Bargara Leatherboy

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The poster is well known on this forum and has an amazing JFF site 

20 hours ago, Unicorn said:

I recommend very strongly that you do not take glipizide with a Hgb A1c of under 6.5%, and especially with a Hgb A1c of 5.5%. This is associated with an increased mortality rate. Ozempic is at least safe to take, but only if you need it for weight loss. No guidelines recommend treating to a Hgb A1c of less than 6.5%, let alone 5.5%. And using glipizide in this situation is dangerous (scientific reference is higher up in the string). 

Thank you so much for bringing this to my attention - I have located the reference - and will reread it minutely.

We learn so much more from each other than we do from our medical teams. 

Wow what timing - I am in Australia Type 2 and finally got my script of Ozempic filled today.  It went into short supply last year and I have not had any since August.  I find it works really well.

In the meantime I took myself off Metformin - and watched my numbers very carefully - I found even after being on it for years that I spent half my time on the toilet - or in pain or needing to find a toilet pretty fast.  

And the numbers were not improving - nor was my weight - so gave it up.

Since then I have exercised more - gentle walking, bike riding and swimming, and watched what I eat and by avoiding carbs I am doing really well.

HB1ac was 8.8 then it starting hitting the 6's like 6.2 and then went to 5.8 and most recently being 5.5.

So I take Ozempic, Glipizade and thats it - I do use digestive enzymes and fibre every day to assist.

I had an uncle who did not look after himself and he had both feet amputated - so the message is look out for yourself and be careful.

Many medical people are very caring - but they only get fed the information from the pharmaceutical companies who's best interest is that we take more and more drugs, so thats not the best place to get your information.

Its your body - your life - do you own research 

sharing a fresh cum kiss is amazing ......  I remember a long passionate kiss with a very hot provider after he had made me cum - and lick it all up off his fingers ......  he then kissed me very passionately for a long time.  

Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.

its great foreplay 

2 hours ago, robberbaron4u said:

Save your nickels and you will be popular in your old age. Be mindful, however, that whilst money can  buy attentiveness, it cannot buy love and affection; "johns" that think otherwise suffer from early stage dementia.

Its an interesting concept - I discovered about 45 years ago men in bathhouses who wanted me to say "I love you" to them - I never got confused between good sex and love 

Whenever I have hired - I have always understood that I was hiring a sexual experience and their time for that period of time - cuddles and conversation as well .....  but nothing more 

I love it when you walk into his apartment - and the first thing he does is - reach out for your nipples, your shirt is still on - he is saying with his actions, I know how to turn you one - and I am in charge , it gets better when I reach for his - his shirt is still on - and he responds well - I know we are going to have a hot session.

Later there are clamps and weights as well as teeth - I can cum just from hot nipple play 

Escorts who do this to me get lots of repeat business 

Sub Nick - I have always found being kept in a certain style very worthwhile,  and I have always been worthwhile to be around - if the chemistry is there of course.

I went down he sugar daddy route when I was a young adult - I found that the demands were too much (not the sexual ones but the you need to do life my way). 

As a more mature man  - if the chemistry is right I could make it happen for you 

as part of a hot bondage scene fantastic yes 

I have attended similar in Australia - and massage places in Asia where you pic a masseur.  One place I went to had 6 guys to choose from another had about 30 - they line up and you stand there and point to one - its hard to make a good informed decision, when compared to rent men or similar.

One place I went to in Vietnam had a menu folder with an a4 picture of the guy - with some vital statistics - but your still picking without being very informed.

I like the concept of going to a venue, where you can relax have a swim or a spa then choose a partner for some pleasure and then relax again before heading out into the world again

We recently purchased one and it's incredible. They are very popular in Europe where many homes or apartments have very small kitchens - but its a fast way to cook and process food - the screen connects to the internet and and if your following a recipe on the screen it will tell you step by step what to do.  

Add 10 ml of olive oil - and the screen then measures how much oil you have added, add 100 gm of plain flour - again it measures as you pour so its so easy to use.

yes its expensive but its worth it if you like to cook and eat healthy food without spending many hours in the kitchen (disclaimer I do not see these) 

It's a very interesting topic - there are ways you can work from home or from your phone and add to your income.  I have an extra income that way - which supplements my investments 

Thanks, yes so far its been pretty amazing - I am still running a business from home that I am passionate about but free to set my own schedule 

The only "CHOICE" for me was to accept who I was and work with it.

There was no way I was going to go anywhere personal with a female body , no offence to anyone BUT it just did not enter the equation.

1 hour ago, Lucky said:

I learned something new!

Bargara, Queensland

Bargara is a coastal town and suburb in the Bundaberg Region, Queensland, Australia. In the 2016 census, the suburb of Bargara had a population of 7,485 people. The town of Bargara lies 384 kilometres north of the state capital Brisbane and just 13 kilometres east of Bundaberg.Wikipedia

Postcode(s):4670

Time zone:AEST (UTC+10:00)

Location:12.3 km (mi) NE of Kepnock

Yes although the population now would be at least over 10 000 with more to arrive.  Australia has experienced a move away from the big cities with the pandemic as so many people found they could work from home.  We were ready to retire and had chosen to live in Bargara before the pandemic.  We are in an over 50's resort and our section is part of 150 new homes, and there is another 100 about to be built.  And south of us along the coast here is plans underway for more developement along the coast so another 10 000 or so.  

