big-n-tall

It depends on a number of factors... for me anyway. If it’s a new hire, I’m usually done after the second delay. That said, I’ve had providers cancel for all kinds of reasons—some understandable, some less so. For example, one provider I was planning to see for the first time kept pushing our meeting later and later. Eventually, he admitted he was having stomach issues and couldn’t properly prepare. He offered to reschedule while he was still in town, but I declined. I appreciated the honesty, though the confession definitely killed the mood for me. If it’s someone I’ve seen before and already have a strong connection with, I’m much more flexible. One masseur I have great chemistry with went completely silent the day before and the morning of a planned overnight despite several attempts to reach him. I was just about ready to cancel when he finally responded. It turned out he’d had a medical emergency and had spent the night in the hospital. He even sent photos of his massively swollen arm from some random reaction he had. He admitted he’d been hesitant to respond because he knew I’d be disappointed, and he was still willing to try to make the trip. I told him I was disappointed only because I’d really been looking forward to seeing him, but that I’d much rather he stay home and recover. There would be other opportunities for us to meet.

You best shot is to either contact him through social media or on occasion he dances for Adonis, to meet him there and ask. Mind you I have no idea if he has social media.

I thought of another one… not strange. but definitely something I didn’t expect. A provider (well known around these parts) asked to film him sucking my dick for his fan’s page. He wasn’t going to film my entire body. He just wanted to film with a focus on his head and him sucking. I declined, but I did film a short sequence of just him for his site.

I haven't tried to contact him but looking at his ad he was last online 5 days ago.

Chris Rockway is opened to be hired for "muscle worship, etc." I think he was available through an agent eons ago. https://rent.men/Chris_Rockway

Link?

Very good. Met with him last year for one.

https://rent.men/DznNYC I don’t always get to see him when I go to New York but Damian is one of the best. he’s also a member of the forum.

This masseur is using the pics of porn actor Ian Greene. Who escorts out of Pennsylvania. https://rent.men/Iangreene

Some of my regulars I’ve known 15 or more years. Sadly they don’t travel as often as they used to. Some never traveled at all outside a given area and I have to travel to see them. Others have retired altogether… although a select few i still have the honor of seeing platonically. An even smaller selection of that number, I still see as providers. So I could leave the status quo as is and travel more to see them… or just expand the roster as you say.

A little bit of column A and a little bit of column B. Mostly I stick with regulars and on occasion try someone new. However as my pool of regulars shrink for various reasons, I tend to look for new people to become regulars.

He does not specify if he’s doing incall or outcall in his ad copy. Since he hasn’t actually responded to my inquiry I can’t which he’s doing.

It’s in reference to imagery from the 2017 movie “It.” One of the characters has loser written on his cast and he writes the v over the s. Maybe the book, imagery, or significance of the scene means something important to the provider. Maybe you should ask him about it. 😜

When I saw he was in the area, I reached out to him. I introduced myself. I inquired about his rates for 90 min sensual/erotic incall session and if he did longer? I gave a time for the 17th (the day his ad appeared in DC) and one for the 18th. I wasn't sure if he was actually in town yet... so I gave the second day/time as a backup. I got no response. Well I did but hours later. He just hearted my message in response. No actual text message response about anything I asked. Not even to say he was busy or not. I then responded back saying if he couldn't do an incall, I could book a hotel for the session. Never heard back from him other than him loving emoji my initial message. He may be a great guy and masseur, but that was kind of weird. So I think I won't make any further attempts to see him.

When you do a search for providers (if you're using rentmen) in your area be sure to look for ones that have "bears" in their intos. Also read the ad copy carefully. Some guys will specifically state they are into bigger men.

He can be messaged through the rent.men version of the site.

Are you looking at the ad copy or just the pictures? Lol 😝 He lists as versatile. If you look at his intos you’ll see he’s probably into the basics in an encounter and nothing extreme, but you’re going to have to ask to be certain if you want something more on the kinky side. Lastly communicate with him about his rates especially for overnights. I’ve met with Jacob many times and he has always been a pleasure.

