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And one wonders why they're not jumping through hoops for each text they get. 
Kevin Slater

When you say you texted four people, did you wait for each thread to play out before texting the next?  If not, this may partially explain this environment...
Kevin Slater

I'm of the mind that everything involving providers is a business transaction. I don't ever fool myself into thinking I'm friends or anything more with them because well, I don't hire my friends for any of their professional services either. That's not to say you can't be friendly with an escort, but I can't see myself texting daily with an escort because again, I don't even do that with friends.
I personally find it a bit distasteful to ask someone I haven't even met for cash. That's not the kind of person I would generally want to involve myself with.

I'm of the mind that everything involving providers is a business transaction. I don't ever fool myself into thinking I'm friends or anything more with them because well, I don't hire my friends for any of their professional services either. That's not to say you can't be friendly with an escort, but I can't see myself texting daily with an escort because again, I don't even do that with friends.
I personally find it a bit distasteful to ask someone I haven't even met for cash. That's not the kind of person I would generally want to involve myself with.

I'm of the mind that everything involving providers is a business transaction. I don't ever fool myself into thinking I'm friends or anything more with them because well, I don't hire my friends for any of their professional services either. That's not to say you can't be friendly with an escort, but I can't see myself texting daily with an escort because again, I don't even do that with friends.
I personally find it a bit distasteful to ask someone I haven't even met for cash. That's not the kind of person I would generally want to involve myself with.

The smoking part will probably be the most difficult.   They can't prohibit you from having sex!?!?   Some may have limits on parties and # guests.  But, if the property is (a) not in a concierge building or (b) in the hosts home, how will they know? 

I don’t understand why he is texting for 5 or 6 times a day. Stringing you along perhaps? 

Completely fine looks and body wise but the attitude is a turn off. If you find it sexy for someone to treat you like a piggy bank then I guess he'd be right up your alley.

Completely fine looks and body wise but the attitude is a turn off. If you find it sexy for someone to treat you like a piggy bank then I guess he'd be right up your alley.

Completely fine looks and body wise but the attitude is a turn off. If you find it sexy for someone to treat you like a piggy bank then I guess he'd be right up your alley.

Haha. Very hunky indeed. Not sure if I dig that thing he does with his lips though. Never found duck lips sexy 🦢

Possibly yes, possibly no, but at the end of the day it doesn't hurt to take a look elsewhere. It's currently a really good environment for people to look for new positions because of the high demand, but some companies may wonder why you're looking to make the jump after so long.
I think if you state it as wanting a more stable job without having to have a crazy travel schedule like you stated, that's something that makes sense. You're not bad mouthing your old employer and are just looking for something more grounded. At the end of the day, go in with confidence and they'll either like you or they won't, but you'll never know if you don't try.

$5000 for me is about 16 one-hour appointments at $300 each.  I’d take that over three days with one guy I have to feed and somehow keep happy.  But to each his own.

Seems a little high to me if that’s three nights in a row.  But then again, that’s just my opinion based on my experience doing this over the last 17 years.  I know some on here will be for the escort getting as much money as possible, but I’m also here for us clients not getting ripped off either.  
 
I do a lot of 2-day weekends (40-48 hours) with some great guys and have a great times for the $2,000 to $2,500 range.  Of course I buy their airfare and everything else too.  I paid a couple guys $3,000 for the same period, because I just had to try them, but they were no better than the cheaper hires.  I had one of my old hires who doesn’t advertise anymore for $1,500 for two nights (about 40 hours) last week, and he was better than the both of the $3,000 guys by a long shot.
If you haven’t hired this guy before, that seems like a long time and a lot of money to invest in case you two don’t match.

While that makes sense, I'd be more worried about having a stranger in my home. If a guy is looking like trouble and you're at his place, it's much easier to make an exit than figure out how to get him to leave your place.

While that makes sense, I'd be more worried about having a stranger in my home. If a guy is looking like trouble and you're at his place, it's much easier to make an exit than figure out how to get him to leave your place.

While that makes sense, I'd be more worried about having a stranger in my home. If a guy is looking like trouble and you're at his place, it's much easier to make an exit than figure out how to get him to leave your place.

