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He started his profile a few days go and with you needing to be a premium member to post reviews... he might not get any for awhile. I also try to avoid people who list pnp but if you're truly interested I say go for it. Just be upfront about how you do not want to hire him high... that he must be sober and alert.

https://rent.men/Sir_peterreal

Well if you're rich 1K for anyone willing is nothing I suppose lol! However, I'm backtracking a little from a previous post, the one person I would pay 1k for I met already multiple times. If he came out of retirement, I'd be willing to part with 1k if it meant I got to play with Ashton from Sean Cody again.

I have never met him but @Ziya seems to fit the bill. He's a member of the forum and seems rather delightful with his interactions here. Ziya on Rent.Men RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men

Thank you. 😊 I understand your apprehension. And i agree for the most part. However, if you don't take a chance once in awhile... how would you ever know what the outcome is. Honestly, most of the guys I've done overnights with I never met before hand (because I brought them in from out of state). I can count on one hand the ones that didn't work out. Furthermore, most of them, I hadn't even spoken to directly, but did text back and forth before physically meeting. Again the vast majority worked out great. For the bedroom situation some of your worries can be rectified by having separate beds in the room. If you visit them at their house or (if they can afford it) book a hotel room with separate sleeping quarters. Well that is unless they request you must sleep with them. If your prospective client doesn't live in the middle of nowhere maybe you can travel to his city and work some time before or after the overnight. So if the overnight doesn't pan out the trip wouldn't be a totally loss. I get everything you said, but for me personally, if i didn't take a chance I would have missed out on some incredibly kind sexy people. Hell, I built such a rapport with some of these guys, that a select few are now lifelong friends. So I get it, but sometimes the risk is worth it.

Most of the providers I've hired are from other states. I usually bring them to me. Sometimes they visit the area I live in on their own accord or sometimes I visit their state. The furthest place I brought a provider in was from Argentina. What usually happens if I'm interested in someone from another state is I contact them; introduce myself; tell them what i'm in to; ask their rates for an overnight or weekend; and give a description about myself. If they show interest, I'll give them some meet-up dates and offer to cover travel costs. If we've built a level trust that they'll tell me their real names/info I'll buy their tickets, or offer to reimburse them once they arrive. The vast majority were ok with me buying their tickets. As I mentioned in another forum topic, to me this is my idea of a guaranteed deposit of my seriousness in hiring them. Otherwise, I don't do deposits. Sometimes, we discuss expectations before we meet... sometimes the day we meet. Things like, do they need alone time for working out, personal business, etc. I also will sometimes discuss what interests them outside the bedroom. If they stay with me for more than overnight, having things lined up outside the bedroom (i.e. movies, plays, museums, etc.) is always good. On occasion, i've met providers who would prefer to stay in the hotel room almost the entire time together and just fuck. I'm getting old... I can't do that anymore. LOL! In general, if we're together for extended periods, I feel I'm responsible for travel costs (if they specifically come in to see me); cost of food; and extracurricular activities. For the provider, I expect them to delivery upon whatever we agree upon before the meet up. I know they are only human. So if things don't click, I understand that. I try my best to make the visit as enjoyable for them as possible. I don't try to plan everything... a little spontaneity is always fun. Above all, make sure you discuss specifics and expectations before hand. If the client doesn't treat you like a human being... get the hell out of there asap. In turn, don't treat the client like a walking cash register. Well, unless that's what he's into.

He was talked about... or at the very least asked about before. He was using another name previously.

Damn. I've been tracking his ad for months (after I found out he escorted)... hoping he'd come near my area. Wouldn't you know it, he'll be in NYC the day I leave. 😪 Honestly, I think Lobo's husband is better looking, but I find Lobo way way hotter. He's the one I want. I'd never turn either away. LOL!

KC the guy with multiple pictures in this post started his ad a little over a year ago. I started the post. Anyway, I contacted him back then to find out his rates... which were rather high. So I didn't meet him.

He was in DC a few months back. he was using the name Onyx. He also is or was the boyfriend of Brock Banks. I have never met him.

I think people fail to realize RM has changed how they allow reviews. You have to be a paid premium member to leave them. So that fact alone will decrease the amount of reviews any provider will get. There is a guy I met last year who has been an absolutely outstanding hire for me. He has no reviews. I offered to leave him a review on RM. Of course he still has no reviews because I am not a premium member. I don't think it's fishy. I just think most people who use the site aren't premium members... so they can't leave reviews.

