a vocal opponent of certain transgender talking points. So "he" is the appropriate pronoun when discussing Humphries himself.

What "other site" ? I've noticed this site is more civil lately and it's true some of the trolls have been missing. I hadn't thought about that until you just mentioned it. There were several members who had zero ability to disagree without ridicule. I get spanked from time to time when I forgot myself. But I DO always try to think more carefully how I phrase my opinions when I return. I imagine there are others who don't learn anything from being disciplined.

Because most Europeans have more than two political parties. THIS is a big part of the problem with American politics. But if you suggest someone vote third party you're immediately called stupid for *wasting your vote". Yet again another opportunity for the vitriol of name calling to ensue. It my observation that people are being trained (and tricked) into HATING "the other side" to prevent them from finding a middle ground. That hatred ruins any chance of discussion.

I don't think it's possible. There are too many people in this country who's political viewpoints are formed in echo chambers and they treat opposing viewpoints as attacks on humanity. The current political climate in the US is extremely polarized and getting worse by the day. Sadly, the gentleman's discussion is a thing of the past.

And there you go. You've just demonstrated why there can't BE political discussions here. Instead of recognizing that people have different viewpoints in life and focusing on the viewpoint, it immediately gets personal and name-calling ensues.

Never heard of him either. A bit before my time, I think. Googled him with xxx and got some interesting images of his work. I found it intriguing. Not always beautiful men, but the images all capture a sort of raw / real masculine sexuality that I found appealing.

I grew up in the Northeast. ( Central PA ) Went to University at Syracuse. Then spent a year in LA and traveled up and down the West Coast while I was there. At first I loved the change of scenery and the consistently nice weather. But for some reason toward the end of that year, I hated it there. Mostly because I'm just a true North Easterner but secondly and probably the biggest driving force was that I didn't like the people in LA. I found too many of them to be superficial and unreliable as friends. After a full year, I had hundreds of phone numbers in my book and not one person I could call a close friend. That was bizarre to me. Been back to LA several times, and I must say I never feel "at home" there. It's culturally foreign to me.

I would spend more time in Queens if I could find cuties like this juicy young actor. Who is he ?

I must have been in the same restaurant. Exact same experience in the West Village recently....but oh wait ! THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME in NYC. Every tacky "influencer" on the planet seems to need to document every waking moment of their time in the neighborhood. Often ruining the experience for the rest of us who actually LIVE here and are simply out having dinner with friends or family. I would fully support a ban.

Lean beef, but tempting nonetheless ....

We hired a company to re-pave our sidewalk last year. The young man they sent over was stunning. I was taking him bottles of water every half hour, flirting with him and trying to think of a way to see if he might want to "make some extra money." Sadly, the appropriate phrase never came to me, as my wife kept laughing at me from the window, knowing fully well that I was smitten. ( She agreed he was a real specimen ). Another opportunity lost to my sense of decorum.

Correct. I usually make an open ended comment on their thread. See if they flirt back. Then Private Message them. Ask if they do "meet ups" and then yes..take it private from there.

Grindr will permanently delete your account and all future attempts to make a new account if you discuss paying someone for sex on their platform. This has been discussed before. Don't do it.

The problem with all statistics is they get used out of context to see what you want to see. The issue with crime in the United States has always been about poverty, not skin color. The secondary and associated fact, is that when African American families did their best to integrate into mainstream American society there was a great deal of push back, and denial of opportunity in the 1950s. This lead to an economic black underclass and later a "deal with the devil" in the 1970s to make a buck selling drugs, as poverty among the black community worsened. Historically, black people were the ones arrested during the "drug wars", NOT the White Italian Mafia who were supplying the drugs. So always the scapegoat of the problems, whether or not they ORIGINATED with the community. So there is a long history of black men and women being viewed as secondary citizens, not matter how much lip-service is paid to "equality" these days. As I stated previously in this thread, BEHAVIOR is everything. One of the best provider's I've hired recently was a very nice young black man. I say he was one of the best because he was professional, easy to talk to which are virtues that I look for beyond a set of handsome photos, with any provider. His skills were superior to many and I was well satisfied with the encounter, and happy to have met someone so compatible to my sexual tastes. How disgusting it would be to be attracted to someone and simultaneously thinking to yourself that they are worth less, because of their ethnic background. In this case, this young man was not only worth his fee, but I tipped generously because of his professional behavior throughout the experience.

I grew up in Central PA near the Poconos. I would be wary of visiting any campsite in the state for the purpose of hooking up. There's have been many incidents of attacks leading to serious injury ( even a few deaths ) over the years at known hook up locations in State Parks and campgrounds. This is a very red-neck part of the state where homosexual activity is strongly condemned. I don't know anything about the particular locations you mentioned but you might want to Google for some background history in the news before you get yourself in trouble.

I am also not into twinks....but I do know many porn performers have Twitter accounts where you can contact them directly. Obviously you're not going to be the first person there to ask about in-person meet ups. They will either say no or yes. But be prepared for sticker shock if they answer yes.

This begs the question how many DO find bodybuilders attractive ? I know I don't. ..and I am strictly attracted to young ATHLETIC men but I find bodybuilding crosses a line for me where I don't find this exaggerated muscle look at all attractive. Maybe there are fewer enthusiasts than you think. I don't know.

The contractions are pretty apparent here. So I'm guessing it's deliberate as a method of discretion to distance himself from the legality issues of escorting .

Barry was the only drag performer I ever found to be funny. I'm sure he will be missed in the entertainment industry and amongst his fans. I hope he left peacefully without any suffering. R.I.P.

I applaud your astute observation of this reality. One of my friends who is of Caribbean/African descent has always taught her teenage son that his behavior represents his entire race so DON'T screw up. The chain of negative perceptions of race will only be broken by those who don't allow prejudice to saddle them with a predetermined destiny. Behavior is everything.

@Jamie21agreed with you in CONTEXT of a weekend rate. I do believe the discussion you started here was about the broader business market of escorting. Again...CONTEXT...if someone inquires about a provider's hourly rate and they tell you it's $400 and you say how about $300, they're going to tell you to fuck off 90% of the time. Sure, you'll get the occasional meth-head who's dying for a fix.. but most professionals aren't biting. If you ask a provider about a weekend, well that's a much more nuanced business model and yes "NEGOTIATIONS" in this case would not/ should not be seen as haggling.

These prison guards could make some serious bank running an S&M captured-boy brothel. 😉

I'm a businessman. You can certainly haggle my fees, and I will tell you to go fuck yourself. Haggling is always tacky.

Maybe there should be someone doing this with ALL people posting extremist views. I think a large number of these mass shootings were done by people who's insanity was being broadcast over social media well before the tragic events