While that makes sense, I'd be more worried about having a stranger in my home. If a guy is looking like trouble and you're at his place, it's much easier to make an exit than figure out how to get him to leave your place.

All good points. Not to mention, I feel especially so in the “Black escort” community (not to insinuate there should be a fine line between the White and ethnic providers). Generally (and not speaking for you or me), I would imagine your average Black or perhaps non black escort doing relatively well for himself, is not going to feel it necessary to immerse themselves in an opinion and Q/A environment. Is it really conducive? Will it open the door to become a target? Not to mention, when guys are steadily posting photos of ripped White guys, and talking about White guys, where does an ethnic provider see a benefit in joining?
Add to that, there’s a vast majority of providers who don’t take the industry seriously: some “drug” themselves thru bookings, and are high and strung out half the time. And this is based on fact. So, if they’re doing that, it’s unlikely they’ll find a reason to be in a seeing where they can conference with a bunch of clients for free. 
 
As for me: I stay because I like the networking aspect that is built here. I like reading other escort’s experiences, and getting client’s perspectives. I’ve made some good friends here. But I also been limiting my time as well because too much “noise” is distracting sometimes. There’s a euphoria in being completely tuned to my clients, and not always being in the know about what other guys are saying or doing. I think that’s partly why I’ve found it hard to keep interested in Twitter lately (which is where you WILL find far more providers conversing with clients/fans). 
 
Once my responsibility load settles down though, I’ll likely put more effort into different platforms. 
 
 

A biggie that gets overlooked - DON"T BE EARLY!! I've had one who I really enjoyed prevent me from a repeat visit for being early, which set a terrible tone for the session. Also, by being early with a different provider I was able to see his prior hire - not something either one of us wanted to experience. It's happened to me the other way as well with someone else being early that it spoiled the end of my session.
 
For my defense, I live in a rural area where it takes me hours to get to my hires, and I don't want to be late. I know now to drive around the block a time or two or find an errand to run to avoid this from happening.

I'll answer this from a white escort POV.
Yes, we do.  For many clients, white guys embody the 'all-American' stereotype that they're searching for.  I think that's changing, slowly, but it's been the industry norm for a good long time.  With younger client money coming into the mix, I do think we're going to see a trend away from that.  
It's needed to progress for awhile, but to do that, people's definition of what they find sexually attractive needs to evolve as well.  Because it's something that is so incredibly personal, I can't blame anyone for what they find 'sexy,' but I always encourage people to explore and push outside of their box.
I've done this with several longtime clients, motivating them to see a wider spectrum of guys to really figure out what works best for them and to diversify their sexual playbook.  I can't be everything to everyone (and, frankly, don't really want to be). 

It’s impossible to offend me. To be offended you have to take offence and I choose not to accept the offence. It’s their problem not mine. 
Occasionally clients are impolite (things like avoiding eye contact) but that’s probably anxiety or feeling bad about themselves. It doesn’t bother me, in fact it’s a fun challenge to then help them be less anxious and inhibited. 

That's a good thing for escorts to remember:   If a client seems defensive or resistant to intimacy, it could simply be manifestations of anxiety. 

"Pleasure" from bottoming is an incredibly subjective experience. I really don't think it is possible to give a "one size fits all" answer. I think the best thing you can do, is try to understand yourself, your desires, and what you enjoy and find pleasurable. For example, some are turned on by the size of the boat where another will find it in the motion of the ocean and to yet another it will be some combination of both.
 
For myself, I don't enjoy bottoming in the traditional sense. I think it takes a lot of prep and hard work to be ready (cleaning, not being able to eat, etc.) I am not fixated on size at all (average is fine, big is fine). But here is how and where I get my enjoyment. I have to be very attracted to the person I am with. Intense deep passionate kissing has to be involved. I like some degree of verbal play (not degradation, but more like descriptive). Finally, I get pleasure from knowing that I am giving my partner something he really wants. This is what works for me.
 
I can't emphasize enough, how knowing yourself and what you like is the most important thing to your own enjoyment. It will also be very helpful if you are able to verbalize this to your partner (what is working and even what isn't working). Maybe for you, it will be size, or foreplay, or toys, or positioning. Finally, as others have said... yes.. it is ok if you decide that you really don't enjoy it.