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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Luv2play in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?   
    It's not that they haven't tried.  It's just that it probably hasn't sold as well.
    Guys don't watch porn to see themselves.  They watch it to watch the unattainable.  The fantasy.  
    That's what porn is:  A highly unrealistic, hyper-visual, fantasy-driven medium.
    This sort of marginalized porn has usually been shoehorned into a fetish category and as much as I'd like to see society evolve, it's not realistic to think it's going to change anytime soon.  
    The gay community is mega progressive in regards to our rights, but we heavily inner-discriminate if someone doesn't fit within a classic frame of beauty.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + cougar in Is bottoming really not for me afterall?   
    I would agree.  There's a lot of sex still happening, but it's in more controlled environments.
    Airbnb/hotel sex parties with tight guest lists are a thing.  If you don't look the part, you don't get in.
    Baths in the US are slowly dying and that's a bummer:  One of the last egalitarian(ish) spaces for guys to all show up, get naked and see what happens.  While I was never a fan of the really sketchier baths, the decent ones left are still pretty fun. with a good selection of guys.
    There's also still a strong sauna scene outside of the States (thankfully).
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + DERRIK in Hiring Rafael Alencar ?   
    This is like the gay fuck version of Clue.
    'Rafael Alencar...  On dirty blacktop...  With a fist.'
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to samhexum in Hanging out in Queens   
    NYC judge muffles concerts at Forest Hills Stadium over noise complaints from neighbors
    Supreme Court Justice Joseph Esposito agreed that the racket from the venue — and wandering concertgoers — was a legitimate nuisance for neighbors, and ordered the venue’s overseers to put a lid on it following a lawsuit filed by the Forest Hills Garden Corp., a local civic group.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to Archangel in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I hire for extended time. So sex isn’t all that it’s about. We often fuck then go do something else. I enjoy when the Provider cums…in me 😈 If I don’t cum during every fuck session, that’s fine; we will have more opportunity when we get back to the room or to my place. The benefits of overnights and weekends over a one-hour session…
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Luv2play in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Boaxxx in Asian race play   
    If you're different from the status quo, you're always going to be referred to by what makes you different.
    I'm regularly called 'that ginger guy' or 'the redhead' in public.  It's just a normal thing...  And frankly, it's who I am, so it's not offensive.
    People need to get angry about actual issues and not small shit they can't change.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Discreetguy2020 in Will doxyPEP create antibiotic resistant STDs?   
    Did you not read what was posted above?  Gonorrhea isn't even treated with the class of antibiotic that doxy is in.  It's really a moot point.
    Antibiotic resistance is per class of specific drug.  At longer-term low dosage doxy, the resistance level is incredibly low.  It's nearly zero when you follow a more conservative doxyprep regime of only taking it post-72 hours from last sexual activity.
    This is a shades of grey discussion.  Blanket statements are harmful to those who could benefit from this regime.  You're in a sex-worker/sex-positive forum here and for many of us, this is a helpful medical discussion to have with our doctors.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Monarchy79 in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?   
    It's not that they haven't tried.  It's just that it probably hasn't sold as well.
    Guys don't watch porn to see themselves.  They watch it to watch the unattainable.  The fantasy.  
    That's what porn is:  A highly unrealistic, hyper-visual, fantasy-driven medium.
    This sort of marginalized porn has usually been shoehorned into a fetish category and as much as I'd like to see society evolve, it's not realistic to think it's going to change anytime soon.  
    The gay community is mega progressive in regards to our rights, but we heavily inner-discriminate if someone doesn't fit within a classic frame of beauty.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from rvwnsd in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + keroscenefire in Definition of a regular client   
    If I see you for extended visits- weekends or longer- for years, then you're a regular.
    It's not just about the time or money spent, for me it's do we know each other?
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from peter831 in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + APPLE1 in HSV-1 recurrence   
    It's possible, but we're not the people to ask.
    Go see your doctor.  Make sure.
  15. Surprised
    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from bichiguy in Coming to America: MedAlexSwimmer   
    Because if you look a certain way, you can make a lot of money there, very quickly.
    DXB has the cash and they spend it.  Spending $20k on a weekend fling is absolutely nothing for wealthy Emiratis.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Monarchy79 in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
  17. Haha
    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Mmmen in Musclegod Reese   
    That's a lot of Piers at such a low cost.
     

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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Chicagoan here:  Chicago is and always has been in the top 5 (in my lifetime, at least).
    It's not considered a second-tier city, even though it's been called 'The Second City' (to NYC).
     
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from thomas in HSV-1 recurrence   
    It's possible, but we're not the people to ask.
    Go see your doctor.  Make sure.
  21. Agree
    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from thomas in Advice for an escort friend who had an ER visit!   
    As others have said, if he's using someone else's SSN and name, the debt collector worry isn't really a worry.
    My worry is him being hit with insurance fraud at this point.  It's a very real possibility when they find out.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from thomas in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
  23. Like
    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from tennisjock in Coming to America: MedAlexSwimmer   
    Because if you look a certain way, you can make a lot of money there, very quickly.
    DXB has the cash and they spend it.  Spending $20k on a weekend fling is absolutely nothing for wealthy Emiratis.
  24. Agree
    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
  25. Like
    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from zaddydaddy2022 in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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