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Does anyone have any info about Gianni? He's so sexy to me. Does he do erotic massage? If so, how interactive is he? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44528/ I searched the forum and the only Gianni in LA talked about isn't the same guy.

I think he's just using Rentmen as an additional way to reach the masses to his massage services. If you read that contents of his ad, it's definitely for massage services over escorting. He's advertising just a erotic massage on both sites. I wish he were a full service escort because his body is beautiful from head to toe. He's genuinely a sweet guy, with me anyway.

I have met him a good number of times. Great guy. However, unless he changed his mind since the last time I saw him, he doesn't top or bottom. He's mainly available for massage. At one point he even had in his RM ad that he doesn't provide penetration of any kind. He is now offering 4 hand massage with his boyfriend. That's new. He offered a meet up with him and his boyfriend, but I won't be in town when he's in my area. ADDENDUM He still has the "no penetration" statement in his Rentmen ad. I swear it wasn't there earlier, but it's back.

Mike Gaite isn't retired and still has an ad up. Mind you he travels a lot but he doesn't appear to be retiring any time soon judging by his schedule.

He was available at some point through the defunct planetjockboys agency. I kick myself for not meeting him when I had the chance. Such is life.

Alec Andrew Andrew Irons Ashton (from Sean Cody) Johnny Ryder Each I would readily see again without hesitation. There are a few more who have retired I have not put on the list, but only because I am lucky enough to still see them on occasion.

I met him a few times years ago and had a good time each time. He's not the deepest kisser but he seemed to be enjoying himself during the sessions. So, I was kind of excited at the possibility of seeing him again. About a month ago, I reached out to set something up. The day we were supposed to meet crickets. Shortly after, his ad expired. So when his ad re-appeared recently, I asked him what happened. He claimed his phone was stolen and apologized for not getting back to me. The number he has associated with ad currently is different then the one he gave me in October. So maybe he's telling the truth. I don't know if I'll try to meet up with him again.

Thanks for the encouragement, but nah! I've been burned giving someone a second chance who stood me up after ghosting me. He didn't even bother to come up with a lame excuse. So, I'll just admire him from afar and leave it at that. There are plenty of masseurs and providers who stick to their word/commitment. I am glad you had a good time with him. In my hiring career, I realized some people just aren't for everybody.

He flaked on me when I tried to see him last July. He seemed up for the massage session but come the day of the massage... crickets. He wouldn't even respond to my text inquiring about the nonresponse. Shame because I think he's handsome and incredibly sexy. Oh well.

Brian Strowkes is awesome. Really nice guy.

I think the backlash against friendboy was because people on the forum, including some escorts, found some of what they were doing deceptive (i.e. going to rentmen and copying ads to post on their site without informing the escort... some of the info copied seem to be incorrect as compared to the original rm ad). Made worse by the representative from friendboy (who became a forum member to gauge what people wanted in the site) being very combative with people about what was perceived as deceptive. What was the mintboy backlash about? I don't recall reading about it. The only problem I see with mintboys is they seem to have a lot of outdated ads. They need to do a better job of cleaning house and making sure the ads are current/active. My problem with both sites are the same... they need to do better with cleaning out defunct ads and ensuring what they have is current/active. I've never met anyone off of friendboy. (It was not for the lack of trying). Of the few people I've contacted on mintboys, only one responded and we met. Rentmen is clearly not perfect but it's rare someone I reach out to doesn't respond. I pretty much know what ads are active or not.

No. He is retired. I text him few times a year to see how he's doing. He is happy being retired, for now anyway.

First and foremost as useful as this forum is it's a small fish in a big pond. Not every provider masseur or client knows it exists. Of those that do, it's probably a relative small number of those that hire. So just because someone has a lot of reviews on RM doesn't mean anyone here has met the guy. Secondly, there are a lot of lurkers on this forum who don't post for whatever reason. They just don't feel comfortable possibly speaking up about someone being asked about on the forum. Also some of the members can get overzealous in the defense of an escort and may make potential commentators fearful of, well... commenting. Thirdly, some escorts actively try to keep from getting reviews. They'll ask clients to not make comments or reviews for any number of reasons. There is no prohibited list or at least not one I'm aware of on this forum. Ultimately some guys will just fall through the cracks even if they seem popular on RM.

