DMonDude

Oh wow. Looks like he changed his name to LunchBoxx for some reason? Same pics/vids and reviews on this ad. https://rent.men/LunchBoxx

Anyone met this seemingly very new guy? https://rent.men/Hornypieces

Anyone met this guy? https://rent.men/King_CheekClappa

Anyone met up with this guy? https://rent.men/OutSouthDot

Almost all those photos are from the Instagram page of some model/influencer. Reverse image search the shirtless photo in black shorts and the page will come up. It's got about 133k followers.

Bump

Again, as mentioned on other threads, no one is forcing you to use it.

I've always asked for face pics, not in the first message but definitely very early on in the conversation. I handle it the same way on Grindr/apps, and i myself don't put face pics on my Grindr/Sniffies profiles, but i send them in the first message or soon as the other person asks because ultimately all I'm trying to avoid is just any person just browsing being able to see my face pic while scrolling the grid/map. Anyone who actually inquires first or i approach first I'm ok to share cause I'm ultimately just trying to lower the overall amount of exposure, not be totally anonymous. In my experience the amount of people just browsing that will see your thumbnail versus who actually inquire are like an 80/20 split respectively. So i feel like I'm accomplishing my goal there. I feel a lot of providers who don't have public facing face pics are operating on similar logic, for the most part. If i do see the face pic and am not interested, i just say so though. Should be an understood part of the process whether hiring or just on Grindr/Sniffies of being a no public face pic person on either end. And i personally think setting everything up first and then seeing the face pic after, makes it feel like that much more of a waste of time if you do finally see the pics and it's not a match. Compared to if you get that part out of the way earlier.

The usual. What ever info or first hand experiences people here may have with this guy. No? I'm seeing 5 public pics, 3 premium photos, and 13 videos on the profile.

Anyone met this guy and have experience? https://rent.men/MontezJohnson

https://rent.men/ForceAliOne

https://rent.men/Newerick A lot of the pics seem fairly old judging off the picture quality, but the videos seem pretty recent. There's an old locked CoM thread on him here but no experience.

It's because it's what some/many masseurs offer in addition to their massage services. It's pretty simple. It's more like eating at a restaurant that has breakfast, lunch, and dinner options and you get to pick what you want. If RentMasseur was purely a therapeutic only massage site, they wouldn't bother to have providers be able to list HIV status as that's not relevant to purely therapeutic massage. It's there for a reason. And the "sensual" in sensual massage can mean whatever the client and provider agree for it to mean for a particular session.

Bump. Interesting how LAFreedom hasn't logged back on here since the day after saying he was going to contact this provider (almost certainly not related, just interesting coincidence lol).

And like they said, that's not really how it works anymore (if it ever did). Many guys do both services/jobs with the only distinction being what a specific client asks for. Hence it being often easier to use a more generalized catch all term, that's why those of us that use it use it. It's like referring to someone who plays multiple instruments as a musician or performer or instrumentalist rather than by the specific instrument. You also could call the guy a violinist or a guitarist or a pianist and all would be correct depending on which one they're playing at the given moment, but musician/performer/instrumentalist are all encompassing and specifically refers to the fact they are capable of more than one thing. By your logic you're saying "nooooo they must only pick one cause they're different instruments!" 😆

Why are some here so stuck on the word escorts and so put off by provider? Why is that so offensive to you? Would you be bothered if we said sex workers instead? All those terms are accurate, pick the one you want to use and stop letting others using a different one get to you this much. Some jobs have multiple titles that mean basically the same thing and can be used interchangeably. It really doesn't matter.

I do a similar thing when i do local hotel stays as well. I can only host when i go to a hotel for a weekend every once in a while and i like to make it count. So i will shotgun message a handful of providers with the idea that i want to at least see one guy a day i'm at the hotel. So if one replies first and nabs the friday night slot, the guy who replies second gets to choose between my saturday or sunday night slot if they're available then. Rather than being told "nevermind i already booked someone else", which is where it can feel like we're wasting their time. So if it works out, great! If it doesn't, it's a scheduling conflict with the door left open to try again later (either at their place if they host or next time i get a hotel), and not because another provider swooped in and stole me. But more often than not, when i'm looking for a one off in-call. I message one preferred provider at a time and i wait for the reply and confirm the booking or that it isn't a match with them before i move on to the next one cause there's no rush on my end in that scenario. So it's ultimately a bit of both for me.

