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RIP. I hope Daddy and Hooboy are having a beer and reminiscing.
Thanks to the moderators for all the hard and thankless work you did with a special big hug for @Cooper .
Deepest sympathy to all the forum, members, escorts, family and friends.
This site will be missed.

The Sinner, on USA channel is a must see binge. It just wrapped the season and I watched weekly but it would make for a perfect binge... Congrats to the gorgeous and Talented Matt Bomer for a season well done. Playing the str8, married and tormented professor Jamie Burns, who's dark past comes back to haunt him, it has suspense, intrigue, drama, surprise and homo-erotic undertones... It will pull you in.... Make some popcorn and sit down for a watch-see....
 

One suggestion is to ascertain whether or not your cumming is important to your client. There are probably quite a few clients (like myself) who will find that very important, but there will also likely be quite a few clients who don't care (or just want to cum themselves). Don't shoot if not important to who you are with.
Intermittent massage only days @BuffaloKyle , or reserving the juice for longer sessions (as you mentioned) are legitimate options.

personal possessions yes, but personal safety, identity theft, depending upon your jurisdiction- they could even force you to take legal proceedings to make them leave, claiming some kind of tenancy at sufferance
 
What can I say, as much as I try to get past it-- the attempted extortion by an escort on me has still fucked me up till this day on issues of trust.

I only just saw "The Last Picture Show" last May, in the thick of watching a TON of Turner Classic Movies for a couple months while both the film/TV industry and escort jobs were shut down. Incredible.
 
Was happy to see her in the Starz/Amazon Prime series "American Gods" as well, few years back (I've worked on that one a bunch, but not in the scenes she was in). Was happy to see she was still alive.

I would hire!

Here!

Wrong place!

Hello and happy new year.
 
Your post seems to basically equate escorting with casual sex without factoring in the explicitly transactional nature of the exchange and possibly unhealthy motives or risks. Perhaps I missed something.
 
For example, how would you feel if you were seeing an escort and then realized he hated what he was doing but was desperate for money? Any qualms?
 
Or if you heard of an emotionally vulnerable client who was desperately lonely and being exploited by a manipulative escort who was bleeding the client dry, and the client was willing to take out loans and risk serious financial damage to have more time with the escort to live out a sad fantasy of real love. Do you see any moral concerns in that situation?

I saw him (again) very recently. Total class act and one of the best escorts I have ever met. A definite repeat for me.

I was worried when they started season 2 because there were so many rumors about bringing in characters from the other Star Wars properties, but overall I was very pleased with how they worked it out. Filoni has a knack for doing 'fanservice' in a way that still brings something of value to the story.
 
I particularly like that I can watch it and at one point appreciate the tonal homages to Leone and Kurasawa and other film greats, but still have me reliving the simple joy of my 12 year old self watching a Star Wars movie in the theater.

I don't consider it immoral but it isn't any sense of pride for me either. The experience itself that I have with the escort also helps my thoughts on this subject (i.e. a good experience makes me feel better about it and the opposite as well).
 
I agree that decriminalization would improve this for all.

I usually keep some extra cash in a separate pocket from the fee (easily accessible) and tip if we go over on time or he has a lower than market rate and provides a memorable experience. Other than that, or if he has a high rate for the market, I don’t tip.

I don't tip (other than maybe leaving an extra $10 because I only had 20s or something). Provider rates are high enough that I assume tipping is not expected or customary.

I would say the provider missed out on a potentially awesome client.
 
It is ok to give someone a second chance (or not) but definitely if you do, do not outlay extra money for things like a hotel etc. until you can establish/repair trust.

I would say the provider missed out on a potentially awesome client.
 
It is ok to give someone a second chance (or not) but definitely if you do, do not outlay extra money for things like a hotel etc. until you can establish/repair trust.

He has posted recent pictures in his ad showing exactly what he looks like. I have seen him more than once (including recently) and wouldn't hesitate to give my endorsement.
 
I agree with everything @Howard123 said. He is definitely an English speaker.

Yeah don't join if your main intention is to watch the videos for pleasure. In most cases the videos are very short clips (unless they're porn stars). The videos are best used for reference to get a better physical idea of the provider and his physical features.

Yes. If you invite him to dinner without making it clear to the escort beforehand that it is off the clock, you are definitely expected to pay his hourly rate.
 
If he asks you out to dinner after to discuss real estate, then no, you should not be expected to pay his hourly rate.
 
As others have suggested, definitely clarify before doing it so no one is left unprepared.

My two cents....Theft requires intent. We definitely cannot assume there was intent based on the story given.

My two cents....Theft requires intent. We definitely cannot assume there was intent based on the story given.

Yes. If you invite him to dinner without making it clear to the escort beforehand that it is off the clock, you are definitely expected to pay his hourly rate.
 
If he asks you out to dinner after to discuss real estate, then no, you should not be expected to pay his hourly rate.
 
As others have suggested, definitely clarify before doing it so no one is left unprepared.

You are right about this. It leans towards negative, but there can be valid reasons for such a change. Personally, it is not disqualifying, but it comes with additional due diligence imho.

I guess the common theme with escorts becoming regulars with me are:
 
Friendly, respectful, reliable, trustworthy, appear happy to see me
we have good chemistry
they don't treat me like an ATM or make me feel taking for granted
they minimize cell phone usage when with me / give me their attention