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Seems like a total green flag all systems go kinda profile. Just curious if the more trusted members here have experiences with this guy you want to share? Surprised there's no posts about him here (under this name at least). Headofstate - Male Escort, Gay massage - Los Angeles | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Headofstate Gay Escort in Los Angeles, California, available for Gay Escorting,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

Almost 2 year old profile, 6 seeming good reviews, possibly may only know Spanish if the languages listed is accurate, and just 3 pics (of a really nice dick) no face. Worth taking a chance on or nah? Domincdotado - Male Escort, Gay massage - Los Angeles | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Domincdotado Gay Escort in Los Angeles, California, available for Gay Escorting,Erotic Massage,Boyfriend Experience. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

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I have a provider i hire regularly who is insanely attractive and very my type, but he doesn't top me the way i need him to because i think he just doesn't know how to... He's like a lot of a certain type of dom top who just pound hard and fast at one speed and they think that's kinda all they have to do 🫣. I know that works for a lot of bottom guys cause they more so are into the aggression vibe of it i feel. But i need a top who can go slow or fast and use different rhythms and angles. When they go fast and just that speed the whole time, i kinda just go numb to it after a while and it never gets me off. I'm feeling incredibly awkward about how best to approach talking to this provider about how to top better/differently without it being insulting or feeling like I'm telling him how to do his job. How would you guys approach this?

Bumping again, for the same reason. Some guys definitely can do both, and may prefer one for personal play but do the other for only "work" because it's more lucrative for them (and better for advertising considering how heavily sought after "100% dom top" is on places like RM). Which is totally fine, if they're actually good at both haha. Does look like his premium videos has a video of him topping, but i'm not paying for RM Premium to see it 🤣

Haven't ran into this scenario yet, but if i did i would just text whatever number i had of theirs and just ask "Hey! Are you still around/available?" If they're still active, they'll likely still have the text history and know what you're inquiring about and they'll likely just be like "Hey! Yes i am! Want to book something?" and then that's when you go "Yeah i'm interested, it's been a while, do you have a few current pics?" and then they'll probably be like "Sure!" and then you make your decision from there. On the other end of the spectrum if they aren't active anymore, they simply won't reply as the number is likely an app generated number or a second phone they've deactivated. Not really anyway for it to go wrong in any meaningful way.

He must be extremely paranoid about someone recognizing him or it getting out that he does this if that's what he's doing. Or he's insecure about his face, one of the three.

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Much more context is needed.

Yeah this makes the most sense to me now that you said it. It's to give you a taste and then they take it away to get you to pay to get it back. Wash rinse repeat till they finally get you. Dating/hook up apps do this with giving you a free month of like Tinder/Grindr Gold to get you hooked on the pay walled features and then they take it away again so you'll subscribe.

Eh, nah. After some provider comments above, I've already let go of the fantasy (delusion) that any providers would see any of us and be attracted enough to want to put in work for free 😆. If they wanted that, they'll just go to their partners or on Grindr/Sniffies. Clients posting pics only serves to help identify who you're looking for when meeting in a busy hotel lobby or something. Or helps Gen Z providers who do or don't do certain services based on how the client looks make their decision.

Same here, after my last post i saw pics available on all other member tiers for Providers. Can see Simon's pics as well and i'm a basic member.

On second glance, i'm noticing all the provider profiles who's dick pics i can easily see again now, are all providers who pay for rent.men Platinum. So maybe the onus on paying has switched from clients needing to have Premium, to providers needing to have Platinum?

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Literally as of today, i'm personally noticing that dick pics seem to be back to being easily publicly visible on rent.men despite being on a Basic account. Not sure if something changed, but i have one providers page open right now and of his 5 pics (all public, non-premium, and not behind his private photo album) are all full erect dick pics. So i don't even know anymore lol.

This makes sense to me. At the same time though, so would you say doing this work impacts your desire for "free"/casual/personal enjoyment sex (with people you choose/are attracted to) in general for you? Do you find it hard to enjoy outside of work because the thought of "i could be making X dollars for this..." is floating in the back of your head? This is what i needed to hear to talk me out of putting my pics up on RM and hoping a provider would hit me up 😆, need that hit of reality sometimes thanks. It does blow my mind though that people ask you guys for free stuff. It's never once crossed my mind to ask providers for anything for free/cheap unless they offer that to me first. I've never gone to a restaurant and asked for free appetizers or free desserts. People are weird and the customer is not always right. Good on you for keeping your cool in those situations.

A provider i hire often has showed me his RM inbox before. Definitely have seen plenty of other providers I recognized from my RM homepage (and even other providers i regularly hire) in his DMs. Either wanting to hook up with him, hire him themself, or trying to set up group scenarios for their own clients. Provider on provider action is definitely happening, and probably a lot. They're all the hottest guys who probably often work together for porn/their OnlyFans content, for clients who like to hire multiple providers at once, or just for their own enjoyment with someone who's more on their own attractiveness level. So it just makes sense. I also definitely have heard providers who are more masseur service oriented, hire other providers to see what other guys are doing and figure out skills to incorporate into their own service to stay competitive or to network to find other providers to do 4 hand massage with. I'm very curious about if there's ever clients who have filled out their RM profile and posted pics and gotten messaged by a provider to hook up (unpaid interaction, genuine interest from the provider). One provider i vibed well with and we hung out and talked for a long time after our session, he told me i'm actually his type and someone he'd take home if we ran into each other at the club or something. Which was shocking to me cause I'm incredibly average and he's obscenely hot, by traditional attractiveness standards. I wouldn't dare be like "ok so let's do this for free then" cause that seems really rude since we started our interactions as business. However, it made me curious how many of the client profiles i see with full profiles/pics might be getting hot experiences with providers, initiated by the provider who just actually is into them. Makes me want to give it a go and see what happens, but having my pics (especially face) on RM would have me really nervous...

