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I have that same fantasy. I have found two guys, but haven't hired either. There's a guy in SOCAL who goes by the name of Joe Mangina. He was originally a biologic male, became a transwoman, then transitioned back to being male. His photos show a well-built man with lots of body hair and a surgically-contructed vagina. We exchanged a couple emails but it didn't go anywhere. There was also a young guy in LV - very well-built, cis male, who identifies as male, who had a surgically-created vagina. I was wild for this guy, but his rate was out of my range. I re-thought the rate, realizing that he was a dream come true at any price, but he had disappeared. If he ever surfaces, he's a definite hire for me.

I believe providers have an enviable level of skill at managing their mindsets.

Who said "anyone has his price?" It is a fact that some have a price and the only way you will find out whether that's true for the man of your dreams is to ask.

I worked around a bunch of Texans - all executives in the oil and gas business - their accents were barely detectable. I found it sexy AF.

If you have an obscure health problem, you can be pretty sure sure there is a subreddit for it.

Agreed - for a man who is actually dominant and not playing a part, it isn't an issue. It's just the way he is.

When I was really young - 22 or so, I went into a men's store to buy a few things. The sales guy who took care of me was smoking hot and was probably a few years older than I was. He was helping me select things and kept pushing his way into the changing room to check my progress. I was too inexperienced to understand what was going on so it just became another story of a missed opportunity.

I have a broad age range because I'm more interested in a physical type than a man of a particular age. I really go for hairy muscle men - they could be as young as 25 or as old as 55 - it's all good. I'm 72.

Makes sense.

Did the position you applied for require a security clearance?

I don't have any problems with it - I've built several computers myself and just the other day, I cloned my drive to a new 2-Tb SSD and swapped them out so that the new SSD is now the main drive.

Way back, I kept telling myself I needed to learn how to use computers, but I kept putting it off. Then I started working with a bunch of Gen Xers who were all fluent with computers and it shamed me into learning. In today's world, I can't imagine not knowing anything about computing.

It's the same story, no matter the generation.

I went to good schools in suburban districts in New York state, which was supposed to be second only to California in the quality of its public education.

I don't doubt that kids work harder in school than my generation did. It always seemed to me that school was deliberately dumbed-down, and I kept waiting for it to become challenging. It never did until the last couple years of high school. So I would hope that school is more challenging for kids than it was for me.

I googled the question "Do many kids now have after-school jobs?" This is part of the AI-generated response: Increased trend: Recent data suggests a growing number of teenagers are actively seeking and holding after-school jobs, reversing a previous trend where fewer teens worked. Benefits of working: Having a part-time job can help teens develop valuable skills like time management, responsibility, customer service, and financial literacy.

Well no, of course they aren't going to do 20th century work in the 21st century. But the princple is transferrable from that time to now. . Now, those are highly-paid union jobs

Do young people ever have after-school jobs? When I was in high school, lots of us had after-school jobs. The girls did filing or answered phones in offices and the boys pumped gas or worked in restaurants. I know I loved my job - and I made enough money to buy my own clothes and just generally do whatever I felt like doing. It gave me a great sense of independence - my attitude toward my parents was "Don't you dare try to tell me what to do - I'm getting out of the house and earning my own money."

I enjoyed it.

I went on a date with him many years ago.

I have never done an overnight and probably wouldn't. But if I encountered a guy who was absolute magic, I might give it a go.

Telling them you're lawyer encourages them because they smell money. I tell them I'm a janitor.

I didn't know they had them. I would join a shirtless gym. It's such a pleasure pumping iron with no shirt on.

I got used to it in a flash many years ago on Mykonos. I walked to the extreme end of Paradise Beach, where I wasn't surrounded by people, and got undressed as fast as I could, so not to lose my nerve. As soon as I was undressed, I realized it wasn't any big deal. That was it.