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He stopped escorting I think before this site changed hands, but I'm certain there was positive talk about him on Daddy's both the forum and review page.

He never went anywhere. lol! He comes to DC regularly.

Well if you haven't met and the guy is paranoid... maybe he thinks you could be a cop. He could be afraid telling you rate might incriminate him. I have had providers not give me a rate after multiple times. It's rare, but it has happened. Either, I keep asking until they do or move on.

From my understanding ed drugs just don't make you hard after you take them. You have to be aroused. So if you take them and are nervous... they still won't make you hard. The anxiety will still kill your erection no matter how many mgs you take. Also maybe viagra doesn't work for you. Maybe try one of the other ed pills and see if they work. But again if you're nervous/anxious ed pills will fail you still. Something like trimix (injection into the penis) will make you hard without arousal. However, it has potentially dangerous side effects. Well I guess ed drugs do to.

Do a search on the forum. He’s been talked about favorably on the forum… including by me.

He was as nice as can be in person. After out first meet up, he took pics with me. I was always interested in him since the first time I saw him on the site Circle Jerk Boys. He went by Sebastian then. He didn't start escorting until years later after, during his Staghomme site years. So he was fairly ripped the two times I saw him. Both times were for 2 hour sessions. We were planning a 3rd meet up (an overnight or weekend), but our schedules never synched. He was an amazing kisser and loved giving head. He was very vocal too. Love hearing that raspy voice of his grunt and moan. One of the sexiest things he said to me... "I love cum" in that raspy voice. Fun times. I'd rehire him in a heartbeat if he decided to escort again.

Do you often chat out of “business” hours? Some providers do... most don't. Personally, there are some providers I've known closing on 15 years and we've built a strong rapport. So we talk/text rather frequently. There are a few I've met relatively recently and we just clicked. The providers I have a connection with will occasionally see how I'm doing or I'll see how they are doing. I don't expect immediate responses. People get busy, but they usually respond eventually, if not immediately. Sometimes we'll talk on the phone about random things. Do you do any other non sexual activities together? The vast majority of the ones I have some type of comradery with, I'd say we don't. That's mainly because they live in other states or the are visiting for work... so they just don't have the time. However, we do "non sexual activities" during overnights or longer, of course. There is a small number I say the relationship is just as much a friendship as business. Those select few, we do of the clock nonsexual advertures frequently (even if I don't hire them during their work trip). With all this said, try not to force something other then the client/provider relationship. If a friendship blooms naturally... then awesome. If it doesn't, relish the time spent in the bedroom, even if its purely transactional.

Do I have to pick just one? In no particular order... (another vote for) KristianLA, AJ Irons, D.O., Damien Crosse, Dante Saints, Max Gianni, and Cristobal (from the dawgpondusa site)

They may be actually busy, but most I think prefer text over actual calls. Have you tried texting your inquiries?

He was available previously many years ago through the planetjockboys site. I never attempted to hire him back then.

A lot of hotels nowadays, you don't have to actually check out. Some chains will allow you to do it via the hotel's app. While others you literally don't have to physically check out the next day. For the app check out, you could be at home to do it the next day. Honestly, I don't think checking out is a requirement any more. Well at least for chain hotels.

To me it means that the guy prefers to top but isn't adverse to bottoming. What will get him to bottom... is up to the provider to tell you. You really need to talk to him and not speculate or ask the forum something only he could tell you. The forum is a great tool, but it can't answer every question or speculation about a particular provider and his choices.

He also dances for Adonis Lounge L.A. from time to time.

Over the years a number of providers (I have gotten to know very well) have said some of the sweetest things to me. Many times in a non-client/provider setting. One of the newer guys I hired (I've met only twice... for an overnight and a weekend) said something that had taken me aback a bit. He is an incredibly kind, sweet, affectionate man. We were in talks to have another weekend late last year. Because of circumstances, I, sadly couldn't commit to a date and meet. I let him know we'd have to postpone to a later date this year. Not long after, he texted me out of the blue asking if I was ok. He also asked if I was upset at him for some reason. I said no and assured him he has been nothing but sweet and accommodating to me in every interaction we ever had. I guess because I couldn't solidify the date he assumed something was wrong and it was something he'd done. I let him know it was me and not him him. This is when he made the comment that I was one of the very few people who treated him like a human being since he started escorting. That broke my heart. He went on to say he didn't want to ever lose me as a client because of how well I treated him. I told him he didn't have to worry. As long as I am able to hire him I would. He gave me a response (which I won't repeat here) that definitely has endeared me to him. I'm eager to see him again. In the past, I have heard horror stories about various things from providers. Specifically on how people who pay for their services, more often than not treat them as less than. So I wasn't surprised this provider was treated poorly by some, but it definitely always saddens me to hear. I never expected him to tell me he didn't want to lose me as a client the way he did.

There are is always a regular addition to my ever growing list of porn actors I wish would escort. The most recent guy is Siren Santiago. He is so insatiable in his porn work. Sexy little pocket muscle bottom... I wants him!!! He does have a RM ad and he's checked it a few times, but he hasn't activated it, yet. Sadly, a number of guys have done this (like Brody Foxx)... have a ad but not active.

His forum handle has links to his erotic photo gallery for various photographers. His pictures are all over this site in various posts and forum galleries. @DamizzonNYC https://gaybodyblog.com/tag/damian-effler/

He dances regularly for Adonis Lounge. A number of their dancers have been popping up on RM relatively recently. That's all I got.

Yes. He’s a great guy. Very fun to be around personally and professionally. He’s very giving of his body. He’s also a member of the forum if you want to ask him something directly.

