Rudynate

Good possibility

Possible. The boy contacted me afterward, and said we could cut the pimp out and deal with each other directly. I told him that as much as I would like to trust him, I didn't and nothing would change that.

A4A

I was ready to hire an angelic boy today and, at the last minute, he told me he worked for a pimp and his pimp would take care of payment and scheduling. I have never encountered this, and I realized probably nothing was going to happen between the boy and me, but chatted with the pimp nonetheless. His communication style instantly gave him away as a pretentious scumbag. He tried to make it sound like I was buying an insurance policy or executing some important legal document. I sat there telling myself "wait for it." Sure enough he said there would be an additional fee, that was more than the escort's fee, to indemnify the agency against injury to the escort, property damage, etc. and that it was "fully refundable" if none of the bad things happened. I told him it was all horseshit, which made him mad- declaring that he ran a perfectly legitimate escort service and resented my remarks. I just told him to apologize to the boy for me and that it wasn't his fault that he worked for a scumbag. It was like something out of TV. BTW the pimp goes by the name Jason Colt.

I'm the same. If I like a guy's profile, of course I'm going to start a dialogue.

I supply height and weight.

He just looks perennially good. A few years ago, I saw him as he stopped on a street corner at the Folsom St. fair to take his shirt off and he looked amazing - very fit.

Gym every day.

I had a personal trainer who did something similar with me. He recommended that, as much as possble, I should walk through the streets of the city shirtless and drive around shirtless as well.

Amen to that. The only dental insurance worth having is if you can get it through an employer. Individual coverage through Delta Dental is next to useless. I get (sort of) dental coverage though Kaiser Medicare Advantage. I wanted to see if the medicare dentist was even an option so I made an appointment for a cleaning. It was nothing short of Dickensian - dumpy professional building in Daly City, waiting room filled with decrepit old people, the dentist did the cleaning and he was so rough and careless that I think the cleaning did my teeth more damage than going without it would have. Then he handed me a quote for the work that he thought I needed done - absurd - he said I needed 8 fillings. I haven't needed a filling in nearly 30 years, so knew he was scamming me. I high-tailed it back to my pricey dentist in the Castro with his designer office.

I have a chip in one of my lower front teeth that needs repair. The last time I had a chip repaired, it set me back about $300.00.

Give an idea of what a client could expect from the inner barbarian.

I see. If he were exceptional, I might give him a try.

You're extraordinary. I think you should beef up your profile - it's kind of perfunctory.

I've been seeing that word in profiles and didn't know what it meant. So "side" means they're doing sex work as a side hussle. If I liked them, I don't know why I wouldn't hire them. If they were new to it, I would be surprised if they wanted top dollar, but that would be my only issue.

More of mindset adjustment - it's much more efficient than self-hypnosis.

If money is tight, I do without and I console myself with that saying, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."

I may have to start thinking about these issues. After 20+ years in this game, I have met a guy I'm thinking about an overnight or a weekend with. He kind of got underneath my skin.

I guess this shows us that these things need to be negotiated in advance. Disappearing for hours at a time suggests that the provider lacks the attention span for anything longer than an overnight.

Boundaries - he didn't show and he didn't contact you, so if you have anything more to do with him it is AYOR, knowing that his word isn't always good.

Boundaries, boundaries. If you are confident in your ability to maintain boundaries, why not hire him? You know him, you like him.

Good guys are there for you - it's all about you. Maybe for a couple hours you could lay aside the idea that you're bothering them and allow yourself to enjoy their attention.

I have an IG buddy who lives in Kuwait - an Arab. He says he plays around with guys in the locker room in the gym.

I, personally, am very curious about the UAE and Dubai in particular. My bodybuilding coach is from the UK but is currently living and working in Dubai. He went there to deliberately expose himself to the competitive, sink-or-swim business environment there. I used to think that, if you could succeed in New York, you could succeed anywhere. Maybe Dubai is the new New York. Not long ago, I listened to a youtube vid from a young guy who lives there now. He said it's very stimulating with no end of things to do. He also said that it is curiously lonely because nobody there is from there and nobody there is planning on staying.