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They retire for various reasons. Of the ones I have known/know who have, they retired because... - they found love/a sugar daddy/etc. - only did it for quick cash or make enough to put themselves through school. - even though they love what they do they get worn out and want to do something else - some just abruptly quit cold turkey and drop off the face of the earth - some just feel it's time to retire. The work span for each individual provider/masseur is up to that particular person. There is no set time frame. Some retired providers/masseurs do see at least some of their regulars. While others, once retired, they will cut all their regulars off and move on to the next phase of their life/career. In my experience, I am in contact with a number of retired/semi-retired mostly providers and one masseur. My interactions with these guys varies. Some I've formed friendships with and talk to them on and off each year. Some I even go on trips together. Others I still get to hire on occasion. The best you can hope for is that you meet a great provider/masseur and you get to see him regularly for more than a couple years. If more comes out if it... that's a huge bonus.

He’s not new, just a slight name change. I haven’t met him but he’s been around a while.

Uhm... I still see his ad listed for Baltimore in the Baltimore section. His ad also states he's currently in Baltimore.

Mike is awesome. We kiss pretty constantly almost from the moment I walk in the door. He's consistently a good time and always ready willing and able. One of my favorite things he did (and he wasn't even trying) was when I was on my way to meet him. He decided to wait for me outside. He was wearing a tight shirt and sport/work out shorts. My god he was looking so good with the tight compact muscle body of his in his sports gear. I was so eager to get him in the room.

I contacted him when his ad first appeared in Baltimore in September. When he asked for a picture of my driver's license to verify I was "real" I decided not to pursue. I might try again and see if it's still a requirement since he's been at this a few months now.

To answer your question... all the time. If i relied solely on input from this site, I would have missed a number of (imho) great unvetted providers. As people have mentioned sometimes the ad copy or the pre-meet interaction with the provider is enough to sell me on moving forward. People seem to forget or don't realize that even though this site is vastly informative, most people who hire don't know it exists. There is also not enough men (and women) on this site who are willing to participate in giving input on every new guy who shows up on Rentmen (or any other hiring site). Lastly, even when sometimes a provider is discussed here, there isn't much information given. So one could either wait and miss out or bite the bullet and take a chance. More often than not in those cases I will take a chance.

Why? He’s relatively new to the scene (ad was created about 2 weeks ago) and with a good portion of forum member’s reluctance to try new and unreviewed providers… you really shouldn’t be surprised.

Brady has a Twitter, onlyfans, and a rentmasseur ad. https://rentmasseur.com/BradyAllen

That's his massage rate(s), not his escort rate.

Over the years I've flown in a number of providers. A good portion of them were first time hires. (Now they are regulars.) I usually give the choice of either buying the tickets or reimbursing the money after they have bought the ticket. The caveat of buying the ticket for the provider, I usually must know their real name and birthday to book the flights. The vast majority of the guys I've flown in have been ok with me getting the tickets and knowing their personal info. Not everyone is ok with this though. They prefer to buy the ticket themselves. In this case, they'll usually show me a screenshot of the itinerary and want me to cash app them ahead of time or add the flight costs to their rate. Currently there is only one guy I bring in on occasion, who wants to buy his on tickets. Of all the times I brought someone in, only once was I screwed over and no showed by the provider after paying ahead of time for the flights.

I haven’t met this current iteration of him but the pictures are of porn actor Rowan/Sheridan/Gunner Cannon bulked up. I have met Rowan/Sheridan/Gunner Cannon few times years ago when he was being handled by planetjockboys. He returned last year using the name/ad of another PJB provider. Which makes me think PJB may still be functional on some level. Anyway It seems he has returned yet again even more muscular than he was last year.

I don't know if its the porn actor Gino Zanetti. I did buddy him on RM when he escorted out of Florida some time back. He stopped for a time and i guess he decided to return. The ad still shows up as favorited on my account.

I haven't met him but years ago he had an escort ad on MEN4RENTNOW out of Vegas. I never contacted him sadly. If he traveled I'd definitely hire him.

