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I haven't met him in person, but long ago before I got into this hobby, Rex (not the name he used back then) did webcam and sold videos. I was in contact with him and bought videos (VHS) of him. There were vids of him stroking and having sex with women. I do recall him being aggressive and vocal in the vids. He was very personable in his responses as we communicated back and forth to determine what I would be buying. He called me sweetie a lot. 😁 He is at the very least bisexual. That's all I got.

Uhm... he's holding a dildo next to his actual dick. Not everything is AI. 😁

He’s porn actor Elijah Wilde. He has been on rentmen and rentmasseur off and on. I haven’t met him but I want to. He tends to change his ad name when he returns to the sites. I haven’t looked into if he’s been discussed previously on the forum.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/170914-friendboy-back-in-business-as-friendboypro/#comment-2646713

I had haven't had a bad experience dealing with someone with poppers but I had a scary experience with someone who was cracked out. I talked about the the experience on the forum before. I was relatively new to hiring. He recently started to advertise again. 😱 He didn't stop breathing but after freaking out, crying, blocking me from leaving he went unconscious and was breathing very shallowly. I didn't know what to do. I figured if I left and he died I'd be in huge trouble. So I decided to stay with him until he went through it and to make sure he survived.

Although I have not met Dex in person, the fact that he includes his socials in his ad more than likely means he’s real. Otherwise, why would an imposter want to have a direct contact to the real person to verify if the account is real or not?

I have neither, but the 2nd guy had an escorting ad recently under the moniker Snakecharrmer on RM, but it appears he took it down. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/170962-411-snakecharrmer-in-nyc/#comment-2647636

If you read the posts above, he doesn't currently have a link to a RM ad and is advertising only through the forum.

I have not met him, but I can tell you he did porn (mainly for Lucas Entertainment) under the name Ben Bateman. The tattoo on his neck is a dead giveaway. Well besides the similar name. 😁

Occasionally I'll meet a provider who says they are a certain height but are off by an inch or so. ...nothing drastic. Because I'm above average height most guys I meet tend to be somewhat shorter. It's rarer for me to find someone taller than me. Currently, only one of my regulars is taller than me by an inch. With that said, height has not one iota of influence on me when selecting someone to hire/see. So if they are shorter than me and they state they're my same height... I notice, but it doesn't change anything.

His number appears in the rent.men version of the site. https://rent.men/Gearboy

To be honest, a lot of those influencers aren't making as much as they claim or flaunt. Also the fitness/bodybuilding industry/lifestyle is expensive. You would be surprised what some may do for a sponsor. 😁 If you see someone you like and he clearly shows signs of being gay or bi.. reach out discreetly and ask. The worse that that can happen is they tell you no... not interested. There are a good number of posts on the forum about reaching out to guys on social media if you do a search.

Constant name changer. I can't keep up but he's been asked about many times on the forum under whatever number of previous names.

One word of advice, if a provider doesn’t link his ad to his socials, don’t tell him you found his socials searching to verify if he’s real. That comes across as creepy/stalker-like behavior. Yes, you’re doing your due diligence to make sure you aren’t being scammed. However, to anyone not actively promoting their social accounts what you did is invasive. Most don’t like it and will get turned off real quick. Providers don’t need to know you Sherlock Holmes’d their info. It’s an unnecessary admission from a potential new hire/client. Now if you knew the guy well, and it came up in conversation to let them know their socials are easy to find… they may take it differently.

He is porn actor John Bronco.

Well all the images where his face is blurred are nudes. Maybe he feels it gives him some control/protection if an employer or someone else stumbles across the images. I mean in his case, he has easily identifiable tats in the non-nudes, so it wouldn’t be a good reason to claim the nudes aren’t him.

Oral… I’m ok without it in a session. Although I do love it, especially if the guy is good at it. However, kissing is my trigger. So much so that if I continue to kiss during/shortly after orgasm I’ll stay erect or get hard again fairly quickly. Deep passionate kisses at the right time could keep me going for hours if the provider is so inclined. Nothing is absolute and I have been in sessions without kissing and still enjoyed my time. With kissing though I’m usually over the moon.

Sadly, no. Well... at least not yet. I don't get to his area often. I see him at most only a few times a year. I hope so too. 😁 I really don't know if it will. Again he seemed super horny that night and he never went as far as he did in previous encounters. I'm not assuming that particular session will become the norm or go even further. I guess I'll find out whenever I visit him again.

I’ve only met 3 and a half masseurs in NYC. 😀 The half being one guy is based out of New Jersey but travels to NY for sessions. They all had nice butts. However, the king in that department has to go to HotHandsNYC. He told me he used to be a gymnast during his college days… it shows. lol!

As has been mentioned, some will… some won’t. Some will say they will, but won’t. Some say they don’t, but do. If you’re into kissing the best you can do is find a provider that says in their ad copy that they love kissing and also list it in their intos. If there is a guy you’re interested in, check and see if he’s mentioned on this site. DM a poster for details if they said they’ve met. You can ask upfront, but just because you ask, it doesn’t mean they’ll do it once you actually meet. Some guys will say they will just to get you in the door and bank on you won’t leave once you’re there. Some may decide to kiss only in the moment (in the heat of passion, only greeting you or saying goodbye, or once they see what you look like) even though they say they are into it from the get go. There are communicable diseases from kissing. I couldn’t tell you what the transmission rates are. Personally I never have had an issue. The other issue may be the guy just isn’t a great kisser even if he claims to be. And yes, bad breath can be an issue. Although honestly, I haven’t met a provider who kissed me with bad breath. I’ve met a lot of great kissers over the years. A number were just ok… with a sprinkling of bad ones. One of the most recent best kissers was with a masseur. I wrote about it here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/170106-your-experience/#comment-2631376

The Viktor York discussed in the forum post is not the same guy you sent me a link to via DM. The Viktor discussed, as far as I can tell, has not yet returned.

I don’t know about his massage skills but he’s a known quantity. He did porn and escorted under the name Ricky Dexcker. He retired some time ago from both and returned this year under a new name.

Knowing some providers for years I can tell you why some of them changed names or numbers. A few changed their names because other providers had similar ones. Some of them changed their names because they got into porn and started using their porn monikers. Also some did the opposite and changed their rm name after leaving porn. One guy changed his name and stopped using his face in the ad because he was being harassed. He also changed his number to a Google one from his direct number. Which leads me to number changes. There are few who started using their direct numbers and for various reasons started using an app one or burner number because of harassment, to separate one business line from another. In the heyday of escort agencies, a few of the guys never used a direct number and once they left the agency or met a client regularly they’d give their clients their direct number to cut out the middleman. One guy I know had his phone stolen and hacked. He thought it better to get a new number with his new phone. On the flip side to all this, one of the guys I’ve seen for a very long time has never changed his number and I really wish he would’ve. I understand why he doesn’t but still… He hasn’t advertised more than a decade. He’s semi-retired and is very selective about seeing new people. However his direct number is on many sites. Some of his regulars have even posted his number without asking if he wanted it reposted after not intentionally posting it for years. He gets called constantly but only responds if he knows the person/number or it’s a number referred to him by one of his regulars. On occasion, he’ll answer one of the random callers and ask how they got the number. If the answer is something he doesn’t want to hear, he won’t respond to that person again. The shear volume of calls I assume must be maddening, especially if you’re not advertising to a wider audience.

You might not get any or maybe not enough varied feedback to make an informed decision. He’s simply to new. If I lived closer I’d hire him but until that time you or someone else on the forum will need to roll the dice.

https://rent.men/Coltongrey His ad is expired but he appears to have been online as recently as 2 days ago.