If the guy isn’t responding to you, then there is reason for the non-response. If he’s not responding to you and you mail him a letter... do you honestly think it will make think, “oh this guy is awesome.” If you do, you are, sad to say, delusional. Honestly, this letter you’d send him will either piss him off severely or make him fearful of meeting any new people in the future. It might even make him stop seeing his regulars entirely as he withdraws for safety. So just don’t. The only solution you are afforded is to watch his porn and pictures online… be satisfied with that. Enjoy him from afar. There is a similar mention of someone being bothered that a guy (who still sees past known clients) but won’t respond to contact from new people, on another forum. That poster even mentions he being the only option not more than 50 miles away. I have a feeling who your obsession might be. If it is who I think it is, then I know the guy personally and he won’t like receiving unsolicited mails from you. If there was any small possibility he might see you in the future… mailing him will bring that down to absolute zero. Be satisfied you can watch his porn/pictures online and leave it at that.

Name change. I don’t remember his previous name but he used to do porn under the name Scotty Marx on Randy Blue. Maybe search the site for Scotty Marx and it might turn up more info. Addendum: I remember the previous name… Txmusclestud

He’s appeared in porn/onlyfans/etc.under the name Elijah Wilde. He had a rentmen at up in the past, if I’m remembering correctly. That’s all I got.

It's totally understandable that you feel you are being left out a bit. First, if I were you, I'd lay some ground rules down about any threesomes you have in the future. Like they must make you the focus. You are the client. If they won't agree to involving you more, maybe it's time to move on and find guys who will. I haven't done many 3-somes in the grand scheme of things. My biggest issue is I kind of lose focus with multiple people and starting worrying/overthinking about making sure everyone has equal time. LOL!

Isn't this the same guy that as soon as he discovers he's being discussed on ths forum he alters his rentmen name. He keeps the David_ and changes the part after. So he has been discussed.

Well if the people you’re seeing aren’t premium members of rentmen, they can’t leave reviews. That is probably part of the reason reviews may be hard to come by.

I'm so sorry. I understand the pain and hurt it causes (all too well) when someone, anyone, you built a friendship or trust does a 180 inexplicably from how they treated you. I think we all have experienced that at some point in our lives. I have had people just vanish and stop responding to any form of contact. In some cases, I don't know if they are alive or dead, with no way to find out the why of it all. I even had a friend flat out tell me to not contact him anymore. As he spiraled into conspiracy theories, I refused to share his beliefs. We had a lot of fun times together and I miss him terribly, but he decided to isolate himself (from other friends and family as well). If you can and the opportunity is there, fight for the relationship. If not, the best thing is to accept it and try to move on from the pain. Grow from it but don't become jaded to others because of it. As the saying goes, "people come into your life for a season, a reason, or a lifetime." As far as finding a long lasting genuine friendships\ with a provider... it's absolutely possible. I am friends with a handful (which I've discussed in random topics on the forum through the years). I'm actually traveling with one tomorrow for a few days. He's since retired from escorting. I haven't hired him or seen him sexually for some time now, but we travel together frequently. Some of the providers I've met, I've seen more than a decade. As others have stated over time, you build a fondness for each other... build a trust. If you have mutual interests a relationship can deepen and flourish. I would say don't try to force a friendship and let the relationship grow naturally. Maybe talk to a therapist, if you aren't already. Maybe you can get the advice or tools you need to help you to learn to form close bonds with male friends. You'll be ok.

I have seen both genuine pornstars and porn actors. Some actors I've met are very prolific in various types of porn but they wouldn’t consider themselves stars. They are still pornstars imho.

I believe this is porn actor Zane Williams. If so he used to escort on the east coast. I haven't met him but he's been asked/talked about on the forum previously.

He's been advertising on rentmen for a while now. His current name is MuscleBoijson https://v6.rent.men/MuscleBoijson

Client here... I'm not necessarily turned off by no-face ads. If the body and ad copy intrigue me... I delve further. I have hired a few guys who never used face pics. Some do now and some still don't. I do my due diligence and see if anyone on this forum (past or present) can verify if the person is good or is actually the guy portrayed in the ad. However, there are some guys where there is no info on them here and I take a chance. I have yet to have a bad experience with someone who did not use a face pic in their ad. The guy I see the most when we met, he didin't have a face pic in his ad. Although I did find out later he had a website where he did show his face, The latest one being Viktor York. He eventually shared a face pic with me but that wasn't until hours before our meetup. I do avoid faceless ads if it's clear that they are borrowing pictures or if the body shots don't match up picture to picture. I'm not talking someone going through muscle growth development where you can tell it's the same body. I'm talking about when it's clearly different bodies from different people.