DMonDude

So with you on this. I love sucking it directly out of a guy, but like 10 seconds after cum has been exposed to the air it cools down and starts to coagulate. The consistency/texture becomes so gross for me that i can't handle it. Kinda like when you leave a soup sitting too long and goes cold and gets that film over the top or when ice cream completely melts and becomes room temperature or like when certain drinks sit too long and the different ingredients separate. I just can't 🫣. So unless the cum is going directly in one of the holes, i don't want it.

Yeah this is something i can't get into either. I can ALMOST get it cause i do see the fun/novelty of having two of "the same guy", but the part where they're actually brothers ruins it for me personally. I can get the "two of the same guy" thing just having a threesome with any random gay/bi couple since so many guys these days date a guy who looks just like them 🫣😆. All the clone fun, none of the incest 🤣

Despite the profile being expired, it also says he's logged in today. In my experience, expired profile doesn't really mean much unless they also haven't logged in for a long time. It just means he's not actively paying for a subscription, but if he's still logging in and probably still checking messages, he will probably give you his number to text him to book. I'm also not getting straight/"straight" vibes from him. The "straight" guys are usually very limited in what they'll do, they usually only let you give them oral or they will only top. His profile is "i'm a sex addict and i'm into almost everything" and his position lists verse/top, which implies he's open to bottoming for clients. Doesn't really scream straight to me.

It actually does. A deli/escort hire and a masseur/massage focused hire, are not always going to handle starting a session/foreplay the same way because for the most part they're offering different services/experiences. If you're saying that you think the foreplay is what made them go down on you or lift their legs with no hesitation or mount you... It's not, they're just doing what you hired them to do 🫣

You might have to message their web admin about it too. Could be something they removed but will restore for individuals that ask about it.

For whatever it's worth, i had messaged RMs web admin what happened to the crypto option, just out of curiosity. He replied back saying "please check again", and now it's back. So maybe it was just a User Interface glitch or something 🤷‍♂️

Same. Haven't tried this guy but he's on my to try list and coming up in the queue soon, but he seems like he checks these boxes on paper at least. https://rent.men/Elias_XL This guy i have tried and would recommend. He may possibly fit what you're looking for https://rent.men/uncutmoviebuff. I didn't ask for very dominant behavior/treatment from him, but i'd imagine he could do it if requested.

https://rent.men/Ohitspleasure

I wouldn't say i expect it, but i definitely want them to and i like the overall experience much more if they do. Just helps sell the illusion/experience more. If they don't, (or especially if they actively pretend to cum), then i find it's a harsher reality check of what we're doing for me. Kinda funny thing, but i remember learning here on this forum that a lot of providers who see multiple clients a day will save their orgasm for the last client of the day/night. I later found one provider and i specifically booked him last slot of the day with this in mind. But once i got to the session he told me he probably wasn't going to cum or even get hard during the session with me because he'd already came like 5 times that day lol. He apparently just cums based on who requests it (or maybe just on who ever makes him cum naturally) first come first serve. So i learned if it's something you know you want, definitely discuss it with the provider before hand, because they all handle it differently.

Very sadly, no. When i asked him about intos and asked about kissing and oral and other things, he said "not much of a kisser, but i can give oral". Wasn't entirely sure if he's sometimes down for kissing on a per client basis, or if he was just being polite. For guys who don't kiss I'm used to getting a much more direct "i don't kiss" during initial communications, so i dont know if that's a door that's fully closed or is a little ajar. I might ask about it next time i see him to be sure.

Yeah i'm the one they do those pairings for 😆. I love big height/size disparity. I'm 5'5" and i love 6'+ guys. I'm pretty typical in that i love bottoming for tall guys. I don't enjoy the challenge presented to some sex positions if i'm the one topping a tall guy. I know it can be done, i just don't enjoy it as much. I love how heavy large tall guys feel when they're on top of me and i love when their dick is proportional to the rest of them and i like the struggle of taking it. I like feeling like a giant got his hands on me and i'm at his mercy 😆 I also love verse flip flop fuck time with my fellow short kings though too. And every now and then when i as a 5'5" guy find a real cute but masculine 5'0" - 5'4" guy... 🫦

Saw Mreezzy last night. I had a great time. The pics are accurate, the equipment on display is fantastic and true to size, and he knows how to use it however you need him to for as long as you need him to. He's very friendly, patient, and easy to talk to. I will be seeing him again.

