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He has it listed in his ad copy. Open to: Dates, kissing, dinners, one and one, couples massage, 3some, overnight, and chill and hang out.Shoot me a message with what you’re looking to set up a meet-up. I only respond to texts.Passport holder

US City envy... no. City in another country... definitely yes. There are so many incredibly built guys listing as bottom/vers bottom/versatile, the type of which in the US, tend to list as ask me or top. In the US I can bring people in to see me or go to them if I choose. My biggest issue here is time followed by costs. Bringing someone from overseas or going to them is an impossibility mostly. Time and costs become a even bigger problem. Dealing with an unknown person from another country ups the drawbacks for me even more. I only have brought in one guy from Argentina, but we had met in the US and have a long standing client/provider relationship. So it made it easier. Especially since I knew who I was seeing when I opened the door.

At least you got a response lol

I contacted him a few times in the past and never got a response from him. So whether he’s real or not he may be particular in who he sees. Maybe that’s why he doesn't have many reviews.

I don't judge people who are into pnp, but I don't seek out providers who list it. I had a very bad experience with a provider high on crack or meth. I don't know what it was exactly. In any case, because of this I have yet to hire anyone else who lists pnp in their ad. Whether they can handle their shit or not. I'm no longer willing to find out. I talked about what I considered my worst experience before on the forum. So I'll give the crib notes version. Early in my highing career, a provider I had met a few times (to which I had great to decent experiences with), called me as i was on my way to see him. He asked, "did I like to party?" Being new to all this I said yes. Thinking he meant.. like going to a party. Very naive I know. When I got to the room, he left the door open and the room was pitch black except for the sliver of light beaming through curtains. He sat near this sliver so I could see his silhouette across the room. The room had a weird smell. Not stinky, but nothing I've ever smelled before. I heard this weird inhaling whirring sound as a light, which look like a cigarette tip, glowed. The sound it made, made me think that it was not a cigarette. I had no idea what it could have been. So I kind of ignored that it could be something harder. During the session he wouldn't let me kiss him (he had before). He became increasingly erratic and become hyper paranoid. He started freaking me out and every time I tried to leave, he wouldn't let me. He actively blocked me, asking why am I leaving. What followed was him eventually having an episode where he was extremely manic, even crying to his mom, slobbering on the toilet, begging me not to leave him and at one point becoming comatose. I was scared to death because I thought he stopped breathing. I didn't know what to do. Should I leave... should I call an ambulance. My paranoid brain didn't help because I thought if I left and he died I could be in some series trouble. My finger prints and whatever else had to be all over the room and on his body. Did someone see me come into his room? What was supposed to be an hour meetup ended up closer to 4. Close to the end, he suddenly became clear and coherent. So much so he asked me to take him to the bus station. He acted like what just happened didn't. I was in shock at that point. As I dropped him off, he said he had a great time, looked forward to seeing me again, and asked me to write a positive review. I made sure I never saw him again. I met him through rentboy and he still posts on rentmen from time to time.

I finally met Max. It was well worth the wait. Very passionate. Very affectionate. I mean he's muscled and toned (as pictured in his ad) but you really don't get an exact sense of how big he is until you see him in person. That dude is thick.

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Yes and no. In general, I don't talk about hiring unless I'm directly asked. This goes for friends and providers. It's probably why I partly use the forum for an outlet (because of the anonymity). However, I changed one aspect of this. After an incident, I no longer talk about my experiences (in detail) with a provider to another provider... even if directly asked. I've been burned by this because one provider miscommunicated info to another. Which I'm certain lead to the deterioration and end of one of the provider relationships with me. I mean there were other factors but I'm certain it was a part of the deterioration. Such is life.

Some idea of the providers personality in the ad copy. Some people just write some really basic stuff. Others are witty or even comical. Up to date pics preferably with full body shots and a mix of candid and professional pics. I know some guys use only professional shots where they are all ripped and glistening. It’s not impossible but that look isn’t easy to sustain year round. So having candid shots can give you an idea of how they appear in non-contest shape or every day look. That they include their intos. I’ve seen ads with none at all or very little. Personally if they list kissing, bear, and exclude pnp… I’m more prone to give strong consideration to that person.

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He's not the fastest responder, but is great with communication when he does. However, and I didn't want to get into it, but he's been ill. It may be the flu or covid. It's why the overnight we had planned for this week has to be postponed. So he may not be responding because he's probably recuperating.

A lot of the providers I have seen are visiting my area. So I tend to meet them at their hotel and on the very rare occasion an air bnb. Since I’m coming to them I definitely need to know their location. Once we set a time, I need to factor in my travel and potential parking time to meet them on time. Usually they’ll tell me a hotel name or street. Once I park, they then give me the hotel room number or whatever pertinent info I need to meet them in their room. I have had offers to stay at a guy’s actual residence. Some on the first meeting, but most after I get to know the guy. I have yet to do it though. Mainly because with new hires I just feel more comfortable at a hotel. The regulars who offer, I just haven’t had the chance to visit them in their area to take up the offer.