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Anyone have any experiences with this guy? He's aggressively my type. Not seeing any big red flags, good reviews. Just doesn't come up on here at all, so was curious. TopDominicano - Male Escort, Gay massage - San Francisco | Rent.Men RENT.MEN TopDominicano Gay Escort in San Francisco, California, available for Gay Escorting. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

Yeah agreed. I think it's generally more a concern for providers than it is clients, and even so, mainly just for tax reasons. As fun fact, that has probably come up here many a time. Notorious gangster Al Capone went to jail for tax evasion and not for any of his rampant bootlegging, extortion, or murder he committed. The latter 3 of which literally everyone knew he did or directly ordered it done, but he never was caught in the act. People who are paying someone via Venmo (Which has a social feed where your transactions are public to your friends list, unless you specifically make the transaction Private before you hit Pay/Request), for example, has people publicly listing a transaction as "for prostitutes and drugs" or whatever else as a joke to make the friends who can see it laugh and that doesn't suddenly have the cops busting their door down. The U.S. government also wants to tax small business transactions on Venmo/payment apps and they let you/trust you the user press a button to say if the transaction was a personal transaction like paying your roommate your half versus a business transaction like buying merch from a vendor at a convention. Because they don't have a true way to know what you're paying the person for. It's just the honor system unless variances between what the apps report to the IRS and what you report become large enough to trigger an alert at the IRS. Or if the IRS notices you make the salary of a retail employee but are buying yachts (which is effectively how they got Al Capone). Still, you're not wrong. It is a trail/evidence in a certain context. Say a provider was caught in the act of providing and picked up. During investigation, law enforcement could then go through the payment apps on their phone, they'd see a list of people who have paid the provider at some point and how much was paid for sure. But they'd have no true verifiable way to know who sent that money in exchange for "services" and who is someone who sent money for quite literally any and all other reasons. It might get you on a list of people they think are clients to look into further or even people to attempt to get in a sting operation later if they were feeling that gung ho or had a quota to hit. But the payment on it's own shouldn't mean much. So i think that's why most feel ok to use the payment apps. In my proposed scenario though, a provider or client probably is more likely to be directly incriminated by how most clients/providers these days are having very explicit talk with each other in the RM DMs or texts. It still blows my mind that apps like Signal or Session and other encrypted apps aren't more popular in this biz. Even if you use encrypted apps, of course if they get physical access to your phone they could still see the messages directly on screen obviously. But in the instance of an investigation, those apps aren't able to hand over your data and message content (because they literally don't have anything to hand over) to law enforcement/government like how RM (or any website/non-encrypted app) or your phone carrier would be legally compelled to do if subpoenaed/warranted. I am NOT a legal expert, I'm just theorizing and spitballing for fun 🤣

From my experience everyone does Zelle, Venmo CashApp and PayPal now mainly. I'm sure any provider would still take cash if you asked/let them know though. I can't imagine any would would turn down the cash.

Kinda just sounds like the kinda thing where during the time you were out of contact with him maybe he just picked up new "skills"/routine/methods for doing this to remain competitive, and now it's just part of the normal experience he offers. I think if you want to add new stuff/try new things, you probably should be able to just ask and he'll either say "totally yeah" or "oh that's not something i'm comfortable with" and it'll be all good.

Do everything you've already done again but add a second provider for all of it 👀

Rent.Men does as well. RentMasseur doesn't though from what i can tell.

Maybe you could do a thing where you take the provider to the trip, agree on a certain amount of time he's hired to spend with you and your husband but then he has to go back home. I feel like he'd probably understand that you'd want some just you and your husband time on the trip. Or maybe it'd be a thing where he goes with you but then you only agree to hire him for 2 out of 4 nights or whatever and those other nights he gets his own hotel room that he can work out of since he wouldn't be on the clock with you those nights. Then he flies back to your home city with you guys? I'm solely a client, but I'm fairly close with some of the providers i hire and they tell me about what things are like from their perspective and in doing this i try to operate in a way that takes their perspective into my own. I also work in a field that has a few broad similarities to providing, so i can relate to some of the struggles from the business side of it. Can relate to both of these in a way. I hire most often in L.A. and we have a TON of guys here, but MANY of them all have a certain typical "L.A. Look" in my opinion (which is ok, just can be repetitive sometimes). So i sometimes find myself very interested in guys from other places who travel here. And i'm super lucky i'm in a town that has both a ton of guys but also still attracts a lot of traveling providers. So it's really best of both worlds. So i really can't complain, but every once in a while i see some of the guys in certain U.S. states that don't travel who are super hot and a few I've thought about flying them to L.A. Doing so is a bit out of my price range if doing it on short notice though, but i could maybe do it if i planned it in advance and thoughtfully put the funds for it aside over time.