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Hire an independent bodyworker/masseur/escort/ whatever. 

60 Days?
We’re still in a drought! 😂

Team Swallow!!🤚🏼
… anyone??

😂😂😂
Hire an independent bodyworker/masseur/escort/ whatever. 

😂😂😂
Hire an independent bodyworker/masseur/escort/ whatever. 

60 Days?
We’re still in a drought! 😂

In the late 1980’s, across the Detroit River there was a roomy full-Monty gay strip club in Windsor, ON. Maybe R-J’s, JR’s? 
Exchange rate worked in our favor. Dance floor, small dining tables/chairs surrounding
Cover was maybe 10. 

Between shows (each dancer got 1 song to strip, and 1 to strut and mingle nude for cash and private requests.
Singles got you a quick stop, you could ask for a table dance where you were seated- they carried around wooden crates they could stand on to bring things …into focus. a five got 1-2 songs w’some lap, depending on business - a dark perimeter corner and a twenty got you damn near whatever. One friend said he spent $100 one night between 2 different dancers. He bought a table dance for me to enjoy - slightly public, but enjoyable. 
I was working and hardly rich enough to visit often, but I was there a few times, and tipped well as a treat to myself.
When I learned where the good corners were. 😍

If a provider is actively searching for a client at that moment, he will most likely place his status as AVAIL NOW. 
Not sure why RM includes anyone signed on in the avail now search, but probably because it's worth a shot to inquire. But I'd guess majority will not be available at that moment. Most of us providers will sign on check messages, make changes to profile, or show that potential client that we might be available sometime today or near future if you are flexible. 

In the late 1980’s, across the Detroit River there was a roomy full-Monty gay strip club in Windsor, ON. Maybe R-J’s, JR’s? 
Exchange rate worked in our favor. Dance floor, small dining tables/chairs surrounding
Cover was maybe 10. 

Between shows (each dancer got 1 song to strip, and 1 to strut and mingle nude for cash and private requests.
Singles got you a quick stop, you could ask for a table dance where you were seated- they carried around wooden crates they could stand on to bring things …into focus. a five got 1-2 songs w’some lap, depending on business - a dark perimeter corner and a twenty got you damn near whatever. One friend said he spent $100 one night between 2 different dancers. He bought a table dance for me to enjoy - slightly public, but enjoyable. 
I was working and hardly rich enough to visit often, but I was there a few times, and tipped well as a treat to myself.
When I learned where the good corners were. 😍

I’m looking to have mine reduced to look like those on a woman who’s nursed only two kids…

In his literary prime, Capote was an excellent writer. And he was a hot mess. Like many other writers who incorporate real life figures into their characters, he took a known risk of people taking offense. His sloppiness was in letting booze and pills cloud his judgement about striking too many targets, too transparently, too close to home, and it cost him everything. 
I’m loving the overall look and direction and Holland is delivering a performance beyond what was asked of other actors playing him on screen like Hoffman and Jones (or on stage, Robert Morse!) because of the length of the arc, the number of relationships, and the freedom of the medium to bring the sex of his homosexuality into it. The swans are all well cast I think - nice to see Calista again. (Someone needs to redo the Ally McBeal dancing baby gif using Truman’s head…🤣)

I’m looking to have mine reduced to look like those on a woman who’s nursed only two kids…

@Casual
I know of many providers on the site. Only a small fraction post or participate with any regularity. Of those, some come and go, deciding to delete their account or just not log in for months. The majority of us are either unaware of the site (most) or choose not to engage with it. Their loss, but at the same time admittedly it takes a lot of time and energy to make our presence here worthwhile.
From time to time I alert providers I know of comments and they can choose to ignore or engage with the content. Some guys are hopeless when it comes to tact and understanding how to leverage the platform. Some of the long time active provider members here really get the value of investing our time in the platform and stick with an engagement strategy for the long haul.
I first discovered the forums when I was searching myself testing for other marketing purposes and came across some chatter about me when I was working in Dallas. Since then, I came to realize this is actually a really good business development tool. Many CoM clients have seen me in part due to my engagement here…and they love my work!
Several topics have come up in the forums re: sites to review clients. My short answer is no, it’s not a thing, at least not as extensive and widespread as it is for reviews of masseurs and providers. It would not behoove us providers to share about it if we did have such a thing. 
For others who come across this blurb, I realize it may be kind of weird to post here when the provider can see it and even respond. Positive comments are welcome, but I invite even negative comments about me because it challenges me to improve my business and how I deliver service. It keeps me honest and to own my mistakes and apologize for them and make things right. It also gives me a chance to clarify anything stated that was factually incorrect.
Opinions are a different matter. When someone doesn’t like my style, my look, how I handled something, or have some other opinion, oh well. It’s not personal, and I can take that criticism with maturity and respect. I won’t try to get it taken down or anything like that. A good provider can stand on his overall reputation and take a few hits here and there without suffering very much loss. I can’t please everyone 100% of the time, and I have no illusions of doing so, but I know I do a great job and my clients are happy with me.
Some of my Texas clients still visit me in California, and many of the others text me asking when I will be coming back. I know I’m not perfect, but with signs of loyalty like this, I know I’m doing something right.
Cheers to finding me. May the best providers find their place here too and make the most of it.

@Simon Suraciyou are a rare gem!  I have yet to meet you but can express that based upon your sensible comments and attitude.  I hope to meet you when you decide to come to the Big Apple.  Cheers!

