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Well i went ahead and went for it. I saw Jesusaleja last night after speaking with one of the RM reviewers on his page, "Lopez", who had a great time with Jesusaleja. Pics are all real, he's beautiful, and the tool is not photoshopped. It is that big. Biggest I've ever seen in person. So big in fact that i couldn't take it and i tapped out after just a few minutes 😳🫣. It would have been magical if i was properly prepared for that size. If you can handle ones like that he'll definitely give you a great time. If you decide to give him a try, i would say it's important to know that while texting with him to set up is pretty easy and straight forward, he does not speak any English. So he's using a translator app while texting and in person. Maybe it would be a non-issue for anyone who can take ones that size, but i think i needed a slower pace and some extra time so i could adjust to the size and i had no real way to communicate that to him once the action started. So it would have saved me some discomfort/pain if i knew a couple Spanish phrases haha. I absolutely don't hold that against him though, he noticed i was struggling and tried to chill and adjust but i needed him to do so even more and i didn't have the words to convey that to him. Was mainly on me for biting off more than i could chew, and usual language barrier issues. If my schedule permitted i would try him again with that all in mind though. Knowing what to do differently here, the experience would have been drastically better.

Would depend on the why he went and how long ago for me. Though honestly, long as it wasn't the big crimes like any type of assault or murder or robbery or sex offender stuff. I'd probably be ok with still hiring them. Like half the providers i hire i later found out actively sell drugs (both the soft stuff and the hard stuff). I'm in a big city where the rich (and a lot of not rich people) like to party. Pretty much everyone here is within 2 or 3 friends of knowing a dealer of some kind, lot of providers here are making "deliveries" as one of their side hustles. Times are tough and people below a certain age effectively have no prosperity in their future unless grander societal things change. So i don't blame anyone for doing what they gotta do. And what we hire providers for itself isn't exactly legal in most places. So i find it hard to be too judgemental/harsh on the guys for having done any kind of time (again, major crimes not included). The only thing that'd ever really scare me about hiring guys who've done time or are involved with "other activities" is the paranoid thought that if they do get caught or picked up for something they'd make some kind of deal where they become an informant and rat out their clients in exchange for less time or something.

I've only had one provider really go to town rimming me and it was the first good rim job (and best) i had ever had. Any other rim i had before that was just the guy doing a couple licks just to get me wet for his dick basically (and that's both providers and just casual hook ups and FWBs). But this provider rimmed me like it was going to be the last thing he ever got to do in his life. His stamina for it was insane, he just kept going and going and i kept getting more and more sensitive to everything he was doing. So he had me right where he wanted me. He was stroking my dick slowly, basically edging me the whole time while he rimmed me too. By the end of it when he finally let me release, he had me near unable to move for a good couple minutes in a puddle of sweat. And then he laid on the bed next to me and casually waited for me to recover as if he didn't just send me to see a 4th dimensional being. Have never had any other provider rim me like that. He's still in my city and working, but I've honestly been a bit nervous to let someone make me cum THAT hard again. Cause i remember in the moment right after he finished with me and i looked at him, if he had said "what's your bank app login info?" i don't know that i wouldn't have given it to him 🤣 I don't mean to over evangelize for the guy, i was pretty sexually inexperienced before hiring so i definitely was an easy mark so to speak. Anyone even remotely skilled or passionate about the act of rimming probably could have had the same effect on me at the time, but yeah...

Took me a couple months longer than it should have back when i first started hiring to realize that the first provider (a masseur focused one) i hired (and still one of my regulars) who said he wasn't doing full service for everyone and only did it with a select few clients he felt most comfortable with was almost certainly telling everyone that and that that in itself was part of the service 🤣. What a day of self realization/reckoning that was for me haha. He really had me going in the beginning thinking i was among the select few haha.

Grindr doesn't have matching, i was kind of just being general. On Grindr it's usually a creators profile will message me but eventually the convo turns to "if you want to keep talking, check out my OF!" or something like that lol. Or even more passively it's just the profile and the About Me is just "check out my OF" with out even the attempt to make direct contact with people lol The second part you say is what i wish would happen for me! Then I'd be fine with getting advertised to haha. It's a fantasy of mine to be some OF guys co-star and then see the comments of other people getting off to watching him use me as a prop 🥵. I live in a city with A TON of OF creators too. But i also know since it's "content" you usually gotta look a certain way for it to be worth purchasing. Is what it is.

