wearytraveller

If reviews are not available on here, I'll look at each of the reviewers on RM to see how long they've been on the site as well as the number of men they've reviewed. If there's enough legitimate reviews, I'll consider hiring.

This is may be kind of naïve of me … but if you've hired this guy a couple of times before and there was enough of a connection for him to ask and for you to lend the $500 could "lol" mean "lol, of course its prepaid!" instead of "lol, I took you sucker"?

Give with an open hand.
 
Expect nothing in return.
 
It helps to ease the pain of the inevitable burn.

I have ignored most cash requests, but for 3 individuals, I did "loan" money. I never saw the money or any of them again. That's why I view generosity as a "gift" rather than a "loan"; it helps me avoid bitter feelings when the return on my kindness investment is zero.

Woooow... Holy Shizitky! I didn't expect this guys.. especially since I didn't even think the post was going to be approved at first. I only found out when a new client had mentioned my "post" and I was like "Hmmm, must have been approved" finally!! I am first humbled to have reached so many and have so much positivity up here on the post. Going to try to answer a question or two I saw and also provide my upcoming schedule for everyone.
 
I just landed in Cincinnati, OH and will be here just for today (Nov. 1st) , then Lima, OH (Nov 2-3) , Columbus (4-6th), Cleveland (7-8th), Pittsburgh (9-11th), Buffalo (12th-16th), Niagara Falls, CA (17-20)
 
For those who don't understand the rapid city thing.. it's not meant to make me invisible and I am aware when visiting people can see me in Vegas. It reduces visibility for me and here is why...
 
I was contacted by LEO, and they attempted to sting me last April. After trying to incriminate me through text and getting nothing to work with they grew frustrated and told on theirselves and reason for contacting me.. the words were "Hey Bud, you dodged a bullet. We are moving our operation from GVR elsewhere. Have been contacting Males who are making illegal money for escort practices not allowed in Clark County, NV. We have seen your ad consistently on the top of the page and wanted to let you know and if we are to contact again it may end less than ideal for the person in question."
 
Now yes I am aware there is a very good chance it could be fake or could be real. But this is a better safe than sorry thing. Point is someone was playing games and I prefer to avoid drama! Also I was losing potential clients in Vegas because I platinum boost everyday when traveling and was always at top of vegas even if on road because home city setting. People would contact me and when telling them I wasn't around they would act offended and i'd never see them try again. So I decided to stop using Vegas unless I was openly looking for a few new clients over a couple days when back home however I always encourage anyone to reach out and ask to make sure. Please don't be discouraged if we can't connect the first time Persistence is appreciated.
 
And to the Tattoo guy, you just gotta understand not everyone has the same views in life. I am a individual and my body is only temporary ... I enjoy the art I have. I understand they are "trashy" to some... I may feel certain ways about others' decisions as well but we are all humans and my opinion doesn't define who someone is.. I hope in the future you don't let tattoos turn you away from someone as their soul could be beautiful and y'alls time together priceless... none the less I appreciate your views and respect them.
 
I wish everyone the best the rest of the week, and hopefully everyone is living to the fullest and kicking life's a$$!
-Brian S

Does there need to be a point? I come here to share my experiences. Not sure I see a problem here? 

Well, we fall for it because we want it to be true. And it's not just grown men falling for hookers. It's women who fall for fuckboy shenanigans. It's gays who fall for player's manipulations. It's innocent people who walk wide-eyed into con-men's schemes. We fall for it because we hope that "this one will be different".
People want to be fooled, to a certain degree, because why would we even want to hire in the first place?
 
Such colorful responses. I was under the impression we could share our experiences here, even if there is no practical purpose to the sharing itself. Perhaps others have different views on this. Well, it makes the world go round.

You are fine booking another massage, I would say. Just don’t go into it with the expectation of sex. Consider that he may have just been super horny THAT day and he may not be on your next visit. If you want more than a massage for sure, hit him up, mention his rentmen ad and pay for the full service.
 
If you do book a second massage and get the same good service as your first visit - tip again like you did before. I don’t see the need to pay the escort rate if you book a massage and get a little more, but less than the full ‘boyfriend experience’. My $0.02.

Hello Guys! This is long overdue but I felt it was time to try and interact up here as well as give a low down on some things about me and maybe clear up some stuff. Someone even said my ad was fake which gave me a laugh as I am real and breathing!!!
 
For any that don't know me I am Brian Strowkes, actor for many sites in the past such as Next Door, Active Duty, Kink , Dirty Tony, and more... I am based in Vegas not any of the small cities my ad sometimes says like Rapid City, etc ( this is because in Vegas there is either a LEO or Jealous Escort posing as so and harrasing prominent guys in the city) I love meeting new people so please reach out if you are coming to the area, I may just be around. I constantly travel to LA, SF, DC, Palm Spring, Denver, PHX, Philly, NYC, Boston, Ohio, Chicago, Baltimore, Raleigh, Miami, Texas, Salt Lake, Pittsburgh, Buffalo/Niagara Falls and a few others also.
 
