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I don't have any. If the first impression is good, I hire him. I look at photos, I read his profile, don't pay too much attention to reviews. I categorically don't hire guys who advertise outrageously high rates. I have had, by and large, great experiences with massage guys. A couple misses, but that's to be expected.

20% used to be a generous tip. I don't think it's become the new standard, but a 20% tip doesn't impress the way it used to. Having been in the hospitality business, I like to tip servers well. I solve the dilemma by adding a couple dollars over 20%. If the service was outstanding - I tip 25%. And as a way of flirting, young men who have given great service, are friendly, and are easy on the eyes get absurdly high of tips 30-50%. By the same token, enchanting young women who have given exceptional service also get huge tips.

I don't think tipping is ever bad form, even with people who you are not supposed to have to tip. I'm an IP attorney - I doubt whether most clients would ever consider tipping me. Yet, I had a young client, who, when he paid his bill, would include a tip. I was a little bemused at the extra 100.00 or so that he added to the bill, but I wasn't insulted and I appreciated having some found money I could use to take my husband to lunch. I think people who fret about whether tipping is "appropriate" or not are just looking for a reason not to tip. That said, if you can't afford to tip, providers should just accept that some clients can't or won;'t tip. Even without the tip, several hundred dollars an hour isn't peanuts.

Youre going out an a date? Dress however you always dress on a date and be mindful of what's appropriate for the venue. You should wear whatever makeup you like.

You also would have been jailbait.

I'm usually looking to schedule for the day following. I don't know that I have ever tried to schedule day of. I always assume that professionals, barring unusual circumstances, prefer some notice.

I've only gotten together with one guy who did porn. He was reasonably well known. We met several times, and looking at his films did kind of enhance our one-one experience.

I fetishize hiring. The phenomenon itself to me is sexy. Nothing degrading or desperate about it to me. The very first time I thought about it, I was in my late 20's, and I had a fantasy of hiring Gordon Grant. I didn't just want to have sex with him, I wanted to pay him for sex. A friend of mine who had connections in the porn world in San Francisco told me he could probably get me a date with Gordon Grant and it wouldn't cost anything, but I never followed up on it. Gordon Grant died before I could realize my fantasy. Paying for it is just very sexy to me. You show up, or he shows up, nothing is said about money. It's just like two guys on a date, but the money is there and he takes it without a word. Totally hot!!

To me a sub is somebody who is looking for dominant top to take control of an encounter.

I remember a time, many years ago, when I was visiting my home town for a family wedding. I met a guy who topped me so nicely, that it left me under a spell. I just HAD to see this guy again. But there was no time. I had to spend most of the time with my family and then I had to go home. Sure enough, the spell faded after a few days and became just a pleasant memory. That's how these moments of passion can trick you if you let them.

Im not really into the dom/sub thing very much, but a few years ago, before the pandemic, I used to have a sub FB who I got together with regularly. He always addressed me "Sir," and wanted only to be fucked senseless. He was very solicitous, always making sure he had plenty of nice treats on hand to serve me. He stood in my presence and only sat if I gave him permission to. I really enjoyed it but we lost touch during the pandemic.

I have never fallen in love with an escort. I do have a mild infatuation with one right now who is just a god and who is very nice to be around, but the last man I went crazy for is my husband and that was more than thirty years ago.

Don't attach too much significance to what people say in the heat of passion. In this situation, "I love you," really meant , "God you're a great lay."

I haven't had any funny healthcare moments, although there are a couple of providers I really enjoy seeing, and I always feel like they enjoy seeing me as well.

I'm suspicious about Trump's venous insufficiency (CVI). You can "get" CVI as a result of varicose veins - more common in women, but not unheard of in men, especially obese, sedentary men like Trump. Another way to get it is post-thrombotic syndrome as I mentioned above, but aside from post-thrombotic syndrome, the most common way to get CVI is from congestive heart failure (CHF). I think Trump is a prime candidate for CHF. I think they could withhold that information from the nation and still convince themselves that they are being fully transparent.

The DVT causes the venous insufficiency - they call it post-thrombotic syndrome.

I have it. As the result of a clotting disorder I have had many incidents of DVT and 2 of Pulmonary Embolus. The leaflet valves, which send blood back toward the heart from the lower extremities have been compromised so the blood tends to pool in my legs and feet. I'm manic about the self care for this - I wear compression socks from the moment I get out of bed till the moment I crawl into bed. The foot of my bed is elevated on blocks, I elevate my feet during the day, I stay active by going to the gym several times a week and going for a long walk every day. Because I'm so proactive, my feet don't look too bad, a little swollen, but my skin is in good condition and isn't discolored. I stay close to my vascular surgeon.

I cuddled with an escort once. I really enjoyed it - it was a unique situation, but I would cuddle again with him in a heartbeat. When I was a competitive bodybuilder, my husband would travel with me and help me shave. There was one show he didn't want to go to because it was in late 2021, the tail end of the worst of the pandemic, and he didn't want to risk air travel. I contacted a guy I had been looking at on RM, told him what I wanted, told him also that play was probably not a possibility because I would be exhausted from my contest prep. He showed up, we chatted and got acquainted, he got out his gear and went to work. It took at least two hours because he was meticulous. Having a man remove nearly every hair on your body turns out to be a pretty intimate exercise. As he shaved, we talked about this and that, and we ended up in one gyration after another. He shaved my hole, he shaved my dick and my balls, he would have shaved the hair on my head and my eyebrows if I had let him. Then he gave me a massage and wrapped his big arms around me awhile. I was falling asleep and said it was time to wrap it up. He said he felt like he hadn't done his job. I told him no, you went above and beyond and I couldn't be happier. I told him I would text him to let him know how I did. It turned out that I won both the classes that I entered and I told him I couldn't have done it without him, which was literally true.

When I lived in Germany in the 70s, that was very much the norm - you had to ring a doorbell, they would open a little door so they could see whether you were police or not, and then let you in. OTOH, there was an enormous gay bar in Berlin called the Big Eden. Then, there was a bar in Saarbruecken, called Chez Madame. You rang the doorbell and this gracious lady, Madame, dressed in a floor length hostess gown, welcomed you in. I was told by insiders that Madame was actually German but pretended to be French, which makes sense because it was so close to the French border. She would only speak French though. Though customers were a mix of French and Germans.

I have known guys, who were older men when I was a younger man, who waxed nostalgic for the days when we were outlaws --- public toilets, parks, dark bars that could only be accessed from an obscure back door off of an alley, etc.

Isn't that "assplay?" People that are into fisting differentiate ass play and fisting.

Is it Cafe Demel that has been in operation for hundreds of years?

I've seen him once. He's definitely a repeat - really enjoyed him. I can imagine him a regular.

I was glad to see him go. He and I Iocked horns constantly - it seemed like he always looking for a fight, although I was never one to say no when he picked a fight.

Just wow! He looks great clothed and out of this world without clothes.