This is really dependent on the individual provider. You have to remember this hobby is unregulated industry. Some guys require a minimum amount of time... others don't. I won't say many do. During my time hiring (closing in on 15 years), only one guy has ever asked for a minimum of 2 hours of outcall time to meet. This was a guy I saw in Vegas some years back, who came to my hotel.

If an escort doesn't respond after multiple attempts... it's probably best to move on. There are more reliable providers willing to respond and meet imho.

Since the pandemic began (within the last year or so) I have met 3 new providers from rentmen and one from its sister site rentmasseur. All have been successful. Two have become regulars. Well one was a regular until he decided to go on a hiatus. In any case, it’s been a good source me even during the pandemic.

Contrary to what a previous poster said, Peter Latz has never bottomed or topped in porn. The closest he did to having sex on film was wrestling/muscle worship with various bodybuilders and the guy from the smokinghunks site. I’m met Peter a few times more than 10 years ago. He was always kind and very talkative. I met him mostly for muscle worship. As far as I know he is not a bottom (he wasn’t when I met him). Not to say he didn’t bottom for people but I definitely don’t think he’s a power bottom but things can change.

His ad has been frozen since 2020 DylanJames on Rent.Men RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men

In an image search, the only thing that pops up is an image titled… Beachwilljimenez. If you do a Google search of that name it leads to a Facebook profile and a MySpace profile. So I’m guessing that pic you supplied is relatively old. Those social media profiles indicate he did some modeling but I can’t find any evidence he did porn.

He’s not currently based in Seattle but Washington DC, despite his ad name.

I wanted to hire him but scheduling never worked out. He used to be based out of Georgia (I think). It definitely was an east coast southern state. When I finally found out he was escorting I contacted him. He was on the verge of about to move to the west coast. I didn't have time to book him before he was to move. Shortly after his move he retired from porn and his ad vanished. Maybe a year or 2 later he returned based out of Vegas. I contacted him again about arranging something. It never worked out. Then the pandemic hit and eventually he let his ad expire. I still have his number on my phone. Sometimes I get the urge to text him and see if he's still available. However since his twitter page and onlyfans have gone dormant, I figured I'd leave him alone. He was very cordial. He's one of the guys I regret not seeing.

Moderators... If this is to too much a review, please delete it. I met him last year, maybe about a month before a bodybuilding contest he was gearing up for. Physically, his body was amazing. Although he is handsome, his face didn't exactly look like his ad pics. I know a few bodybuilders. So I chalk that up to the strain of cutting water and training hard gearing up for the competition. It can really make someone look much older/drained. In any case, the meeting was ok. I was more into the session for sure. I think he was trying to rush me a bit but wasn't as obvious as Jared in NYC was to me. He bottomed. As soon as the deed was done, maybe 30 minutes in, it wasn't long before I was ready to go again. I have a quick refractory period. He wasn't having it. He wasn't mean or anything but he just seemed really uninterested at that point and got up... went the bathroom... and then went to start drinking protein. So I began to dress and talked to him a bit about his competition and training. I then left. All told the meeting may have been a little over 40 mins. I'm tempted to see him again. If I do, it'll be after he's done a competition or isn't in the process for training for one.

In a word... no. Do I like having regulars? Absolutely! However, those regulars (no matter how outstanding they are) I only see when and if they come into my area. If I stuck to just 1 or 2, I'd only seem them probably once or no times a year. There are 2 providers I see who come to my area multiple times and I'll see them when I can but I can't always with my work schedule and business/personal travel. So I try to keep regulars to a small number but it's probably always going to be more than just 1 or 2. Similarly to what Pensant stated, one of the regulars I see multiple times a year we've gotten extremely close. We do on the clock and off the clock adventures (sexual and non-sexual), when we can. Even with all that, I still on occasion try out new people.

Well, he states his name in the ad and has a link to his twitter. Most fakes don't link to the twitter pages to the guy they are mimicking. That makes me think it isn't, but who knows... you could be right?

I believe there was mention some months back that Nick German had returned to escorting. Well I guess now it's official. He has a RM ad up. xfactormuscle on Rent.Men RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men

Yes... Mostly. I say mostly because sometimes they'll advertise someone is going to be at a particular show and that guy just doesn't show up. Sometimes people show up who weren't advertised.

I know you were. It doesn't change my point about adding/feeding into the negative political discourse, especially when the owners/moderators ask us not to. You don't have to respond to it. You know who you are... you know your beliefs. Adding to the rancor isn't going to change anyone's mind. This applies to everyone, not just you.