I reached out to him to set something up and he was responding weirdly. His profile says he's verse/top. I asked if he tops, does oral (he said yes), or kisses (he said no). He says he doesn't top but could bottom and asked how big i am. I gave him a heads up (trying to give him benefit of the doubt) that his profile listed verse/top and maybe he clicked that in error and that if everyone's hitting him up to top, when he prefers to bottom, that that was why. He says he's mostly a top. I tell him he just said a few messages up that he doesn't top so i was confused. He says he doesn't top "in this situation". I go "what situation?" He says "on here". I say it's not going to work out and drop the chat. Was a really needlessly long and convoluted way to figure out that despite advertising verse/top, he does not top for clients. Unfortunate, i wouldn't mind topping him, but i was so put off by the confusing messages i lost all interest.

It's not really that much of a deterrent. You can still post collabs to those sites long as the other person either also has an OF/JF account that you ahve to tag them in the post, or the other person has to submit ID verification to the platform before the creator can post the video. Obviously less people will do that, but it's not a true blockade. Plus, a lot of OF/JF creators who don't want to deal with that, simply set up a Telegram channel and divert their subscribers to that for direct sales of sex tapes where you pay them through CashApp/Venmo/Zelle and they send you the video on Telegram. It saves the creator having to jump through identity verification hoops on the OF/JF platform, and they make more money per sale because OF/JF isn't there to get their 20% cut or however much it is now. That's what some creators were doing last i was using the platform regularly.

The thing is, Nomad and you both have no way to know that the provider in question Nomad is referencing wouldn't have cleaned out and freshened up after their cum dump session before seeing the client who made the post (which he didn't get to do because the client showed up early for the rescheduled time). It's only gross because you and the client in question just automatically assumed the provider would have still been loaded up when the client arrived for their session. No normal person would do this, and it's literally no different to if that provider had just seen a different client who also may have came in them prior to your session with them. But only because it was a cum dump scenario do you feel this aversion and grossed out feeling. That's what makes it an issue of you/the client you and Nomad are talking about being judgy. It also leans into hypocrissy when the client Nomad is talking about then immediately left and hooked up with some rando in a park who also was probably collecting loads, as if that's somehow not the same as getting stranger loads in a hotel room. Just kinda silly overall. Also, sex addiction is not exclusively driven by meth/drug use. Other mental afflictions, or trauma related response to past sexual assault or other traumas are just as likely (if not more so) to be the cause of sex addiction, but the fact you just automatically went to "they must be a meth user" is also you being judgemental without you realizing it. So that's why @SecretProvider said what they said (which didn't even have much animosity to begin with, it was lightly snarky at best, you just read it that way because the shoe fit). They didn't say anything much different to what i said in my comment. Just saying...

Agree. Going off of this. I once hired a provider, and on the second time i hired him. He got a hotel for us. When the session was over, we both left together. He was going back to the house of a local friend he was staying with. He left me the hotel room key and offered to let me have it for if i wanted to have some other guys over for fun or just chill or whatever (i'd told him when i do this i can't host). I can only imagine he did this either because he trusted me enough to not mess up the room (can't imagine i garnered that much trust after only the second session), or someone else booked the room for him and anything i might do with the room wouldn't have fallen on his responsibility and he had no reason to care.

I've found it's a mix of 1 and 2. Providers are their own boss. So they can work for 4 hours, have a hookup from Grindr/Sniffies, and then work again the next couple hours or whatever else they want. They are within their right to charge one person, but not charge another. They have no obligation to not be on Grindr/Sniffies while also showing Available Now on RentMen/RentMasseur. I've talked to one provider who i saw on Sniffies once (i recognized him from his RM ad) and he said as much. He uses it for whatever, depending on who reaches out to him and what they want. Some guys are people he would just hook up with for his own fun, other guys who may not be someone he wants for personal fun he will say "we can do it if you're gen" in the DMs. He also goes to Sniffies/Grindr to find both other workers or regular people to film with for his OF (this is what i particularly asked him about and he said i wasn't the kind of scene partner he was looking for but that i was welcome to hire him). I don't really think much of it other than maybe sometimes wanting to roll the dice and see if a provider i see on Grindr/Sniffies would see me as worth their personal fun (hasn't happened yet lol) or would be worth filming with for their OF (recent interest/kink of mine to film with OF guys). If i do reach out to them and they ignore/say no, i usually then would never hire them after just because it'd be awkward 🤣

I was one of the (probably very few) people who paid with crypto back when i did have subscription. I wonder if not enough people using that method made them drop it.

