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33 minutes ago, jessmapex said:

How can a homosexual be homophobic? It's my first hand experience as a proud homosexual. I wanted to say it as a word of caution to people spending $$$ in search of love in unlikely places in response to the OP. Gosh queens are so judgemental these days! 🙄

Yes sad but true.  I just had a discussion on FB about the reason not to eat at Chik Fil A - apparently a good chicken sandwich outweighs good self image or concern about what the profits are being used for .

You have to love yourself before anyone else can benefit from your love 

I like to know where I am heading, so I do my best to get the address as early as possible - check Apple Maps then do street view - so I have a good idea of where I am heading to.

I was brought up to be on time (often early).

I guess if you really want to enjoy the session you do the preparation before hand - but then so many people are just not with it anymore 

What sort of guy are you looking for 

From RM - try 

TommyTangoXXX   or. Rick Draper

I experienced both of these fine gentleman last year and highly recommend them 

I was visiting another city last year and looking around for some fun - I came across a couple of guys that I like the look of, and chatted with one, then a few days later chatted with one of the others - when I started talking about my interests he suggested I do a 3 sum with guy number 1 and him, said that guy number 1 brought out the Dom in him - as I was looking for 2 doms.

The encounter worked out really well, I got exactly what I was looking for, and it was hot to be tied up and watch these two hot men enjoying each other - and we all had a great time together.

My only issue was that they were taking G although the encounter - and I find it a little off-putting - but that can happen with anyone 

This is the constant dilemma with hiring.

I am limited to my hiring opportunities - so I try to schedule them in advance, some providers are excellent in doing this, others say call on the day, then they are not available - and I have to scratch around for someone else or do without.

I get the no shows that might come with forward bookings - but that can easily be managed.

I have never made a time and not shown 

You should check out the Naked Barber in Sydney - he is an escort and has a JFF channel 

swallowing is the only way to go - even better is holding a mouthful, coming up for a sexy cum filled passionate kiss.

Legendary Dave is great at that - or licking it up off your body and sharing it in a long kiss - so sensual and sexy 

3 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I also have no issues with your personal tastes and the preferences or your husband/partner either. 

I don't think a person could be 400 lbs. and heathy at the same time, and I think science proves my point correct. I also don't think gay men are usually attracted to overweight/obese men, but I do know the existence of self-proclaimed "chubby chasers" if that's what you meant with sweeping statements that are not based in reality. 

What can happen is someone who is 400 lbs may not present with any health issues, but as someone who got to 320 and is now 260 and dropping - your health is better if your in the right weight range for your body.  My naturopath says she thinks I will only get to 240 as I have a lot of muscle particularly in my thighs and legs (from carrying all that weight around for many years) 

Not something I would find attractive or pleasant - However I appreciate knowing what the term is - so if some trade suggests it I will know to say. NO THANKS 

I don't like the idea of golden showers - so this is just worst in my book

However for those that find this activity exciting and fun - I hope you get to enjoy it with willing partners 

Just because something does not float your boat - no need to harpoon someone else's boat 

an absolute operatic treasure 

I have had a few, one with two providers in Melbourne who advertise as working well together - and that they did .  Both Tops - I had a delightful couple of hours with them.  Its best not to overthink it but to discuss what you want before and during 

It can be a blessing and a hinderance.  Yes you get your time scheduled, some places like the Eiffel Tower are better if you prebook as you dont have to join a long line - but you are restricted to the hour that you book for.

We had tickets for Monet's Garden - the Seine was in flood and while the garden was not flooded they decided to close the garden, so we wasted time going when we could not get in - eventually we got a refund.

Places Like Buckingham Palace require a ticket - others like Balmoral or Sandringham you can just walk up and go in after paying the entrance fee

certainly like a fit older Dom daddy type 

I normally use https://www.utopia-asia.com for Asia information.

Nahm in HoChiMinh city is amazing - hard to find but most taxi drivers will take you there - Hanoi also has some great spa experiences

Cambodia the same - both in Siam Reap and Phenom Penh. 

Thailand also but more focused on Pattaya, Phuket and Bangkok 

Bali is also good - 

Australia also has https://www.rentboyaustralia.com as well as the usual like massage guys and Rent Men 

I have paid upfront a couple of hot gentleman, but they have always said on their websites and adds and in their convos with me that they request the fee upfront.  

Both times it worked out.  One I saw many times and he still wanted the $$ upfront - shame as I would have tipped him after almost all of our session. he was hot and the sessions we had were even hotter 

However I prefer to pay at the end of the session.

I get the your a public persona and how you behave reflects badly on the company you represent ....

BUT when you had a presidential candidate who spoke about grabbing woman by the pussy - and he got elected ....

there is an issue here - if this guy was white and straight - none of this would be happening 

YES it was not the wisest choice - BUT public personas are entitled to a sex life so 

in summary

His dismissal was racist and homophobic . 

