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I often ask for one hr, with option to extend to 2 if chemistry is great, and ask if provider is ok with that set up ....have yet to get a no answer as one hr is confirmed. For me one hr is very rushed.  As for activities, it is totally individual ; for me i take time in foreplay and making out, no need to rush to finish line, and lots of pillow talk and cudlling after including a shared hot shower, which may or may not lead to round 2.....some have given me a nice short massage as well.....so talk to the guy and enjoy!

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

same here...have yet to have a 2hr session end early...some will for sure get you out by exactly 120 min, most are quite ok and easy about the time by then.

same here...have yet to have a 2hr session end early...some will for sure get you out by exactly 120 min, most are quite ok and easy about the time by then.

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

I'd some 70/30, 70% extend and 30% not. I can usually tell within first 10 min where it is going (especially after the first kiss). I don't force the issue either, so if provider says no, then i just confirm for a one hr and get on with it. Never hurts to ask, and just be prepared to deal with an answer you may not want.

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

I'd some 70/30, 70% extend and 30% not. I can usually tell within first 10 min where it is going (especially after the first kiss). I don't force the issue either, so if provider says no, then i just confirm for a one hr and get on with it. Never hurts to ask, and just be prepared to deal with an answer you may not want.

This is a good tactic. With some massage clients who book a 2 hour session I offer them the chance to blow their load right at the start. If he’s really excited and is prone to cunning before he wants to then we just call it and I suck him off before he gets in the table. That way he can relax into the massage and really enjoy that without the tension ‘down there’. Then I build him up again over the 2 hours to a second climax. It’s a nice structure to a 2 hour massage. 

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

This just happened to me today. I started a conversation with a provider. He wasn't very responsive (the initial text took 2 days to get a response). When he said that he was not that close to where I will be (even though he is listed under that city on RM), he asked for deposit. I have a rule of no deposit. So i thank him for his time and said I'll pass as I'm not comfortable providing deposit. This got me a 2 screens worth of text wishing me a bad day and why he with so many great reviews on RM should get a deposit if he is to travel (which would be a drive of under 1 hr). 
I'm totally ok with provider deciding what to do with their business, but please also respect my right to choose not to do what i'm not comfortable doing. There is no need to berate a person you have never even met about this. 
I'm also grateful that i dodge this bullet....if that's how he treats a perfect stranger who has only sent him 2 text message to inquire, then the session was unlikely to be a good one. Onwards and upwards to find some other nicer ones.....

I often ask for one hr, with option to extend to 2 if chemistry is great, and ask if provider is ok with that set up ....have yet to get a no answer as one hr is confirmed. For me one hr is very rushed.  As for activities, it is totally individual ; for me i take time in foreplay and making out, no need to rush to finish line, and lots of pillow talk and cudlling after including a shared hot shower, which may or may not lead to round 2.....some have given me a nice short massage as well.....so talk to the guy and enjoy!

Hit James up on his Instagram. Pm me if you don’t have it… my advice would be to not be explicit in your initial message. JAMES  getS quite a few NSFW messages which he ignores. James is quite open to lots of body contact, oral, and getting rimmed… anything beyond that I’m sure takes a few meetings and  is on a case by case basis… 

Ok... so here it is. I went with james, myself and another friends to fort Lauderdale in may of 2021. My friend and I went to tropics in wilton manor and james went down the street to weightlift. He said "I'll meet you guys there after I'm done". So an hour later James walks in. Now for guys who dont know what the tropics is about it's a nice little restaurant where the old old gays go to dine. In walks james. String tank top and short short shorts on. The whole place snapped their arthritic necks to look at him. James sits down and says "wheres the bathroom at"? So I point him in the direction. He gets up and walks towards the bathroom. Tits bouncing... ass bouncing... balls and cock bouncing through his tight short shorts. The whole place is staring. He walks past a table with four old old guzzards. James walks past and all of a sudden one of the old guzzards collapses to the floor... dead as a doornail! The ambulance comes, puts a sheet over the old man on the stretcher and wheels him out! All that muscle bouncing around and the old geezer couldnt handle it!
True as true can be guys!!

Agree..I typically plan ahead, and in fact pass if they respond with "text me the same day and I 'll see if i'm available"....
Other red flags (From a client's perspective):  ask for pics; after confirming everything a week ahead, then when reconfirming the day before ask you all the same questions again; don't promise they kiss or cum or something, and yes, short 1 word answer to typical set up questions, after a day of no response.

Seen AlexHunk before with his BF. Good guy and good service. THat was preCOVID. Adrian XL duo are fantastic but you may want to start with just one of them. They deliver but are selective and careful about who they see.
May help to provide what you want in a session and from your hire...they help in providing feedback to you. Good luck and enjoy your first time. HOpe it's a good one!

Seen AlexHunk before with his BF. Good guy and good service. THat was preCOVID. Adrian XL duo are fantastic but you may want to start with just one of them. They deliver but are selective and careful about who they see.
May help to provide what you want in a session and from your hire...they help in providing feedback to you. Good luck and enjoy your first time. HOpe it's a good one!

Don’t hold your breath. I’ve cancelled the date. No fault on his side. Just my decision.

It remains a conservative Catholic country with many closets, regardless of the political party in power. When I was there for a few weeks years ago, I relied on eye contact in the center, but also in Providencia and Las Condes, and met a few hot men that way. It’s a very interesting country. On Independence Day, the parade is full of goose-stepping troops wearing German helmets and uniforms. They were trained by the Prussians.

He's quoted me $450US or Cdn equivalent in Toronto

I had arranged to spend an afternoon with a porn star escort well in advance. He didn't cancel but rearranged his travels to literally be in town for the date and fly out the next morning!
Or another who remembered personal stuff i told him several months later and started a conversation around that as pillow talk!
Last one got me a gift that was totally unexpected as he remembered that i liked the item when we were out shopping on a trip

You’re very understanding. As a provider I’ve had incidences where I’ve bottomed for the client and unfortunately it’s been a bit messy. Even if you think you have prepared thoroughly and are confident about being clean it can happen. Therefore I try to be understanding and not make a drama out of it. 

No the client is paying for them to hook up with him.  Just because their clients fit a standard they have set does not change the fact that the client is making the initial contact.