I tried to hire him but he canceled on me. We had a good conversation going about what I was into and he seemed eager to meet. Even made a sexually explicit suggestion about what he wanted me to do to him. I suggested two dates I was available. He couldn’t do the first time because he had a prior commitment but was available for the second. The night of the meeting he texted about an hour or two before, saying he’d be late. I said it was fine. Shortly afterwards he texted back saying how bad the trains were and by the time he got home, got prepared, and came to see me it would be super late… so he wouldn’t be coming at all. I told him I was disappointed in his decision but wished him a good night. He was polite at all times, but stuff like this (especially for a first time hire) turn me off. I don’t know if I’ll try to meet him in the future, I don’t care how sexy he is or polite.

Actually the train isn't that expensive if you book well in advance. Booking a few days prior to a trip, you're definitely paying higher rates. ADDENDUM: Also if you're booking now for a trip in the next few months, you're going to be paying more because October/November/December gets a lot of travel for holiday related events (ie. Halloween, Thanksgiving (Macy's Parade), and Christmas). The saver fares re pretty much gone. Booking now for some date after New Years will get you good to great prices for round trips.

The escort SB had set boundaries with which the SD agree with. He knew about the boyfriend and the job. It’s just that over time he wanted more. When the escort wouldn’t acquiesce, the SD just stopped communicating and any funding.

One of the guys I see on occasion had a sugar daddy. "Had: being the operative word. Basically the SD wanted more and more of the escort's time. Problem is the escort also had a day job and a boyfriend. He couldn't devote as much time to the SD as he wanted. The problem is when the sugar daddy is no longer into escort or bothered by the escorts choices... the relationship ends abruptly. So if you find a SD that is willing to start something with you, don't get dependent absolutely on the money he supplies.

Only one... although, I've met a few in the past I didn't know were members of this forum and I found out afterward. The guy I met through the forum has been awesome on all counts. 😘

I contacted him the first week his ad was up and never got a response.

I met him about 2 months ago. He is physically exactly as advertised and is a very nice guy. However, I'm probably not going to hire him again. He basically did nothing during our session. He did respond to certain things I did to him, but he made no effort to reciprocate in any way. The plan wasn't initially to do a massage but since he just literally stood there when we began, I figured I needed to do something to get me in the mood. He does give a great massage though. If.... and that's a big if, I hire him again, it will be for strictly massage. Again he's a nice guy. There just wasn't any chemistry or real effort (besides the massage) by him to engage in the session.

I met him earlier in the year. He is indeed a great kisser. He didn't seem to want to stop, even when it was time for us to part ways. Great at other things too. My only negative is he isn't the most responsive communicator. Or at least, hasn't been with me. i do plan to see him again. Maybe he gets better at it over time.

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This happened to me recently. It's hella annoying but as @dbar123 stated you probably dodged a bullet. You also saved money to use for another potential hire or some other expenditure. You can't control others' idiosyncrasies. Just move on and find someone better.

Is it inappropriate? i'd say, not necessarily, depending on the details shared. So when i first started this hobby, I never acknowledged to another provider i had hired another provider. As i got comfortable with guys who became my regulars, I might have discussed another provider, but in vague terms and never named names. I kind of made a rule to keep any discussions vague. Then i discovered providers had started to recommend me to other providers who visited my area. Talked about me at length even. This opened up a kind of a dialogue when one provider who knew or worked with another would ask about the other or share positive/negative info. I broke my rule. I shouldn't have. This lead to negative miscommunication between one provider to another about someone I mentioned I was potentially going to hire. In a nutshell, one of the guys I had seen for more than 10 years broke off communication with me, I believe, partially over inaccurate information. Maybe not solely because of that miscommunication, but it didn't help. Even when I told the guy (multiple times) what was said was inaccurate, he seemed to take offense to me not being grateful he shared or warned me against the potential hire. The morale of the story, if you feel you want to share info or have a discussion with a provider about another, keep it vague. The only time you need to maybe share more than vague info is if you plan a 3-way or something with more than one provider. Even then i would suggest keeping certain aspects out of the discussion. Lesson learned. I lost a solid provider who I'd know a very long time because of another I knew almost as long. I'm back to rarely speaking of a provider to another provider, even if I know they are friends or in some other type of relationship.

Also he isn't the first porn actor to put up an Rm ad out for feelers to see who is interested. I've contacted/met a few who put one out, never responded to contact through the ad, but I found other means to reach out to them.