I have profiles on a couple of sites. Because I have a partner, and because I usually hire when I want to have sex outside of our relationship, for the most part, I'm not that interested in people who contact me on those sites. On both sites, I have the heading "JUST LOOKING - MOSTLY" prominently displayed on my profile. It has reduced the traffic to my profiles a lot, but a fair number of guys still respond - some really great ones, as a matter of fact. But even with primo guys, when it comes down to actually making a date and showing up for it, I'm just not that interested. But I do sort of enjoy the chase. I wonder if you keep your profile up because you enjoy the chase.