End of story - 

sadly neither of those categories will save him as America has  a racist , sexist homophobic culture 

On 3/24/2023 at 3:39 PM, mike carey said:

I don't think they do, they're Star Alliance and they do fly IAH-AKL (United also flies IAH to SYD.) As far as I know, Fiji Airways only flies to the west coast.

Air NZ does have a IAH flight as well as an ORD and JFK as well as their standard SFO and LAX flights.  

Fiji only does NAN - LAX with add ons to AKL WLG CHC BNE SYD MEL ADL 

On 3/24/2023 at 1:31 PM, tassojunior said:

have you ever used the upgrade auction on QF or any other airline down there?  On EU flights it's very much a bargain. Of course it's best if you have free cancellations like the US or $50 ones like EU so you can cancel if you don't get a cheap upgrade. 

https://www.plusgrade.com/partners/

I don't fly QF - and I do not like the lottery of upgrading - I want to know when I book that I have a confirmed seat in Business so I either pay for a business fare or use points for a business reward seat.

QF upgrades might not clear until 5 hours before departure - so it's a huge risk.  I normally book really early so can get the business saver seats - on Singapore Airlines - but never have an issue getting on the flight I want to be on 

I collect credit card points avidly.  Along with the consumer programs that earn   points and status credits and are automatically transferred to your Frequent Flyer program.  

Yes the Australian market is different.

I always buy my domestic tickets and some short haul international tickets, in the class of travel I want to fly in.  I can do short haul domestic in economy - up to 3 hours - but anything past that I will always fly business.

So my point strategy is this :-

spending the money anyway - by using a branded American Express Card where possible (available in say 70% of transactions) and a airline branded Mastercard for all other transactions - I amass a decent number of points.

I then use them for confirmed business class tickets long haul.

For instance we flew Sydney to London and then Zurich to Sydney via Singapore on Singapore Airliners for about $278 in taxes and a bunch of points.  These long haul flights in Business were a pleasure. (if we paid cash it would have cost us $16 000 plus.

Our last trip was 2016 and I know have enough points to do another big round the world trip in business - and then some.

In my view we got the above trip for taxes - and the next trip for taxes - so the bulk cost is a freebie for being loyal and smart to maximise the program.

having said that I am also not adverse to flying on a LCC airline depending on the seating.  Air Asia is fine for short haul flights in Asia and their long haul flights in Air Asia X where they have a angled flat bed seat is great for a 9 hour day flight and passable for a night flight.

I have found that unless you are a very regular flyer status is not worth it - but if you manage to achieve it its a bonus, but do have a look at what you can achieve with points via credit cards 

I visited Japan in 1992 - yes many years ago.  At that time it was extremely difficult to get entry into many bars and certainly sauna/bathhouses.  At that stage there was NO document HIV/AIDS cases in Japan.  There may well have been but they were not commonly known about. 

So the venues had this policy of not letting gaijin (foreigners) in, as their rational was if there is not aids among the Japanese - if we dont mix with gaijin we will stay disease free.

It kind of makes sense - but it frustrated me at the time.  there were several bars and clubs that were welcoming of expats etc 

They way FB moderates its pages or posts in infuriating.

I understand they are using AI based on a bunch of words or phrases they find offensive.

Its ok for a hater to accuse me of being a pedophile on a equality or political post yet I constantly get friend requests from woman  - who when you click on their page - there is a picture of a naked woman with her fingers in her private parts.

I report these as nudity - and they then send me back a message saying the post did not go against community standards - yet when I report the person calling me a pedophile - I get the same response.

However If I were to complain to the pedophile - I get a 7 day ban.

It seems to me that the standards of Facebook are not the community standards of the groups I am in - or the countries I live in 

On 3/14/2023 at 11:22 AM, ncc1701d said:

Anyone been with this one?

https://rentmen.eu/AllAussieStud

 

Not able to help - a couple of red flags for me - seems to be picky .....  

I have had some 4 handed massages, most are not worth the $$ but there have been a few that are notable. If the two masseurs are in sync with the right amount of pressure and have the same style its awesome, imagine both legs being worked at once, particulary those long sensual strokes from butt to feet - or feet to butt - they feel fantastic - but those when you hears the whispered directions from one to the other - not so good 

On 3/7/2023 at 3:12 PM, mike carey said:

I'm looking forward to renewing old friendships and starting some new ones next month. I've made twin Faustian bargains with Qantas and Inndulge for the weekend and can't wait to be on my way.

Thankfully, after hearing horror stories about Qantas shunting travellers to a different, higher priced page when attempting to redeem travel credits, I had no such problems. My credit from my aborted 2020 PSP flights was accepted seamlessly, and at face value, towards my trip this time.

I hope it works out for you Mike - lots of horror stories about Qantas and its systems around at the moment 

On 3/5/2023 at 2:53 AM, Jamie21 said:

Hey thank you for the recommendation 🙂. 

It's the least I can do in return for the many pleasurable moments your JFF has given me ....  when I am next in London - hopefully I can schedule a long massage