Growing up, I was always insecure about my nipples, because they protrude from just about any shirt I can find. Now, I think of it as free advertising 😃

In the late 1980’s, across the Detroit River there was a roomy full-Monty gay strip club in Windsor, ON. Maybe R-J’s, JR’s? 
Exchange rate worked in our favor. Dance floor, small dining tables/chairs surrounding
Cover was maybe 10. 

Between shows (each dancer got 1 song to strip, and 1 to strut and mingle nude for cash and private requests.
Singles got you a quick stop, you could ask for a table dance where you were seated- they carried around wooden crates they could stand on to bring things …into focus. a five got 1-2 songs w’some lap, depending on business - a dark perimeter corner and a twenty got you damn near whatever. One friend said he spent $100 one night between 2 different dancers. He bought a table dance for me to enjoy - slightly public, but enjoyable. 
I was working and hardly rich enough to visit often, but I was there a few times, and tipped well as a treat to myself.
When I learned where the good corners were. 😍

In the late 1980’s, across the Detroit River there was a roomy full-Monty gay strip club in Windsor, ON. Maybe R-J’s, JR’s? 
Exchange rate worked in our favor. Dance floor, small dining tables/chairs surrounding
Cover was maybe 10. 

Between shows (each dancer got 1 song to strip, and 1 to strut and mingle nude for cash and private requests.
Singles got you a quick stop, you could ask for a table dance where you were seated- they carried around wooden crates they could stand on to bring things …into focus. a five got 1-2 songs w’some lap, depending on business - a dark perimeter corner and a twenty got you damn near whatever. One friend said he spent $100 one night between 2 different dancers. He bought a table dance for me to enjoy - slightly public, but enjoyable. 
I was working and hardly rich enough to visit often, but I was there a few times, and tipped well as a treat to myself.
When I learned where the good corners were. 😍

Being snarky in my question.
Ayds
It was a lo-cal candy-like snack meant to fill you up ahead of meals. They were around thru the late 70’s, regular TV/print ads. No idea how/if they worked.

When GRID (Gay-Related Immune Deficiency) became known as AIDS, their brand was over. https://biotech.law.lsu.edu/books/lbb/x590.htm#:~:text=There was some controversy over,of the more neutral AIDS.
Weight-loss miracles will always make a fortune for investors until the next one shows up. Or the name becomes associated with icky things.
 

Let’s talk about Ayds… what brought them down, I wonder…?

10 years from now,  I wonder what the fall-out will be with all this GLP1 weight loss methods. Remember when Phen-Phen was the 'go to weight loss drug' in the 1990s ? 

He’s been on my radar, but over past year seems to be out of LA more than in it…

The Kimmel Center in Philadelphia will be renamed Marion Anderson Hall.
Wonderful news!

“New kids” are easier to find than you’d expect. 

Kids grow up, and everything New is old again. 

“Does the roommate know why I’m there? Fine, let’s go ahead”
Then, after tipping, before leaving, find the roommate and discreetly say, 
“I gotta hand it to you, friend. I’ve been hiring X for years. You’re the first roommate he’s had who can manage him through the rehab, disappearances, binges, liquor store heists and incarcerations. It really means a lot to him.”

Currently visiting Dallas, and decided to go to Club Dallas last night. I had favorable experiences in Club San Diego the few times I went there, so I thought Club Dallas would be the same—I actually thought that both clubs are of the same franchise because of the names, but it seems they're not since Club SD's amenities and staff are much better (but I could be wrong and they might be a franchise, so someone correctly).
Anyway, I went there on Saturday night (last night), which means in bathhouse lingo that there'd be plenty of guys. I was there from 10PM (Saturday) until 12:30AM (Sunday). For the wet areas, it had the basic amenities: hot tub, dry sauna, steam room, and an outdoor swimming pool. The swimming pool seems to be something unique (Club SD didn't have it), but in Dallas, outdoor swimming pool is a staple of every apartment complex, so I guess it's par for the course. The steam room in Club Dallas is better lit compared to the other bathhouses I've been to, and you can see people's faces and there's not much fogginess (I think this is a disadvantage because steam rooms are supposed to be really foggy so can't see people at all). The dry sauna is much darker than other ones I've been to. The other common areas (eg, cinema, sex swing, etc.) are pretty standard and nothing too exciting, and I still like Club SD's more (heck I even like 24 Kaikan's compared to Club Dallas's).
The staff was subpar. The lines forming were getting long both checking in and checking out, and the people at the counter were taking forever to assist each person. They seemed to have more than enough staff members at the counter last night, but I could tell they didn't want to be there (I guess, I would not want to work there too but at least Club SD it took less than one minute to check in/out a customer).
As for the type of guys there, I was disappointed. I thought on a Saturday night, I would see a good spectrum of guys, but that was not the case. You got guys that look like the stereotypical bathhouse club member, but there was definitely a lack of young guys and muscled guys—these groups are of course always underrepresented in bathhouses, but there should be some representation on a Saturday night for a major city like DFW. I saw none last night. Each time I went to Club San Diego, I've been able to play with guys in their early 20's and muscled guys.
Now, I'm not sure if there was an event going on in DFW last night that prevented guys from going to bathhouses, or maybe going there from 10PM to 12:30AM was not ideal, but the selection of guys were subpar. I did manage to see a doable guy in his 30's with a twink body, but he quickly swatted my advancement. It also seemed that he was a first timer based on how he was acting. He left shortly without hookin up with anyone. I also left Club Dallas without hooking up with anyone there,  but did so because I got a Grindr message from someone hosting 8 minutes away by car.