TIPPING

[Maximiliam]

How do you decide if you tip or not ? If and escort ask you what about Tip what would you do ?

[John]

Tipping has gotten out of hand in America. You never tip the owner of the business. An escort operating on his own is the owner of the business. Don't tip. Reward him by hiring again for a longer period, pay for upgraded advertising, write good reviews, tell your friends, but DON'T TIP. Period.

 

PS: if the escort is sent by an agency, tipping is appropriate.

 

PPS: there have been other threads on this.

[+ azdr0710]

Please search for "tipping" in the forum search bar. A perennial topic that goes back to hooboy days in the forum. As many different answers as there are forum posters!

[Maximiliam]

Tipping has gotten out of hand in America. You never tip the owner of the business. An escort operating on his own is the owner of the business. Don't tip. Reward him by hiring again for a longer period, pay for upgraded advertising, write good reviews, tell your friends, but DON'T TIP. Period.

 

PS: if the escort is sent by an agency, tipping is appropriate.

 

PPS: there have been other threads on this.

Gotcha kuz last guy I hired was so extraordinary, it was so good that I tip $50 extra . But okay I won't tip next time

[Maximiliam]

Please search for "tipping" in the forum search bar. A perennial topic that goes back to hooboy days in the forum. As many different answers as there are forum posters!

Thank you

[Merboy]

I mean if you're paying thousands of dollars for one night then is a tip really necessary? Just hand over $3,000 lol.

[+ keroscenefire]

I think it's good to tip but definitely not mandatory. I also think it depends on the circumstance somewhat. Obviously tipping if the escort was just amazing in every way but also I kind of think of tipping as a way of maybe establishing guys who I want to be regulars with and maybe spend more time with in the future. Just as a way of them maybe remembering me a little bit more from the crowd of clients they see.

 

While I don't expect any future favors or deals just because I have tipped (especially only one time), I have noticed that some of the guys who I have tipped were maybe willing to do a longer session at a slightly more favorable rate or whatever.

 

But if it was kind of a mediocre or overpriced experience and I am not interested in having the guy as a regular, I don't typically bother tipping. I'd say it's been about 75% tip, 25% no tip for me.

[+ FrankR]

Gotcha kuz last guy I hired was so extraordinary, it was so good that I tip $50 extra . But okay I won't tip next time

I choose to tip for good service - never extravagant. It is a choice that we all get to make. There are many on the forum with strong opinions - but you will have to decide for yourself.

[TT3690]

I don't tip (other than maybe leaving an extra $10 because I only had 20s or something). Provider rates are high enough that I assume tipping is not expected or customary.

[Jim_n_NYC]

LOL, I could go on such a rant about tipping in general (not necessarily escorts) since misconceptions about it bug me so much......but I won't.

[Studsearcher]

I usually keep some extra cash in a separate pocket from the fee (easily accessible) and tip if we go over on time or he has a lower than market rate and provides a memorable experience. Other than that, or if he has a high rate for the market, I don’t tip.

[down_to_business]

How do you decide if you tip or not ? If and escort ask you what about Tip what would you do ?

 

The second part of that question is --- I would definitely not appreciate being asked for a tip. It has happened only twice. I wouldn't in that case, period, and probably wouldn't rehire.

 

The first part, how I decide is a combination of many factors like others have mentioned.... including rate and going above and beyond (i.e. the escort drove 1 hour to meet me, or the escort picked me up at the airport). Most of the time, I reward good service by repeat hiring and great service with longer appointments in the future (i.e. overnight, weekend etc.).

[Epigonos]

Azdr0710 is correct. Over the years this topic has been discussed a gazillion times. There is no standard, correct, or right answer. The best answer is do what makes you (the client) happy – PERIOD!!!!! If YOU (the client) want to tip then TIP if you don’t then DON’T TIP.

[jawjateck]

I don't recall being asked for a tip. If it happened, it wasn't memorable. A few guys have tried to re-negotiate the terms of our meeting, while in session, which is the equivalent of asking for a tip. I handled each case with my usual charm and grace. I informed them that they can count on me to be a man of my word. I concluded those sessions, and they never heard from me again.

[+ keroscenefire]

I don't tip (other than maybe leaving an extra $10 because I only had 20s or something). Provider rates are high enough that I assume tipping is not expected or customary.

 

Yeah..it's usually just an extra $20 from me at most when I tip. The exception is the one overnight that I did for my birthday when I actually did tip $100, but it was to a couple so it was really like $50 for each of them. And they really did go above and beyond...they gave me a birthday present, really planned out the evening, bought drinks and props and other fun things. They made it really special.

[cmennow]

I just had someone quote me their rate +tip . How do you know ahead of time that you deserve a tip? Who's making your rate for an hour on a normal basis? Needless to say...I told the guy thanks and I would get back to him if that works for me.

[Danny-Darko]

This has been discussed many times before. While it is appreciated, there should be no need. The escort is already getting 100% of his fee charged per hours and in cash, tax free which is a lot more than most people across the world make in a day or week of hard work! Now in a brothel or though agency then it's a different story and could be considered.

[excelntsvc]

i hired a guy during the holidays. i'd spent the morning doing holiday baking and the house smelled like a LIfetime movie set. he joked about it when he arrived and once during our play. after he showered and was leaving I handed him a bag with a rum cake in it ... we both laughed about the "tip" but two days later i got a text saying "will play for rum cake!" ... sometimes it is the little things that humanize the situation

[+ Coolwave35]

I have a personal rule that I tip 50%. I apply it evenly across the entire service industry to meals, aestheticians, men etc. The only exceptions are for absolutely poor service. Then I tip 20% and don’t return. I think tipping is a personal decision and what others do doesn’t necessarily impact what I choose to do.

[+ Pensant]

I consider the clothing I give providers to be better than a tip.

[NJmusclelover]

I only tip at restaurants and haircuts

[+ ButchAtl]

I once received this response from an escort when inquiring about his rate: " It's $ xxx(rate), plus tip."

[Kent1972]

There’s only been twice in my life when I did not tip. I tip everyone for everything, though, and am fortunate enough to be in a position where I can afford it. I tip barbers, musicians, plumbers, artists, contractors, tailors, delivery workers, and just about everyone else. I tip extra if they let me lick their armpits and anuses.

[+ azdr0710]

For those who'd like to tip, but cash might seem awkward or insulting, a gift card, box of candy, or similar might be easier. I often ask providers for their favorite grocery store and get a gift card from there for them. That way, they'll remember me later! Win-win!

[PetetKsfo]

I have a personal rule that I tip 50%. I apply it evenly across the entire service industry to meals, aestheticians, men etc. The only exceptions are for absolutely poor service. Then I tip 20% and don’t return. I think tipping is a personal decision and what others do doesn’t necessarily impact what I choose to do.

You're an amazingly generous man. I agree it is a personal choice.

I never expect a tip, but always appreciate one when given.