Is this question inappropriate?

[kaboom35]

An escort I want to meet with is traveling to my city soon. I have contacted him to set something up and he only had one spot available which is 10:00pm on his last day in the city...mentioning he was already booked the day of. Since he told me that he is meeting clients before me that day is it inappropriate to ask him if he still will be able to cum and orgasm by the time he gets to me?

 

I feel weird bringing this to the forums but here is where I’m coming from:

 

1. I prefer an escort to cum when in a session with me. If an escort said he won’t or couldn’t come that is a dealbreaker for me.

 

2. I actually have had some (not all) traveling escorts tell me in the past that if I book them later in the evening there is a possibility they “won’t cum” because they have seen several guys before me.

 

Any advice is appreciated.

[+ Keith30309]

I think I read somewhere something like:

"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"

 

Hypothetically.

[+ StLouisOct]

I think I read somewhere something like:

"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"

 

Hypothetically.

Well said sir! I have the same preference and on occasion have brought it up beforehand, but I should mention it as an important issue to me.

[rvwnsd]

I think I read somewhere something like:

"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"

 

Hypothetically.

Perfect!

[BaronArtz]

Are you looking for a WalMart or for a Neiman Marcus experience? Be honest.

[+ nycman]

You are the customer.

 

If it’s important information that you feel you need to make an informed purchase.....

 

...then it’s a “fair”question. Period.

 

He is free to answer it, or not answer it.

 

It’s a business decision. Plain and simple.

[Cody Converse]

I wouldn't be offended at all if a client asked me that. If you called a plumber, you wouldn't want to pay him if he only unclogged 80% of the drain. If you don't think you'll get a satisfactory experience from this guy, find someone who will, or postpone the meeting until you're first in line! The last thing I want is a disappointed client.

[+ purplekow]

I wouldn't be offended at all if a client asked me that. If you called a plumber, you wouldn't want to pay him if he only unclogged 80% of the drain. If you don't think you'll get a satisfactory experience from this guy, find someone who will, or postpone the meeting until you're first in line! The last thing I want is a disappointed client.

 

Hmmm Big difference here, with a plumber I do not care if his pipes are clean only mine. With the escort, in the end we both have to have clean pipes.

 

 

 

 

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[+ nycman]

Hmmm Big difference here, with a plumber I do not care if his pipes are clean only mine. With the escort, in the end we both have to have clean pipes.

Yeah....maybe that wasn’t the best “anal-ogy”.

[+ Eric Hassan]

Whenever people get stuck on sex questions, I suggest switching to a restaurant scenario to help clarify your thinking.

 

This is how it would apply here: you go to your favorite diner. You’ve been craving a mushroom swiss burger. When the waiter comes over to take your order, would you hesitate at all to make it clear that you specifically wanted mushroom and swiss on your burger? Of course not! You’d ask, and you’d get it. Or he’d say they don’t have swiss and suggest an alternate cheese, at which point you get to choose if you want that alternative. Or, he’d say “sure” but your burger comes without mushroom and swiss, at which point you might ask for it to be remedied. Or you won’t, and you’ll just have to suck it up.

 

In the same way that you’d ask for mushroom and swiss if that’s what you wanted, it’s entirely appropriate to ask for cum if you want it.

[+ StLouisOct]

Whenever people get stuck on sex questions, I suggest switching to a restaurant scenario to help clarify your thinking.

 

This is how it would apply here: you go to your favorite diner. You’ve been craving a mushroom swiss burger. When the waiter comes over to take your order, would you hesitate at all to make it clear that you specifically wanted mushroom and swiss on your burger? Of course not! You’d ask, and you’d get it. Or he’d say they don’t have swiss and suggest an alternate cheese, at which point you get to choose if you want that alternative. Or, he’d say “sure” but your burger comes without mushroom and swiss, at which point you might ask for it to be remedied. Or you won’t, and you’ll just have to suck it up.

 

In the same way that you’d ask for mushroom and swiss if that’s what you wanted, it’s entirely appropriate to ask for cum if you want it.

Well, I ALWAYS bring mushrooms and cheese with me to restaurants in case they forgot to shop that day.

[P Gren]

Whenever people get stuck on sex questions, I suggest switching to a restaurant scenario to help clarify your thinking.

 

This is how it would apply here: you go to your favorite diner. You’ve been craving a mushroom swiss burger. When the waiter comes over to take your order, would you hesitate at all to make it clear that you specifically wanted mushroom and swiss on your burger? Of course not! You’d ask, and you’d get it. Or he’d say they don’t have swiss and suggest an alternate cheese, at which point you get to choose if you want that alternative. Or, he’d say “sure” but your burger comes without mushroom and swiss, at which point you might ask for it to be remedied. Or you won’t, and you’ll just have to suck it up.

 

In the same way that you’d ask for mushroom and swiss if that’s what you wanted, it’s entirely appropriate to ask for cum if you want it.

I went to a Chinese restaurant in a small Washington State town last year and they had no tofu. Weird. I know, off topic.

