How can you be sure that your premise is correct-that the reason for hiring a great-looking guy to escort you in public is necessarily always to show off? Couldn't it be for the sheer enjoyment of spending time with him?
I use the same guy over and over. He's old, probably nearly 80, smart, a great negotiator, and came to the US from Fiji. Ethnically, I think he's Indian, and he has a wonderful British sounding accent.
I don't think most people think that much about it. It's just two men together. When there's a disparity in age, I wonder what's up, but I don't spend a lot of time on it.
I have a fantasy involving an escort and no sex. I love Christmas Eve Mass-have since I was a kid. My husband won't go. I want to hire some fabulous arm candy to go to Christmas Eve mass at Grace Cathedral. Wed be in suits, have a late bite before and I would go home to my irreligious husband.
That bout that I just had wasn't fun. The skin rash was minimal, probably because I had the zostavax vaccine 5 or 6 years ago, but I felt rotten. Hoping never to have it again.
I'm just getting over shingles. I was flat on my back with a bad respiratory infection. I was starting to recover when I broke out in shingles. It was a very light case, but I felt absolutely foul for about 3 days. I had had the old vaccine about 5-6 years ago and it must have been wearing off. I then had a relapse with the cold.
Ordinary looking guys, like daddies, are another of the world's best-kept secrets. I often have phenomenal sex with average looking guys. It's all about how you feel around a guy.
Truthfully, nobody "has" to hire, even people who think that they have to hire. The people who think that they"have" to hire may not be satisfied with their alternatives and so convince themselves that they have to hire. It is a fact that some have more choices available than others, but nobody is without choices.
I've made a few good massage hires from it-decent therapeutic massages that progressed to full-on sex on the table.
I made one of my best escort hires ever from A4A.
Yes, you are aroused. But its a be careful what you wish for sort of thing. I soon discovered that non-stop sexual arousal is pretty exhausting. To illustrate what I mean, I point out that I have had an unused vial of the stuff for a couple of years.
If it were the stuff of paradise, don't you think I would have used it in two years?
I've tried it. It's everything they say it is. The problem is, eventually you want to sleep, and you keep getting boners at the slightest provocation, so you don't sleep very well and you're very tired the next day.