They do this on hookup/dating apps like Grindr and Tinder too. They'll make profiles and swipe right on everyone and it makes you think you matched with some egregiously hot dude that's out of your league (and they usually have their profile verified so it's actually them, and you know it's not a bot profile). And when you go to message them they just say subscribe to my OnlyFans. I have no problem with OF creators advertising, but if you're gonna be on platforms like RM or even Tinder, use those for what they're actually for. If i match with an OF creator on Tinder/Grindr, at least invite me over and use me for content for fucks sake 🤣

Yeah i was thrown for a loop too. At first glance i thought this thread was going to be about either sugar daddy/sugar baby setups or about drugs 🤣

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This profile at least has the profile photos verified (back on February 8th 2025) badge. I can't speak to RM's photo verification process/procedure though.

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I myself often somewhat struggle with the logic that @Tom C. Sinclair mentions in the comment of theirs you quoted. Like you said i also usually try to differentiate with a provider between something they actively hate doing but would do because they need the extra money vs something they simply don't do often/every time/is just more "work" but will do on request for the up charge. I never want the provider to be miserable while they're working with me so i dont do the former. At the same time though, I've somewhat concluded even if it's an up charge for something that isn't in their wheel house... Are we not already doing that by default since even at base rate we're paying them for an interaction of whatever kind with someone who, in any other scenario, is not in their wheelhouse of attraction? It's somewhat drawing a line we've already stepped past in a way and now we're just discussing how many steps past one the other is.

I appreciate the responses here, thanks everyone 🙏. I'll give the direct communication, as well as some positive reinforcement during, a go and see how he does next meet up.

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I have a provider i hire regularly who is insanely attractive and very my type, but he doesn't top me the way i need him to because i think he just doesn't know how to... He's like a lot of a certain type of dom top who just pound hard and fast at one speed and they think that's kinda all they have to do 🫣. I know that works for a lot of bottom guys cause they more so are into the aggression vibe of it i feel. But i need a top who can go slow or fast and use different rhythms and angles. When they go fast and just that speed the whole time, i kinda just go numb to it after a while and it never gets me off. I'm feeling incredibly awkward about how best to approach talking to this provider about how to top better/differently without it being insulting or feeling like I'm telling him how to do his job. How would you guys approach this?

Bumping again, for the same reason. Some guys definitely can do both, and may prefer one for personal play but do the other for only "work" because it's more lucrative for them (and better for advertising considering how heavily sought after "100% dom top" is on places like RM). Which is totally fine, if they're actually good at both haha. Does look like his premium videos has a video of him topping, but i'm not paying for RM Premium to see it 🤣

Haven't ran into this scenario yet, but if i did i would just text whatever number i had of theirs and just ask "Hey! Are you still around/available?" If they're still active, they'll likely still have the text history and know what you're inquiring about and they'll likely just be like "Hey! Yes i am! Want to book something?" and then that's when you go "Yeah i'm interested, it's been a while, do you have a few current pics?" and then they'll probably be like "Sure!" and then you make your decision from there. On the other end of the spectrum if they aren't active anymore, they simply won't reply as the number is likely an app generated number or a second phone they've deactivated. Not really anyway for it to go wrong in any meaningful way.

He must be extremely paranoid about someone recognizing him or it getting out that he does this if that's what he's doing. Or he's insecure about his face, one of the three.

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Much more context is needed.

Yeah this makes the most sense to me now that you said it. It's to give you a taste and then they take it away to get you to pay to get it back. Wash rinse repeat till they finally get you. Dating/hook up apps do this with giving you a free month of like Tinder/Grindr Gold to get you hooked on the pay walled features and then they take it away again so you'll subscribe.

Eh, nah. After some provider comments above, I've already let go of the fantasy (delusion) that any providers would see any of us and be attracted enough to want to put in work for free 😆. If they wanted that, they'll just go to their partners or on Grindr/Sniffies. Clients posting pics only serves to help identify who you're looking for when meeting in a busy hotel lobby or something. Or helps Gen Z providers who do or don't do certain services based on how the client looks make their decision.

Same here, after my last post i saw pics available on all other member tiers for Providers. Can see Simon's pics as well and i'm a basic member.

On second glance, i'm noticing all the provider profiles who's dick pics i can easily see again now, are all providers who pay for rent.men Platinum. So maybe the onus on paying has switched from clients needing to have Premium, to providers needing to have Platinum?