He does mainstream porn under the name Troy the Stallion, if you want to google for vids and more info.

I would say the fact he has links to all his socials in his ad is a good indication it’s the real Roman Todd. Someone using his pics wouldn’t want to draw attention to the guy he’s stealing pics from.

I think any provider who shows genuine interest in getting to know what turns me on is one of the most appealing things a provider can do for me. A provider I met through this site, he and I talked extensively about what I was into well before we met. In turn, I asked him what turned him on. I like the guys I meet to have fun too. He and I hit it off and I see him whenever I can. Oh and although I’m not the most pda prone person, random displays of affection that don’t seem stunted, also is a bonus for me. I was doing an overnight with a relatively new regular. We went to dinner to one of my favorite seafood spots. He told me loved seafood so we went. While dining at the bar, I said something to him in passing, that I guess made him feel good. He then randomly kissed me on the cheek in front of god knows how many people. Smiled ear to ear and thanked me for what I said. I was a bit shocked but it actually made me feel special. No provider has ever did that to me in such a public environment before or since. In terms of a massage session, if any masseur pays attention to my feet and more particularly my head ears and neck, besides the usual spots… I’m all in. Of the masseurs I’ve seen 6 of them do this the most. Five have became/are regulars and one I met winter of last year in Florida. The Florida guy definitely would be a regular too if he and I lived closer together. However, like @DMonDude described, one of the 5 regular masseurs (now seemingly retired, sadly) made me feel like he wanted me as much as I wanted him. Like we never just had a massage session finish before it got very erotic. He would get aroused immediately and when I got aroused it seemed to make him even hornier. We’d end up in his bed multiple times every session. God I miss him. 😜🥰

Since no one is actually answering your inquiry... I haven't seen him in years. He is great fun when you can catch him. It looks like he put on a bit more muscle judging by some of the more recent pics. A lot of the times I visited his area he was going to or at Fire Island. So I'd miss him. Also he sometimes takes his ad down for long stretches. My one negative is he's slow to respond at times. However, my god that guy was so sexy and responsive when we met. ...very playful. After our time was up, he decided to stay and chat a bit... which as he was standing there dressing in his black jock dressing I wanted to take him again... again... again. I know my meet up wasn't recent but I've tried to meet him again for years. That's how much of good time both of us seem to be having.

Dude!!! Just reach out already. 😀 Clearly no one has met the guy on the forum or at the very least isn’t willing to talk about it. i understand hesitation but at some point you’re gonna have to buck up and make a choice to see him or not. Bumping it up won’t make others respond to you any faster.

He has sensual listed in the profile under Massage Types.

https://rent.men/FinnyMinnie Is this the correct ad?

Honestly, I’ve been on this forum for a long time, and I’ve seen providers come and go. As others have pointed out, there doesn’t seem to be much long-term benefit for providers to stay active here. It might help as an initial introduction, but over time, the ones I know say it doesn’t generate enough business to justify the effort. On top of that, they often have to deal with negativity, false claims, and personal attacks. Some criticism is fair, but a lot of it isn’t—and providers are often criticized simply for having opinions. I’ve gotten to know several providers who either stopped posting or chose never to participate at all because of the misinformation spread by certain users. In some cases, posters seem to confuse one provider for another; in others, they’re just stirring trouble—or even behaving in ways that come across as obsessive or harassing. Because of this, many providers choose not to engage. Even a small issue can spiral into pages of negative discussion, which can ultimately hurt their business. So from their perspective, it’s often not worth the risk. There are times when I step in to correct something I know isn’t true, but sometimes providers themselves ask me not to engage, preferring not to draw more attention to it. Another factor is that this forum is just a small part of a much larger ecosystem. It’s not widely used across the broader client/provider community, so its overall impact is limited. That said, I do appreciate the providers who continue to participate and engage here. Still, I don’t expect their numbers to grow significantly. It’s also worth noting that some providers may be present without openly identifying themselves—they might read posts or contribute anonymously—so the actual number could be higher than it appears, even if it’s still relatively small.