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For me, the main sign is that someone looks older than his biological age.  I'm not talking about early hair loss -- some guys start going bald in their twenties.  But if someone's face has lost all youthful appearance and he's supposedly still in his twenties, I assume it's because he's more interested in using drugs than eating and sleeping right.

Times per month?
I hired someone regularly (usually once per month) for a period of years and I certainly considered myself "a regular."  I also considered myself a regular of a guy whom I only saw a few times per year when he was in my area.

Five weeks ago isn't recent enough for you?  😀

Five weeks ago isn't recent enough for you?  😀

You asked about legal problems.  Apart from a couple of stories I've read about online (i.e., no personal knowledge), I think that risk is very low. 
What seems to be a larger risk is extortion or, at least, attempts at extortion.  If you have a lot to lose if your hiring habit becomes known to others, then someone attempting to extort you puts you at risk.  That's why you'll see some here advocating the use of a burner phone and never meeting anyone where they live.  I didn't take either of those precautions and never had anyone try to extort me, but I did almost hire someone whom I subsequently read about here who did threaten to expose clients to their families.  I felt like I dodged a bullet there even though I don't think that being exposed to colleagues or family would have caused any problems for me other than whatever gossip people might have engaged in following the disclosure.

Five weeks ago isn't recent enough for you?  😀

Five weeks ago isn't recent enough for you?  😀

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

I almost never lend any money, but I did lend my roommate some money a year ago on a very short term basis and got repaid within two weeks (I made him sign a note which promised repayment within that time frame).  We watch Judge Judy reruns together so having a formal acknowledgement of the loan and repayment terms seemed sensible even though we trust each other.  Speaking of which, forty years ago I lent another roommate money so she could put down her share of the security deposit on the apartment we were renting.  I had to hound her for that money for several weeks even though she told me she'd repay me the week after I lent the money to her.  It is kind of surprising, but even among people who seem to be nice, ethical people there are those who have no qualms about taking financial advantage of someone else if they can get away with it.

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

I have made small loans to friends and family.  I always insisted that they sign a note - and I always got repaid.   Once, my mother asked for a largish loan - to pay tuition for my brother and sister in private schools.  Since their state had perfectly good public schools - I told her "no," hard thing to do, but I knew I would never get repaid.

The best advice I have heard on lending money is only lend an amount of money you would not be upset to never get back. It's crazy how many people lend money and put themselves into debt to do it or financial difficulty. Obviously that wasn't you @Rick M but just my input.

I have relied on the kindness of client-friends many times.  Without my closest client//friends I'd probably be homeless, or have had to resort to a real job (shudder!).  And yes, it could make me feel like a worthless whore to have to ask for help.  At the very least I feel a BIT disappointed in myself.  But Jesus Christ no matter how awkward I feel I continue to thank them, years later.  I'd never ghost someone who helped me just because I feel embarrassed.  Who would.   Someone who isn't doing well. Sucks dude, nice of you to help him.  VERY nice of you to still be concerned.

I think for most it’s a “we’ll see…” and committing to it ahead without personal chemistry established is rare. 
It carries the higher risk for the bearer of the tongue. 

It carries the higher demand of hygiene and honesty about health for the bearer of the hole. 
In porn, def a climax trigger.
In person I love it both ways. By nature and function, I’m bottom, but when I get into eating it, I get hard enough to fuck it, and/or come while feasting. 
I never present myself without being super clean and smooth. It’s fairly pale, and even after 40yrs of recreational use, my hole looks younger than my ass🤣
We’ll see.

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

Perhaps the most successful (by which I mean in the most films/shorts) is Sean Paul Lockhart (aka Brent Corrigan).  Most memorable for me is his appearance in Another Gay Sequel, but he also had a brief appearance in Gus Van Sant's Milk.

You asked about legal problems.  Apart from a couple of stories I've read about online (i.e., no personal knowledge), I think that risk is very low. 
What seems to be a larger risk is extortion or, at least, attempts at extortion.  If you have a lot to lose if your hiring habit becomes known to others, then someone attempting to extort you puts you at risk.  That's why you'll see some here advocating the use of a burner phone and never meeting anyone where they live.  I didn't take either of those precautions and never had anyone try to extort me, but I did almost hire someone whom I subsequently read about here who did threaten to expose clients to their families.  I felt like I dodged a bullet there even though I don't think that being exposed to colleagues or family would have caused any problems for me other than whatever gossip people might have engaged in following the disclosure.

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

You asked about legal problems.  Apart from a couple of stories I've read about online (i.e., no personal knowledge), I think that risk is very low. 
What seems to be a larger risk is extortion or, at least, attempts at extortion.  If you have a lot to lose if your hiring habit becomes known to others, then someone attempting to extort you puts you at risk.  That's why you'll see some here advocating the use of a burner phone and never meeting anyone where they live.  I didn't take either of those precautions and never had anyone try to extort me, but I did almost hire someone whom I subsequently read about here who did threaten to expose clients to their families.  I felt like I dodged a bullet there even though I don't think that being exposed to colleagues or family would have caused any problems for me other than whatever gossip people might have engaged in following the disclosure.

You asked about legal problems.  Apart from a couple of stories I've read about online (i.e., no personal knowledge), I think that risk is very low. 
What seems to be a larger risk is extortion or, at least, attempts at extortion.  If you have a lot to lose if your hiring habit becomes known to others, then someone attempting to extort you puts you at risk.  That's why you'll see some here advocating the use of a burner phone and never meeting anyone where they live.  I didn't take either of those precautions and never had anyone try to extort me, but I did almost hire someone whom I subsequently read about here who did threaten to expose clients to their families.  I felt like I dodged a bullet there even though I don't think that being exposed to colleagues or family would have caused any problems for me other than whatever gossip people might have engaged in following the disclosure.