Welcome to the forum!!! Anyone had experience to travel with providers/clients? Yes, I have. You will probably get some variation in responses on this... but some believe you should have met with the provider beforehand for compatibility (temperament-wise and sexually). Also that you should aim for someone who is well reviewed here and other venues (i.e. Rentmen). Personally, I don't necessarily follow this train of thought, but that's another discussion (Search this site for overnight topics). Of the guys I have travelled with, I have at least seen them for some extended period beforehand. I've gotten to know them well enough that I think traveling some place with them wouldn't be an issue. I want the trip to be something we're both interested in. I wouldn't want to go somewhere then realize we can't stand each other or are bored witless. If we seem to enjoy each other, not just in the bedroom, I'll feel at ease going anywhere with the provider. Also consider that some guys require alone time (for personal business, working out, etc.) for part of the day and some don't. The provider I've seen most, he and I go almost yearly on an 8 day trip. Because we are extremely compatible (enjoy a lot of the same things in and outside the bedroom) he asks for a relatively low rate for the entire time. He'll even buy his own food sometimes and other things to keep overall costs lower on my end. Discuss with the provider your thoughts on what you have planned. Just because you like something like opera, doesn't mean the provider will enjoy it. You may be paying the guy for his time, but if he doesn't think he'll enjoy himself... he just might not go. And what is a reasonable price for that? An overnight session is counted as 12 hours. Should I expect to double the overnight price as daily price? Or should be more considering it’s out of town? Or should be less because I afford all his travel cost and he also benefits from free travel as long as the destination is attractive? This is where communication with the provider is necessary. You need to discuss his rate and what are the expectations with the trip. Each provider prices their time as they see fit. There are some guys who charge a huge rate for overnights or longer because it is a huge disruption to their normal schedule. They want to be sure they are properly compensated. Some guys may charge a lower rate because they enjoy the trips or enjoy the person. Don't try to speculate what the rate is. You may be able to get a lower rate per day if you talk it out, but don't assume it's a given. Communication also applies to the hours. Most of my overnights have been 12 hours or more. I have seen providers say on this forum and other forums that they consider 6-8 hrs an overnight. So discuss with your potential provider their rate for overnights or multi-days. You might want to also ask how many hours they consider an overnight. Some guys will do a sliding scale or charge a cheaper rates for certain lengths of time or types of trips (i.e. cruises or trips abroad). Just for an overnight, I have met guys who have non-trip rates that ranged from 600 up to 1500. One guy I met a few years ago has a specific rate for my time with him. For an overnight, his rate is 1000... a weekend (whenever Friday to whenever Sunday), his rate is 2500... for 3 days, he only asked for 500 more (3000). We are planning a trip for 4 days this year. I was expecting to pony up 4k for 4 days, but nope... he asked for 500 more than his 3 day rate. We have a lot of fun together so overnights (and longer) with him have been a full 24 hrs a day or very nearly so. Generally their rate doesn't include traveling and food costs. You'll have to add that to your overall costs. In addition, some guys are ok if you buy their tickets for them ahead of time, but some aren't. They'll prefer if you send them the cost of the ticket. This has more to do with their comfortability given out their personal info so you can get their ticket. Most of the guys I've hired and had to pay for travel were fine with disclosing personal info. I don't know if that's the norm. The key, again, is don't assume what a providers rate is based on your assumptions. Talk to him.

My area gets traveling providers, but not many I want to hire. So I started doing overnights because guys I was most interested in were located in other states. Many would not come to my area and I wasn't going to fly/train to an area for just a couple hours of meet up time. As I got more comfortable with hiring, I started hiring for overnights (or longer), either bringing someone in or going to them. On a side note, I know people say don't hire someone for a overnight you have not met prior. However the majority of my overnights have been with guys I had not met. Most of these worked out for me. I can count on one hand the ones that didn't. I guess I have a good meter for selecting compatible providers. Anyway... an overnight or longer is what you make it. Meaning it's not just limited to sex and sleeping. If you have a mutual interest or either of you are visiting a new area, it can be fun to explore together. The experience also can be different with each provider because some providers are more sexual and some are one and done (take a long time to recuperate). Once I started doing overnights, I really started to enjoy the connections developed... the time to explore each other more and not feel rushed. A number of guys I have seen for overnights want to literally hole up in a hotel room and have sex as much as possible. Some like to be more of boyfriend experience and cuddle a lot, go to a nice dinner, etc. Before you set an overnight up the key is communication. There should be no assumptions between the two of you.

It still exists but from my understanding it just isn't as popular as it used to be.

I haven't met him but he used to have his face pics in the ad. He is very good looking for what it's worth. He used also list as a bottom.

No experiences but looking through the Miami listings here are some guys who have done porn and have a fans account... https://rent.men/MiguelRey https://rent.men/Andymartinezz https://rent.men/Guzdoes https://rent.men/Damianxnight https://rent.men/AaronTrainer https://rent.men/RileyMitchel https://rent.men/BrendonCage https://rent.men/Aidentyler https://rent.men/RodrigoXLMiami (goes by Javao in porn) https://rent.men/Ajbkackwood https://rent.men/ScottDemarco

A few things... usually when they touch or rub around my lower back... can set me off. Also if they start rubbing their faces against mine. The other thing that not everybody does, is when they use their whole body to massage me... gliding from the top down and I can feel their dick slide between my ass cheeks as they slide down. One guy drives me nuts just by a look. Usually when I'm already aroused and he would flip me over, he'd get this glimmer in his eye, smile devilishly, growl, and start touching my erection. Soon as he does this if he wasn't already erect, it usually made him hard instantly. A shame he is retired/on hiatus.

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