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I do think texting him makes sense. He may have let his profile expire because he has a good number of regular clients. If you’re concerned about privacy, you can use an app like Burner which creates a separate phone number that isn’t linked to your name.

I don’t know if his profile was expired at the time you sent the messages but, if it was, he has no ability to read your messages without first renewing his profile to active.  Were that not the case, RM would go out of business fast.
I had one provider beg me to provide funds for him to renew his membership for a month for the sole purpose of being able to read his messages.
I obliged.  Two weeks later, he begged me for $20 to buy “cat food” and even sent me a photo of the cat saying the cat thanked me after I obliged again.
Some providers make a small fortune from even relatively brief periods serving as providers for this hobby.  Others barely scrape by for even the smallest income from the profession.
From a being discreet standpoint, there are WAY too many options for avoiding your identity being revealed to fail to text a provider when you have a number to which you can text.

A respectful discreet inquiry text, perhaps noting your awareness of his inactive profile, seems fine. 
But I would counsel against putting all your eggs (ie your hiring hopes) in this one basket, no matter how appealing the basket. 

I've found that if I go to my RM Messages page and see the list of providers I've chatted with, if you click on their thread with you it will tell you when they've last logged onto RM, even if their profile setting is set to private. Also, two little 'check marks' next to your message will reveal whether they've been read or not. (One check mark indicates 'sent' and two check marks indicate 'sent and received'.

Yes. That's if they are still using the site to see the message... they can respond even if their ad is expired.

A huge reason why I seem only able to date in South America. Guys in the US don't seem to believe that other STIs exist, and they are all on prep and doxy. The last time I went on a date here in the US I got into a bit of an argument with the bottom as we were transitioning from oral to anal, much like the OP's story. He couldn't believe I used condoms. The argument killed the vibe -- "How could you NOT be on Prep!" this dumbass Rice graduate said, exasperatedly --, and I left and never saw him again.

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on.
Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. 
I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot.
Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊
 

Awesome! Anyone with minimal rm reviews I always like to ask on here first. 

Searched the forum and nothing on this older gentleman? I’ll be visiting dc next week and was curious. 
 
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I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)  

I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)  

I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)