Rudynate

A while ago, I inadvertently changed my location on A4A to Santa Clara. I started getting hits from dreamy Desis and Persians and Latins. I didn't realize the ethnic mix in the south bay was that much different from San Francisco. I changed it back because the distances involved made it unlikely that I would make a date and keep it.

I didn't think "Israeli" and "Jewish" were the same thing.

It can be very sexy to place yourself in a situation where you have a man telling you what to do. I like being told what to do by a studly, straight trainer. Partly because doing what he tells you to do is the most effective way to work with a trainer, but also because it's sexy to have a Muscleman telling me what to do.

This seems different from the straight guys who belittle and humiliate their slaves into forking cash over. It seems there's a deep trust here. Yes you have a financial dom, but you have set limits and can trust him to respect your limits.

I grew up in New York State. The terms were more or less interchangeable. The businesses usually identified themselves in their signage and advertising as mortuaries.

Sure.

I've browsed a BDSM site where most evwry body seems to be into cash slavery. There seems to be a heavy element of humiliation. The tops are really contemptuous of the bottoms. Gives me the willies.

The behavior itself wouldn't be any different. But to the fetishist, it would have outsize importance - like someone who says in an online profile that they will only have bareback sex.

I could imagine someone fetishizing bareback sex, so that it's no longer just bareback sex, but bareback on steroids.

No, it isn't an urban myth. There are websites for cash slaves and financial domination.

My grade school teachers are long dead. I didn't thrive in the early grades. I really detested school, didn't pay attention, and always felt like the teachers didn't like me. From grades 4-6, I had a succession of iron-fisted old maids who saw my potential and wouldn't accept anything but my best. Those ladies literally saved my ass.

I saw him crossing Market Street at a muni stop a while ago. I was struck by how handsome he is-like a runway model. His profile pics didn't do him justice.

In California, it is set by statute. A friend of mine is a professional fiduciary and knows this stuff inside and out. She told me down to the dollar the maximum fee I can bill the estate of a friend for whom I am the executor.

There are professional fiduciaries, who among other things, manage their clients affairs for them. Often, they act as an executor for a client.

Never look forward to taking prednisone. I need an occasional prednisone blast to bring asthma symptoms back under control. I'm also allergic to iodine contrast medium, so if I need to have any imaging that involves contrast, the radiologist premedicates with prednisone. It always does what it's supposed to, but the impatience, irritability and sleep disturbance are never easy to tolerate.

Or its just an exceedingly common expression, not unlike saying, "it was nothing," or "don't worry about it."

You might be running with the wrong crowd.

No, I didn't mean that you're chasing after other men. But you still enjoy attention from other men. Note that I didn't say there was anything wrong with that.

I have profiles on a couple of sites. Because I have a partner, and because I usually hire when I want to have sex outside of our relationship, for the most part, I'm not that interested in people who contact me on those sites. On both sites, I have the heading "JUST LOOKING - MOSTLY" prominently displayed on my profile. It has reduced the traffic to my profiles a lot, but a fair number of guys still respond - some really great ones, as a matter of fact. But even with primo guys, when it comes down to actually making a date and showing up for it, I'm just not that interested. But I do sort of enjoy the chase. I wonder if you keep your profile up because you enjoy the chase.

In the 70s, in San Francisco, there was a bathhouse for whomever-_gay men, lesbians , straight women, straight guys. It was the Sutro Baths on Valencia. It didn't last long, it might have been before it's time. I heard that the crowd was mostly straight women looking for gay men to convert.

Since I work daily with innovations and innovation, I read a lot about it. This was a book I encountered three or four years ago.

It seems like I read that. It sounds so familiar. There's an involved discussion in there on paradigm shifts, I think.

That's funny-working holiday. The escort is available more or less 24/7 and he's on holiday.

I had an FB with a small dick. I really enjoyed giving him oral.

I rent cars when I need to drive distances for business. For me it’s a matter of comfort. My personal vehicle is a light truck—not that comfortable for driving distances. I either expense it or charge it back to the client.