Weed, back when i smoked/vaped it regularly, was always a sexual enhancer for me. I got hard easier, stayed hard longer, and came more intensely. That's, anecdotally, what i've heard is the experience from almost everyone i've ever known who also partook. Of course, exceptions exist though. Also with weed, for most people it calms and relaxes your anxiety, but for a small portion of people it sends you on an anxiety tail spin (i'm one of those people and it's why i stopped doing it). It's never universal. So it's entirely possible it had the inverse result for him. But it also could be because of a bunch of other reasons.

Maybe, maybe not. It would depend. I've only swallowed for two providers so far. One is a guy who for a while, neither of us could host and i didn't have the extra funds for hotels, so we just met up in our cars in various places and i'd give him head. Another is a dom top guy who goes multiple rounds, so i usually suck the first load out of him and then he gives me the others while topping. Giving oral to completion usually isn't what i hire for cause in my regular hookup life i'm usually the one giving. So when i hire i want to be the one receiving, but I'm not opposed to doing it. Try it again now, should work. I had my inbox disabled

For me, it's a "fantastic if they do, but they don't have to" thing. Of the two guys i hire regularly who do give oral, neither have swallowed for me any of the times i've hired them. Not sure if it's a hard rule for them or something i have to ask/increase their rate for, but i've never really bothered to ask. One will do it to completion but doesn't take it in the mouth at all, the other just gives a couple slurps to get me ready to top him. I wish they did but it's not something i need bad enough that i would stop hiring them just because of that. Have been considering trying a provider who i've been told is particularly good with "just lay back and get great head" sessions and he apparently always swallows. So if he blows my mind maybe I'll feel differently after that 😆

I have a regular provider who is also a bottom, and we find other top providers that top to play with together. We had fun with this guy https://rent.men/EnzoBrazilVllXX, he's in Hollywood. I can't speak to how he is when one on one though.

To be fair, as has already been mentioned in this thread, it's probably because all the services people use to get PrEP also pair it with DoxyPep now. That's 4 STIs protected/increased protection from. Most others are curable/treatable or are ones people are vaccinated against. And ones like herpes also are equally as transmittable whether having sex bare on PrEP/DoxyPep or with a condom. Most people who aren't on PrEP and have anal sex with a condom don't do so for oral, so they still run the risk of getting other STIs too. All things considered the level of overall risk is closely comparable. So when the risk level is close, for a lot of those guys the choice is the one that feels better. Not to say any of the guys are right to argue or pressure someone to take the condom off/not use it. They're wrong to do that to anyone. But I'm just saying you aren't getting their logic correct in your comment. They aren't being short sighted or making the decision they are thinking they are only protected against one STI. They've done math with details about the services that provide PrEP (like the fact that it also now normally comes with DoxyPep) that you didn't know and are acting accordingly.

A young provider i hire sometimes is the same way and i'm on the verge of sitting him down and teaching him finances too for the same reason. He easily could (sex)work himself out of the situation he's in if he managed his finances right, but he'll see a couple clients and then blow all the money he makes on a car payment that's 3x my own (near 4 digits) so he can look cool in Instagram photos, but then he'll tell me about how every unexpected expense like a car repair or fine nearly puts him underwater. So he's constantly stressed. I even understand how maintaining a certain look/lifestyle is crucial to social media content. If that's part of your job it's worth spending resources on, but there's a way to do that intelligently and a lot of these guys aren't doing that. They're making thousands and thousands of dollars a month (if not more) and spending it all that same month and barely scraping by, which is insane lol.

Yeah he probably just forgot it. If he was part of some kind of sting operation trying to entrap you, this is not how they would do it.