What Maninsoma said. Escorts aren't "over kill" (some even charge less for oral/side only sessions), you don't have to do anal or "go all the way" with escorts just because they're escorts. And any masseurs who offers HE is at the very least used to being asked if they offer other services beyond that, and plenty of them do. There's a ton of overlap in providers and services they offer on RentMasseur and RentMen. Just ask the masseur if they offer extras and if they say yes, mention you would like to receive oral and see if they say yes.

He's in L.A. currently and i recognized him from his prior name when he was here last. I reached out to him last Summer, offered a great rate, was responsive when he's online and was down for some dirty talk while discussing intos. We ended up not getting to meet up due to schedule conflicts/he kinda vanished and we never re-connected after that. Still interested in him though, might reach out again. Seems like he'd be a good time, just gotta get through the scheduling hurdle. He used to be HunkyDayLaborer, this is the CoM thread on him here. Lot of interest, but only one forum member on that thread said he met up with him and had a great time, back in 2022:

I think it's only if someone actively reports you for it. I'm looking at someone's profile on Grindr with "Gen+++" as the only word on the profile right now. Not to say people shouldn't be concerned about their accounts getting banned, but it's definitely not an auto-detect and immediate ban feature Grindr/Sniffies use.

For some people, I'm sure it is. There absolutely are people who engage in this hobby on very very tight budgets on salaries where differences of that amount matter. They have to be super picky and careful about their fun spending because whatever thing they're spending on it may not be something they can just do again the next week or the next month. It might be their one shot for a couple months or even for the year.

They aren't wrong though. Their grander point isn't about what info is available to other users of Telegram, it's what info is available to law enforcement if they subpoenaed Telegram due to some other user in the Telegram group you're in getting caught and investigated. They're completely right that just because you can cloak your number doesn't mean it's completely private or doesn't still put you at risk. Even if you use an alternate/generated number to sign up on Telegram with, that doesn't protect you either because most number generator services also are ones that have data logs or require at least some kind of real info from you like an email address or your actual phone number to forward to in order to sign up, and if asked by law enforcement/government they too would turn over any info on you they had. Google Voice for example will give you a fake number to put into Telegram, but Google will hand you over to law enforcement just the same because they know who you are that signed up for the fake number you gave Telegram. Unless you're using services that are proven to have no data logs at all, are end to end encrypted, and require no info to sign up, there's still a trail for an investigation to follow if someone in your Telegram group gets investigated and law enforcement decided to go for other members in the group. You thinking that person being realistic about that on this forum is somehow silly is a complete misread of what they're saying. That kind of cockiness/sloppiness is exactly what gets people who even use fully encrypted apps like Signal or other encrypted no/low log apps caught.

In my car next door to his family home (they were all inside sleeping). EDIT - Added context: this was an college/just out of college age provider who lived with his parents/siblings still.

You just sound mad that you came off as unclean. You were the one saying someone who rimmed you wouldn't have fresh breath and this and that. If you are uncomfortable going ass to mouth, there are valid reasons for that like you've said in this comment, but that isn't what you said in your prior comments. You made it about cleanliness and smells and mints, you were not talking about STI transmission till this comment after i called you out on the fact it's weird to let someone rim you if you don't feel clean down there. If you find that tedious, make better points and be more clear in what you mean. Besides, that very STI transmission is reduced if you've properly cleaned. Giardia is passed via fecal-oral contact. Being properly cleaned out before you let the guy rim you does the same thing as him rinsing after. And you being worried about getting an STI from kissing someone who did ass to mouth with you means you are the one passing the STI to them... Which again, if you know you have something or aren't prepared to have company down there, why invite them to begin with? You're just showing your own ignorance here. We've all been on the same threads about risk reduction/management here and how much of said risk people are and aren't willing to take on. Don't be obtuse and act like people who have done ass to mouth are guaranteed and asking for STIs.

Haven't really had this issue fortunately. But definitely would immediately leave if it was a full on catfish, not the person in the photos. Even if they used an actor/model photos they looked similar to. If it's not the actual person, i'm leaving. If it's just photos that aren't super current, it would just depend on how different they looked. People get different haircuts, muscle definition/body fat percentage comes and goes. Especially cause i'm a bit more overall attractiveness oriented not as fixated on exact muscle tone. So i can be fairly forgiving of that, but there is definitely still a line.