This brings me to my next point the people who despite not even meeting get up here and try to bad mouth me... I am not a flake and besides the rare emergency that comes up in life you can guarantee I will be there if treated with respect during communication. With that being said I kind of wanted to break down some of the things that are off putting for me when communicating with prospective dates and also just some generals things about me:
 
1. If you just message "Hi" initially (that's it just Hi), I used to reply but just realized 99% of these aren't serious and waste time. If you are the serious 1% please just please introduce yourself a little more.
 
2. You fail to read my interests that are clearly listed on the profile and continue to ask unnecessary questions.
 
3. " How much for sex" or any similar explicit question is going to instantly sketch me out.. I am available for my time .
 
4. If I provide you with my donation for time and you come back in a offensive low ball manner and derogatory comment.
 
5. I always can usually host or travel when in a city for the same rate for time both ways.
 
6.Asking for more pictures or more explicit/private photos... My ad photos are current and nude mostly.. and are also listed by date. I haven't gotten fat ( This is the funniest question I get asked)
 
7. I may be kind of straight forward when setting up but if we confirm expect a sweet sweet southern boy to show up. I have to weed out the aggressive and rude dates as I prefer to not meet them for my safety.
 
8. I wrestle or play tennis tournaments while traveling usually so sometimes I do just get busy and can't reply instantly like some expect.. Sorry guys life happens but I also try to get back ASAP!!
 
I really hope this helps clear up some things or any confusion and I look forward to meeting all of you. If by chance we missed a connection in the past.. feel free to say hi again! If we have met say hi again up here Positive Vibes to everyone out here in this Jungle we are living in lol
Link - https://rent.men/Brianstrowkes

You can tell a lot about the poster by who 'likes' their posts.
 
Trolls always travel in packs

@MikeSinz , this doesn’t really address your question, but for what it’s worth here would be my take had I never seen this thread.
 
I’m looking for someone in FLL I’d like to meet.
I come across your profile and am interested.
After I see the points of attraction I note your profile was created in 2015. Ok... good.
I see there’s a 1-star review... and 77 reviews total... so I open All Reviews.
I see another 1-star review by the same guy 3 weeks prior. That doesn’t make allot of sense so I look at the reviewer’s profile.
He has 2 posted reviews - both 1-stars of the same guy. I discount these 2 reviews and go back and scroll thru the remaining 75 reviews... they are all 5-star and span a long period of time.
The net net is that the 2 duplicated reviews don’t have any bearing on my decision in the context of the other factors.
(I didn’t VPN to look at any narrrative comments but if I were really concerned about someone I’d do that and also send a RM email to a reviewer.)
Of course any commentary on this forum or on the review site by someone known tells me allot more.
 
I know that doesn’t directly address your question but hopefully it adds some 3rd party perspective.

Agreed. Sometimes it takes me a day to get back to a provider, it wouldn't be unreasonable to give them the same amount of time to respond to me.

Agreed. Sometimes it takes me a day to get back to a provider, it wouldn't be unreasonable to give them the same amount of time to respond to me.

Apparently he's back
 
https://rent.men/GABRIELCLARK

Apparently he's back
 
https://rent.men/GABRIELCLARK

Plan Bs for me:
 
Plan B1: if I'm at home - do nothing. Don't hire. Resist the temptation, because this situation is when I've let crotch-think and frustration drive bad decisions.
 
Plan B2: if traveling - have a backup rentguy identified, researched. Don't waste his time with alot of communications; it's not fair to waste his time on a maybe. And, remember that Plan B1 might actually be the prudent thing, even when traveling.
 
The older I get, the more likely I am to do something else (not someone else,) entirely if rentguy plans dissolve.

Jayce is a quality guy.
 
Also TylertheBadWolf is set to be in Toronto. I don't think the dates on his rent.men ad are accurate, maybe contact him directly to check on his availability
https://rent.men/TylerTheBadWolf

Not racist at all. I don't think it's any more racist than using the word "pronto"

Not racist at all. I don't think it's any more racist than using the word "pronto"

somewhat off topic....clients wanting - and willing to pay for - an overnighter may want to consider, instead, an all-dayer......meet at 10 or 11am, go have lunch, walk around, mess around, take a short nap, go have some coffee, mess around, go have dinner, walk around, mess around.......then kick him to the curb about 9 or 10pm so you can get a full night's sleep.....all alone....in your own bed......with nobody bothering you with weird sleeping habits.......
 

As a client I've used it to meet people. It's worked well for me and I have no problem seeing the pics in Canada

I second this recommendation!

No info on Shawn, but I recommend Jayce ... he gives a great massage
 
https://rent.men/Jayce

I think I read somewhere something like:
"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"
 
Hypothetically.

I contacted him a couple of years ago and asked him about his services. He was polite and suggested that his services were limited to massage so I passed. The services he was willing to provide now may be different since I don't believe he had an escort ad on CM when I contacted him.
 
@Chuckball 's observation about the differences in rates may be a reflection of the different services he now appears willing to provide. Maybe make sure to let him know what services you are expecting him to provide.

I do the same as @ArVaGuy for the reasons set out by @escortrod