It's a great area - 4.5 hours drive to Brisbane, but Bundaberg which is 15 kilometres away has almost everything you need, apart from gay venues, and providers. 

25 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

please don't change your long-standing avatar........it's the only way I'll remember you!........a few other forum members have put their former handles in a "signature" if you want to do that to remind people who you are - can be done in your profile preference settings

Ha ha - yes great advice - I left the avatar - I am flattered that you remember me - and yes I will add that in a signature 

Hi fellow forum members,

FYI 

I have changed my profile name - as my previous westernsyd represented the geography of where I lived, I have done a sea change and thought it was appropriate to change my user name - it now reflects where I live and my main fetish interest.

Just thought I would mention this so alleviate any confusion 

This is always a fascinating post 

I posted a number of years ago that I had a couple of gents on my bucket list, one was Stephen (well discussed on this forum and no longer active) and Legendary Dave was the other.  

Legendary Dave reached out to me and said we need to make it happen.   We did make it happen and it was memorable.

So my three are :- 

Legendary Dave  - an unforgettable night in Bali 

Brother Hazy  http://www.brisbaneprofessionalsir.com

and 

there are a number of men who tie at number 3 

Dave. https://man2mansydney.com

Rick http://rentmen.eu/RickDraper/. who did an amazing three way with 

Jack http://rentmen.eu/JackCannon/

and provider who is not currently advertising 

http://rentmen.eu/tangolessons/.

Well as a client I have experienced this.

I made an appointment with a very well reviewed provider - who had a very detailed website.  we chatted on line - made an appointment, we spoke on the phone while I was driving there - to go over some details of what I was into.

I knew the suburb he was in, and the directions were to meet him on a street corner at a certain time.

He came out of his building - walked up the street to meet me, his website had a pic of him in a black business suit with block out sunglasses - he came out of the building wearing that image

I started walking in his direction, he led me into his building via a carpark door - up the elevator and into his apartment .  When I left after an amazing 2 hour session when I blew a big load 3 times - it was via the front door.

the 2nd time was a little different, again a provider who I had seen advertising for a number of years.

An older man advertising domination, discipline etc etc.

We set up a time - on line - spoke about my interests etc.  In his information on his website - he said that he was located in this location - and the details would be provided just before the session

On the day I got told to attend a street corner and to phone him at the appointed time when I was in that location - to have the fee in my pants pocket ...

So I looked up the address on google st view and came up with a couple of possible locations.

When I got there, I was told to look around, locate the garage roller door - to lift the roller door - enter - lower the door - turn around and face the roller door - which I did.

I then heard a door open, and footsteps, he came up behind me, took off my glasses, placed a blindfold around my head, and then lead me blindfolded into his playroom.  He placed me against a wall , then mentioned not sure if I said but my partner/slave is here - he is a hot muscled Russian man would you be comfortable in him participating - of course I said yes 

He then had a convo with the partner/slave who entered the room, door was shut.

I could see a little thru the bottom of the blind fold -the younger guy was 30's blond - muscled and very hot.

He undressed me, then removed the fee from my pants pocket and we proceeded to play 

Wild - but worth it - during the session the blindfold came off - I got to watch the slave getting a good whipping which was hot - and we shared a coffee at the end of the session.

Neither situations freaked me out - they were well handled and it all worked well.

As a client - I find RM works best for me.

I was working shift work until recently, and any hire had to fit into my schedule and also had to be at a specific time when my husband was not aware of it.

So I found that RM communication works best for me.

I hear what providers are saying BUT this is a service industry and if your clients want RM messaging well thats where you should be.

I have always been upfront in my first message, I am *** and *** and looking for *** and *** on *** are you able to assist?

Happy to move it to personal messaging later if thats what we need to do.

Just my input but the old adage that the customer is always right - well its not always true - but it has a ring about it 

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time).

I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry.  

someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation 

I visited both PP and SR a few years ago.  Both are amazing cities, the food is incredible, the markets great places to shop - and the gay scene is great. 

Awesome places to stay and great massages are avail. with happy endings 

I stayed at Mens in SR they have great tour guides and tuk tuk drivers 

Highly recommend a visit 

My husband worked in the funeral industry for a number of years, and I got roped in to help out sometimes.

It does take a special calling - you have to be great with people.

Sadly here in Australia many of the family run companies are being bought out by a big American company called Invercare.  They buy a business - then insist on the name remaining, so people think they are still family owned.  It is just one big production line.  Often the arranger who meets with you is not at the funeral service, so nothing seems to work .  

Its very poor customer service, but would work very well at keeping costs down and making profit 

Yes it is technically rape - having worked in law enforcement - the issue is then how do you report it - and how do you get to press charges.  

Sadly often its not worth the trauma and drama to do so - so rapists then think they can get away with it 

I prefer to visit - particularly in my home city where i play on the Down Low - its the only option.

I like kinky fun so if the provider is set up for that, then it  works so well !

Recently i was out of town, and the providers were reluctant to host.  So I had a hot 2 sum in a Leather guesthouse - set up for that kind of play,  the other gent came to my airBNB so that was nice and discrete and a good time was had by all.

Hotel rooms normally work quite well for me