[Trick]

I went to a Chinese restaurant in a small Washington State town last year and they had no tofu. Weird. I know, off topic.

 

Not really off-topic. If you wanted tofu, you had the right to know whether they had it or not.

[+ purplekow]

Whenever people get stuck on sex questions, I suggest switching to a restaurant scenario to help clarify your thinking.

 

This is how it would apply here: you go to your favorite diner. You’ve been craving a mushroom swiss burger. When the waiter comes over to take your order, would you hesitate at all to make it clear that you specifically wanted mushroom and swiss on your burger? Of course not! You’d ask, and you’d get it. Or he’d say they don’t have swiss and suggest an alternate cheese, at which point you get to choose if you want that alternative. Or, he’d say “sure” but your burger comes without mushroom and swiss, at which point you might ask for it to be remedied. Or you won’t, and you’ll just have to suck it up.

 

In the same way that you’d ask for mushroom and swiss if that’s what you wanted, it’s entirely appropriate to ask for cum if you want it.

I do not really like cum on my burgers, so I am not sure I get your point. Funny thing is I do not mind cum on my buns.

[+ azdr0710]

the only thing about all this that might concern me is that the provider...might....balk at a specific question like, "will you cum?".....inexperienced (or even some experienced) providers might suspect a sting and hesitate to answer at all.......

 

Keith's suggestion (post #2) is so utterly professional (and nearly non-sexual!) that I'd certainly use that style.......you do need to know what the provider can offer

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I've known escorts who save the cum shot for their last client of the day.

 

So ask.

[rossthebosssf]

You may also want to offer a multiple hour appointment. Some guys can only climax once a day. They may have to save themselves for others. By offering a multiple hour appointment you're more likely to get what you want.

[LaffingBear]

I would find it awkward to ask specifically "will you be able.....?"

 

But Id probably try making it about me, as in "I particularly enjoy......"

 

At least that way, its a bit less of a challenge regarding what he CAN do

 

Amazing the life circumstances when I apply the stuff I scoffed and yawned at during the dozens of management seminars I was forced to attend..... I'd like to send an anonymous text to everyone sitting in a seminar on communucations this week...."hey, dont laugh. I use these techniques when negotiating with hookers."

[MrHarryOtter]

will be able to cum and orgasm by the time he gets to me?

That’s why I don’t promise loads to my clients!!! Firstly cause it takes days for me to cum... secondly, I often don’t have control over my body. The opposite has happened... it was so good that I came within the first 30 minutes.

 

And my opinion is... no question is inappropriate or stupid. I always encourage clients contacting me to ask as many questions as possible so they can feel comfortable with choosing me or not!

[KCRob]

I think I read somewhere something like:

"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"

 

Hypothetically.

 

Well said, Keith! That is an excellent tip that I will certainly try.

[marylander1940]

An escort I want to meet with is traveling to my city soon. I have contacted him to set something up and he only had one spot available which is 10:00pm on his last day in the city...mentioning he was already booked the day of. Since he told me that he is meeting clients before me that day is it inappropriate to ask him if he still will be able to cum and orgasm by the time he gets to me?

 

I feel weird bringing this to the forums but here is where I’m coming from:

 

1. I prefer an escort to cum when in a session with me. If an escort said he won’t or couldn’t come that is a dealbreaker for me.

 

2. I actually have had some (not all) traveling escorts tell me in the past that if I book them later in the evening there is a possibility they “won’t cum” because they have seen several guys before me.

 

Any advice is appreciated.

 

Give him a good tip. Some escorts don't cum unless is for a couple of hours or an overnight, after all they're humans.

I think I read somewhere something like:

"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"

 

Hypothetically.

 

Exactly!

 

We can always say it in a classy way that at the same time keeps us away from any issues with law enforcement agents...

Edited May 19, 2018 by marylander1940

[AJ Doyle]

An escort I want to meet with is traveling to my city soon. I have contacted him to set something up and he only had one spot available which is 10:00pm on his last day in the city...mentioning he was already booked the day of. Since he told me that he is meeting clients before me that day is it inappropriate to ask him if he still will be able to cum and orgasm by the time he gets to me?

 

I feel weird bringing this to the forums but here is where I’m coming from:

 

1. I prefer an escort to cum when in a session with me. If an escort said he won’t or couldn’t come that is a dealbreaker for me.

 

2. I actually have had some (not all) traveling escorts tell me in the past that if I book them later in the evening there is a possibility they “won’t cum” because they have seen several guys before me.

 

Any advice is appreciated.

I agree with azdr0710"Old Timer"

If you flat out ask me if I'm gonna cum I am gonna feel uncomfortable and feel like you are part of some sting operation. I would probably just turn down your booking to avoid the risk. A better way to do this...like others have suggested...is to tell the provider what you hope will happen. Don't flat out ask for an answer. Just share that you think it would be Hot if your provider was able to cum during your session. Then it leaves it open for the provider to respond..."yeah that would be fucking Hot!" So you get your answer without asking for it...and without making the provider nervous or uncomfortable.