I met him a few months back and had a great time. We were going to do a overnight next week but it may have to be postponed to Spring.

My two issues with providers come down to communication and scheduling. If I give full details or ask a question, I would hope I get full details or responses back. Especially if the prover asks me directly or through copy in their ad. The thing that bugs me the most is scheduling and lack of commitment. On a recent trip I set up meet-ups with 3 providers (at different times/days). All were no shows. Two actually told me they were on their way. And of course they weren’t. The third seemed like a lock.He was excited for the meet up and said he had the time. I made contact a couple days before the met up date/time. When I texted to confirm the day of… crickets. He contacted me just under 2 hours before the meet up time saying he wasn’t coming. His excuse, he had a hectic day at work and wouldn’t be coming. He could have told me that earlier. When he never responded to my confirmation text, I knew he wasn’t coming. No apology for wasting my time. For communication issues, I may sometimes give a little leeway and keep trying… but 3 strikes and you’re out. After that I won’t try to contact them again, ever. If you make a commitment and can’t make it be upfront and honest. If it’s a good excuse then Im willing to try again some other time. You say you’re coming and don’t contact me until a relatively short time before with a lame ass or no excuse about not coming… I’m done and won’t ever try contacting that person again. One of the guys was very well reviewed. He even came to my area this week. He’s off the list forever.

I don't really care if someone is tatted. The only time I kinda find it a turnoff is when someone is literally tatted almost every square inch of their body including their face. I'm also not a fan of face tattoos. However depending on how big it is and where on the face it's located, I can overlook it.

In no particular order... A provider cooking for me or offering to cook for me. Sending me a sweet or thoughtful message especially after our time to together. Just being sweet affectionate and playful before during and after the encounter. Thanking me for helping them out... by just making out. One provider I helped move some furniture. He didn't live too far from me. After we dropped the last piece of furniture off, he thanked me and kissed me. Which lead to a heavy make out session. That was all. it was awesome. A provider, whom I met last year, offered to do a 3-day threesome (with his boyfriend) for the rate he asks for a solo 3-day meet up. This is at no additional charge... 2 for the cost of one. He says because he likes and trusts me. I was flattered.

That's fine. You have to do what makes you comfortable. However, as you mentioned this topic has been started over a year ago. You've been searching all over to find someone or more info in that time. Nothing has been turned up. I get people's reluctant... I do. There comes a point you either sit and wait and potentially miss out or bite the bullet and take a chance.

I saw him recently and had a great time. Not discounting what the previous posters said but it was not my experience. I’ve seen Mike for years.

According to his ad he’s been on since Feb 2022. So he’s relatively new. Here’s the thing… this forum as great a service as it is, not every escort will be mentioned or talked about being seen. It’s a small microcosm in the escorting world. There are people posting on it all the time about how they just discovered the site. Furthermore, if you’re waiting for more reviews on rm site to gauge whether he’ll be a good choice… well rm changed their reviews policy and you can only leave reviews if you’re a paid member and have contacted the provider through the system. Those facts alone cut out a lot of potential new reviews. With all that being said, if you’re interested you’ll have to decide if you will take a chance on this relatively new guy. As a frame of reference, in the last 2 years of all the escorts I’ve met (who I haven’t previously met) only one was well known and had multiple reviews on rm. The rest were relatively new guys with little to no reviews. All have been good to outstanding hires except for the well known multiple review guy who was just meh. Sometimes you gotta just take a chance with the unknown.

There used to be a good number of escort agencies who would manage and send guys out to clients. Most of them are gone or aren’t as open about their existence. You still have guys acting as the managers/handlers/pimps for guys. Some escorts aren’t great at scheduling and handling certain aspects of the finances. They’re willing to give up sone of their earnings for someone else to answer emails/take calls, schedule appointments, and deal with whatever else the provider can’t or doesn’t want to deal with. There are even what I call finders. Guys who will put you in contact with guys who otherwise aren’t easily reachable or contactable. However, they only stick around for the initial contact. They take their finders fee and any subsequent meetings between the client and escort are between just those two. I think managers were more prevalent in the past. Although they definitely still exist.

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As a bit of addendum to my earlier post... There are now 4 I'd never hire again. LOL! Three weren't horrible... just meh.

Why do you need to explain why you're hiring them. Most, at least the ones I've met, could care less why you are hiring them "right now." Unless they say specifically they want to be booked in advance, they won't be annoyed. Again at least not the ones I've encountered. The question seems more an issue you're having hiring someone last minute... not the potential escort. I think you're thinking too much into it. Just ask are you available now. They'll say yes or no. That's all that's needed.