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The remedy is not to let your little head take over.  You have to be willing to walk away (or simply not book an appointment if the demand is presented in advance), not matter how much you'd like to spend time with the provider.  There are plenty of other sexy guys to get hung up on one who has demands you don't want to meet.
If you're a client who doesn't mind paying in advance, I'm not arguing that you shouldn't do so.  I think most of us here, though, don't do pay in advance.  I think the only exception I would make is if I was booking someone for a multiple-day appointment, but then I would only do that with someone I already knew. 

Hi All!!
Posting here as a way to introduce myself to the community and to just say "hi" 😃. Im looking to really continue to get my name out there in the NYC/NJ/CT area. Everyone I've met so far has been extremely pleased with the service they have received and I figured why not start advertising a little! From what I've heard, there are tons of flakes, trial and error, and no-showing when it comes to meetups. I can say honestly I'm as "legit" as they come. I pride myself on showing up as advertised, on time, and always in a professional manner.
https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Bobby-Biceps
Looking for sponsorships in the NYC/NJ/CT area but love flying to destinations as well
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rent.men/ACRODAVE - 26K Visits.
instagram.com/ACRODAVE - 351K Followers.
onlyfans.com/ACRODAVE - 33.6K Likes.
 
Exactly the same name in all venues, so people find him easily.
Lists nothing in his into's but mentions IG and OF in his ad.
 
He clearly has little to no interest in escorting, hence the crazy rates and attitude, to scare clients away.
He's just using RM to drive and monetize traffic to his IG and OF, not the other way around. Pass.

Anyone? 
 
https://rentmen.eu/Tom_NYC/#platinum

Hi all, looking for any info on Dys_passive. He recently popped up in DC. Only 3 reviews so want to make sure he's real:
 
https://rentmen.eu/Dys_passive

Um … You do know that this site is about guys who have sex with other guys for money, don’t you? The gratuitous slut-shaming aside, the answer to your various questions boils down to: He’s an escort and a porn star. Married to another escort/porn star. They both fuck other people — LOTS of other people — for a living. I can point you to several other married porn couples who do the same. They manage to fuck improbably large numbers of other people while maintaining loving mutually supportive relationships. (Which I happen to think is TOTALLY awesome.) As professionals, I am sure that they test for STDs constantly. They HAVE to. If any of this — multiple partners, sex for pay, open relationships, kink, responsible handling of the risk of STDs — offends or disgusts you, may I suggest that this hobby is not for you?

How dare you paraphrase the goddess Lois?
 

He was simply fucking awesome. Seriously best experience I've ever had. Catch him while u can!

Holy shit this guy is awesome. Hire him the first chance you get. I had nothing but a good time with him!
I totally agree!

300 is normal if you let it be
when i'm quoted that i say thank  you but that's more than i'm willing to spend
a brief negotiation ensues ... or not ... all based on their interest
live in south florida, visit nyc and dc and chicago often ... know what you're willing to spend and walk away if youre feeling pressured ... but dont try to disparage the provider

Lmao....
 
Honey, it’s an asshole.....not a gold mine.

Not so sure... I have met straight couples who look eerily similar. Particularly after being together a long time.

Hey guys, I realize I am popping in very awkwardly.
 
Getting into porn became a huge change and I didn’t have the maturity to juggle everything. I let stress get to me and dropped the ball. Unfortunately I was foolish and left my ad up - I’m sorry to everyone who inquired and didn’t receive a response -it definitely isn’t my usual M.O.
 
I’m happy to be back! I genuinely love escorting and I’ve gotten much better at dealing with stress ?.
 
 

 
Thanks again! I had a great time with you and I’m very flattered by your recommendation ? Not to mention your advice to me was very useful! ?
 

 
Thanks RJD! ? You wash me in compliments ?and it feels amazing ?.

Well I now certainly understand why AsianMuscleBottom (Aaron) hasn't had the time to answer my text. Hopefully he will learn that in the long run the real money is in escorting not porn. However, if he isn't going to answer escorting inquiries he might want to consider taking down his rentmen ad.

Escorts absolutely do NOT make a lot...we have the POTENTIAL to, make a lot. Understanding that difference, and being able to actualize potential, on top of numerous other factors, is key.

He’s like a Mercedes. it’s a nice looking model, but out of my price range. And even if I had the means to pay for it, as much as I would enjoy riding in it, I’d be thinking the whole time that there are less expensive models that would be just as enjoyable and get me where I need to go.

Yea thanks! I get a lot of messages each week of people that don’t read my profile. I’m very happy when I meet with clients like gym owner and Alex. I won’t meet with anyone that asks for anything extreme or if it’s not a fit sexually. I’m able to navigate this market well because I generally enjoy people especially those who have an interest in me and understand boundaries. I definitely leave a lot of money on the table but I’m happy.

At first I thought it was the bodybuilder and got excited. Never mind. Different Santiago Aragon.
 

Condiloma acuminata sounds like a Harry Potter spell ???

I think he's a part of the Miami mediterranean or middle eastern guys escort group. Looking at his Instagram, he hangs out with a couple other escorts. But to his credit, on his RM he has actual video.

I just get the sense that he's pretty shopworn now...not quite as fresh and appealing as he once was.

A few things.
#1. I know Vince fairly well and I exchange texts with him regularly, so I have a bias and a current knowledge.
#2 He is in his forties, his body is amazing and all parts are working on overdrive.
#3 I do not know of any sugar daddy, but if he has one, good for him. A personable man who works as hard as he does to keep his body in top condition would not have any difficulty finding an appreciative admirer.
#4 He is an intelligent and accomplished individual and he does not suffer fools easily, but he does appreciate intelligent, thoughtful and kind conversation.
#5 He does have an Only Fans page and as most of the men who have such pages, he does it to keep himself current and to earn a living,
#6 I know I enjoy it when my pay check comes in the mail (I know I am very old school and have a pay check with a envelop and a stamp and everything") and I am sure he appreciates the payment for his work.
#7. He does not deal in idle speculation and rumormongering so BB perhaps you could learn something from him.
#8 Though I do not belong to any Only Fans page, I am a fan of Vin's and I think most who know him have a similar opinion.
#9 Of course, there are always outl liars and grudge holders for all of us, so consider anything negative you see here with caution.
#10 At some point, you may want to form your own opinion. When CV19 is less an issue, try contacting him and see for yourself.

Absolutely! Doing weekends is like running a Bed And Breakfast. My weekends are precious and sometimes I don't feel like entertaining!!!

This is true for me. I've been around the block a few hundred times, so just another close encounter isn't enough to motivate me.

I was curious if any of you had gone through a period where you just didn’t feel like hiring escorts anymore. If so, I’d welcome any specifics you’d be willing to share (how long? reasons for it? what triggered a return? etc.)
 
I’ve hired twice in the last 12 months, most recently in August. Both sessions were good enough, but I just don’t have the urge to continue at this point. I’m 51, I own my own business so free time is tough to come by, and I’ve had a few of my regulars retire/disappear from the scene in the last couple of years. So all of those could be factors in my current headspace. But to be honest, I thought I’d get the desire again but it’s just not happening. To clarify, it’s not a lack of physical desire, but a lack of wanting to go through the “process” and effort that it can take to find someone compatible.
 
I’m likely overthinking the situation, which is something I often do in life. Just thought I’d check with folks to see if anyone had experienced similar feelings. Thanks for anything you’d like to share.